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Ethical dilemmas

Friend from the past asked if she could stay with us for 6 months

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RollyPol · 08/04/2024 22:29

An old friend (were out of touch for 16 years, shared accommodation in student days in London) who is a locum biomed scientist got an offer to work for 6 months in a hospital near to mine. She asked if there is a room she can stay in whilst working there. She did not say anything about paying for the room, but I don't want a lodger anyway, I just want peace and quiet with my dc and dh. They don't know her and I don't think they want a stranger in the house. What do I say to her? I don't think I want anyone who is not a family member with me for 6 months either.

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OneSingleThreadOfGold · 09/04/2024 10:48

I'm a people pleaser with boundary issues but even I would have no difficulty saying no to this one!

muddyford · 09/04/2024 10:56

Just say no, it doesn't work for you .

DottieMoon · 09/04/2024 11:02

What do you mean you don't know what to say to her? Just say NO!

MrsSkylerWhite · 09/04/2024 11:07

Meet blunt with blunt. “No”.

tennesseewhiskey1 · 06/05/2024 12:17

Just say no.

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