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Onwards and Upwards - the cvq/ns support and hot chocolate thread

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Habbibu · 06/09/2008 20:33

Since we've nearly tipped the last one over the 1000 posts mark, here's the new thread for cvq and for her friends to help this lovely lady to keep on getting better.

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thumbwitch · 13/09/2008 01:50

if you can bear it, can I ask, do you think this is related to the sh?

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Habbibu · 13/09/2008 01:50

((((hug))))

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thumbwitch · 13/09/2008 01:51

of course, which is why (just tell me to stop badgering you if it's getting on your nerves) I keep badgering you about the EFT - it WILL help to take away the dreams and the power they have to hurt you - and that will take away the last vestige of the power he had over you as well.

thumbwitch · 13/09/2008 01:53

remember you are a diamond - you might feel like you are coated in shit but you are still clean and shinybright in yourself, you are not the shit. The shit can be removed. Diamonds are the hardest substance and survive pretty much most things.

CvQ · 13/09/2008 01:54

i dont know.i never thought a bout it

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Habbibu · 13/09/2008 01:55

stay with us, sweetie. I know that what you've just done is terribly hard, and am so proud of you.

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thumbwitch · 13/09/2008 01:56

well, you don't need to start thinking about it now, but it might be worth bringing up at your counselling sesh. When is that going to start?

CvQ · 13/09/2008 01:56

sorry im not replying quickly enough.im bit spaced out now.

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Habbibu · 13/09/2008 01:56

tw is right - the dirt is just vile, but it's not you - it external to you, and it's not who you are.

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Habbibu · 13/09/2008 01:58

Oh, sorry - not trying to harrass you! Take all the time you need.

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thumbwitch · 13/09/2008 01:58

I am thinking of you now CvQ - you are a shiny bright diamond surrounded by a warm fuzzy purple glow - you are safe in the purple glow, you are made of such strong stuff that you are able to withstand any kind of damage. It looks amazing - and beautiful.

thumbwitch · 13/09/2008 01:59

Ds has just woken up - gotta go feed him but will be back shortly - hang in there beautiful purple diamond girl

CvQ · 13/09/2008 02:03

it starts on thursady but not to do with the rape.i cant talkabout it.

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Habbibu · 13/09/2008 02:06

The counselling is for the other thing that came up that you talked about earlier - is that right?

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CvQ · 13/09/2008 02:09

if you mean sh then no.oh i am a joy arent i

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Habbibu · 13/09/2008 02:13

No, I don't mean that - I thought you said earlier that there was stuff you needed to talk about once your mum had gone - forgive me if I'm misremembering. And you know - you are a joy. I hope that isn't a trite or crap thing to say, because you feel weighed down with difficulty and pain - but you, this lovely woman I've had the privilege to get to know - you are a joy and a marvel.

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thumbwitch · 13/09/2008 02:16

no worries if it's not relevant. do you get any counselling for the rape now? I assume you must have had some.

if you can, borrow my purple fuzzy diamond image for yourself - it will help you to feel better. this isn't perfect, can't see the diamond really, but helps. this is a nice pic too.

thumbwitch · 13/09/2008 02:18

and yes, you are a joy - at the moment your light is a little dimmed by your trauma but it is still there

CvQ · 13/09/2008 02:19

then yes it involves my mum but doesnt but i really cant say anymore.

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Habbibu · 13/09/2008 02:20

Oh, sorry, cvq. I didn't mean to pry at all. Do you want to get that deleted? Are you going back to rape crisis soon?

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CvQ · 13/09/2008 02:20

i had a really good day thursday.can i have thursday back please

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Habbibu · 13/09/2008 02:22

There will be thursdays again, my love. Better ones, even. And also good wednesdays and fridays and sundays and the rest.

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thumbwitch · 13/09/2008 02:23

sure, bring on the time machine - back to Thursday with you!

CvQ · 13/09/2008 02:27

i keep typing stuff and deleating.im so scared of saying the wrongthing or something i could regret

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Habbibu · 13/09/2008 02:32

can you work out what you mean by the wrong thing? No-one is going to judge anything you say here, and you can get anything deleted.

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