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Elderly parents

My mother is dying and I'm racing to get to her - no point to this thread.

324 replies

SphincterSaysWhat · 28/10/2023 08:59

That's it really.

We're abroad and she's in the NE England. She has had a massive stroke and I'm alone, racing to the airport to get a flight I might miss.

I want to see her before she goes. She's no conscious.

My sister is with her.

My heart is broken into one million piece. No need to respond - I'm just alone (husband back at resort with the kids) so just chatting I suppose. I've had an hour sleep overnight, I look like an actual muppet (crying eyes).

She is 73 and a fire cracker. She's remarkable. My heart is broken.

OP posts:
ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 28/10/2023 18:19

Glad you made it. Glad you have have each other, your sister and you. And your mum.

This will be me one day, so I really hoped you would make it on time.

BrutusMcDogface · 28/10/2023 18:28

I just shed a tear for you, op. So glad you made it. Sending love ❤️

LIZS · 28/10/2023 18:49

So glad you made it. Do try to eat though, you need to keep well yourself while you wait.

headcheffer · 28/10/2023 18:52

I was in this situation last week. My heart is with you. I promise she can here you, keep talking and I'm so glad you made it ❤️

Motnight · 28/10/2023 18:59

Thank goodness you made it x

heathspeedwell · 28/10/2023 19:02

So glad to hear that you are there with your mum and sister, all together supporting and loving her.

Ratfinkstinkypink · 28/10/2023 19:07

I am so glad you made it, I wish you all peace Flowers

Seriously79 · 28/10/2023 19:10

Love to you and your family x

heathspeedwell · 28/10/2023 19:11

It's so unfair that you lost your dad so young, and now your mum is critically ill at only 73. I hope you can take some comfort from the fact that you clearly have such a beautiful loving family. Please try to look after yourself in the coming hours even if you don't feel like eating or drinking.

IncognitoMam · 28/10/2023 19:12

That's good that you made it. Try to take slow deep breaths and eat, especially protein or soup. It's good you have your sister.
My sister and I spent a week with DM before she died. She was elderly though. Your DM isn't that old 😞 Praying for a miracle 🙏

Notmetoo · 28/10/2023 19:13

My mother irritated me and I'm sure I irritate my daughter. It's natural. I'm sure she knows you love her.
I'm so sorry I had a similar rush when mother was dying so I know how you feel.
There is nothing anyone can say other than sorry and try and be kind to yourself.

SkyFullofStars1975 · 28/10/2023 19:16

Just take this time for what it is. And do what feels right/instinctive.

Those hours I spent with my Dad in his last few days will stay with me forever.

Wishing you strength and peace Flowers

NotSorry · 28/10/2023 19:21

Glad you made it - I had to do the same thing but I had to fly to a foreign country and I made it with a couple of days to spare - sending love to your family

NeedToChangeName · 28/10/2023 19:25

I'm glad airport staff were kind and helpful. In future, you won't remember their names or exactly what they said / did, but you will remember their kindness and compassion at a difficult time xxx

Pashazade · 28/10/2023 19:28

So glad you made it FlowersFlowers

PermanentTemporary · 28/10/2023 19:29

Our best wishes to you 💐

lemonyellows · 28/10/2023 19:29

So glad you made it. Xx

fancyfrogs · 28/10/2023 19:32

So glad you made it. Sending love x

TidyDancer · 28/10/2023 19:33

Sending lots of love OP. I'm glad you got there. Thinking of your family tonight.

SisterMichaelsHabit · 28/10/2023 19:35

💐

Rosenoire · 28/10/2023 19:35

All love OP. The best children are the hardest on themselves x

SquigglePigs · 28/10/2023 19:49

So pleased you made it, and that you were looked after on the way.

Hope you and your sister can draw strength from each other. Look after yourself too.

thesandwich · 28/10/2023 19:50

Sending you strength. 🌺🌺

Mummyoflittledragon · 28/10/2023 19:52

I’ve just picked up your thread. I’m so glad you made it. Sending love. Xx

Chimchar · 28/10/2023 19:55

I'm so glad you got to your Mum. Wishing you and your mum and sister a peaceful night. X

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