Love too to Lem, Ed, Silvery, and anyone else reading.
Kids are tough, all we have to be is good enough. I wasn't many a time, and they are still talking to me!
The link was good Ciq, I am shattered a lot of the time, and stress drains me. Bed is a safe place.
I had an interview yesterday and got offered a job
what have I done??? 
Can I cope? Probably not 