I’ve been watching Bear. It’s horrid, you don’t deserve any of that shite. You are always fair in your points of view and are willing to consider and reflect on those of others. I mean, we obviously disagree on the key issue of brexit and politics, but that’s no reason for me to not have full respect and time for your opinions on the matter!
I am just one person who voted brexit in 70 + million, and I would be a fool to expect everyone to align to my opinions on it, especially the tiny nuances within. Many people voted remain, they are devastated about the result and I totally respect and understand that. It doesn’t change my opinion, but it doesn’t mean I have no empathy for their position or want to hear their (non insulting) considered points and arguments. Largely because I like to think I am not a massive twat! 
You didn’t ‘literally’ kill anyone by voting tory, anymore than I ‘literally killed’ anyone by voting for tony blair’! 
Politics is so nuanced. Once people retreat to their respective trenches and just refuse to hear anyone elses POV, they are no better than the politicians they claim to hate so much.
The fact is, all parties have major negatives and some positives. It’s about choosing the least worst option mostly. Sad but true.
In my case, the brexit deal could have been better, but it’s good enough for me. Brexit is my key policy issue right now, so therefore MY vote will go tory. Next time, it might go elsewhere, depending on what policies are key to me. I hate this tribalism around party politics. I believe that swing voting is a common sense approach, as parties change, policies change, voters change.
Give it 5 yrs and I might be back here crying into my beer about being stuck in that same tory stronghold!
Anyway, a bit of a ramble, but you get my drift! You are welcome here! 