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At Home Insemination - Buddies?

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H8624 · 15/02/2020 17:58

For several reasons hubby and I are going down the route of at home insemination. It can be quite a lonely process I think - does anyone want to join me and we can go through it together/share tips etc?

Bit of background - we've tried for 2 months now both unsuccessful. I'm using clearblue ovulation detector to get my peak, and we've been doing the insemination every day from when I get my flashing smiley to the day after the peak, give or take the odd day! Using 10ml syringes and laying down afterwards for 20-30 mins.

Finding the 2ww a real struggle, and my heart breaks every time AF comes! I know it's only been 2 cycles and could take a lot longer so need to be patient! Altho feel like everyone around me is having babies which doesn't help!

Anyway sorry for going on - anyone want to join and share their experiences/tips? Need some motivation and hope!

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H8624 · 28/09/2020 11:10

@ChunkyButFunky87 did it only drop for 1 day?

Keeping my fingers crossed this is your lucky month 😊

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Waiting2BAMummy · 28/09/2020 11:42

That looks positive @ChunkyButFunky87 temps are definitely going in the right direction. Fingers crossed.

@Happyotamus welcome to the madness!

Busybee143 · 28/09/2020 13:22

@ChunkyButFunky87 I'm excited for you!!!

Coolhand2 · 29/09/2020 02:37

@Happyotamus, welcome🥰 Hope you ladies are doing well, I have been mia, but I am back, getting close to my o-day so I have to start the insemination. I am cd11 today.

Waiting2BAMummy · 30/09/2020 16:46

Hi ladies, today is CD33 and no sign of the witch. I've been back through the last year and my longest cycle has been 32 days so she should arrive today but no sign. Have had some odd cramping but nothing like usual. Based on my ovusense chart people have said I haven’t ovulated but surely my cycle would be shorter not longer.
Do I test or am I clutching?

Busybee143 · 30/09/2020 17:19

@Waiting2BAMummy Test!!!! 😁 Good luck!!!!

ChunkyButFunky87 · 30/09/2020 17:24

Test @Waiting2BAMummy and hopefully give us some good news . .

My mums just had a heart attack earlier, she's ok waiting for operation to have stents fitted and can't go and see her because of bloody Covid Sad

I need cheering up x

Waiting2BAMummy · 30/09/2020 17:35

Oh no @ChunkyButFunky87 I hope she’s okay.

Thinking of you....

Have had more cramps since I posted so thinking I should probably wait until the morning and see what happens

ChunkyButFunky87 · 30/09/2020 18:14

ah crap, well you never know x

Keeping everything crossed for you @Waiting2BAMummy x

Busybee143 · 30/09/2020 19:44

@ChunkyButFunky87 such sad news, hope your mum will be OK. Sending you a big hug. @Waiting2BAMummy I had bad cramps the first few weeks of being pregnant. Scan tomorrow ladies, ill be 10 weeks, I'm hoping there will be a healthy baby in there!

Waiting2BAMummy · 30/09/2020 20:00

Exciting @Busybee143 good luck xx

ChunkyButFunky87 · 30/09/2020 20:33

Good luck @Busybee143 xx

I just went out for a run (still trying to be better, still dying each time!) get back to my car and I see a message, My mum has had her operation - she was rushed through just didnt bloody tell us!

I'm so glad it's done though, she's feeling ok and should be out in a couple days xx

Waiting2BAMummy · 30/09/2020 20:45

That’s good news @ChunkyButFunky87 in some respects it’s probably better you didn’t know as you would have been even more worried and at least it’s done now and she can start to heal.

Well done on the running it would have been so easy not to bother tonight as you’re worried about your Mum but you did it anyway - go you! 💪👍

Busybee143 · 30/09/2020 21:26

@ChunkyButFunky87 glad to hear about your mum, I'm sure the run let you work off some stress. I miss running, I've been so knackered!

Coolhand2 · 01/10/2020 03:17

Sorry about your mom @ChunkyButFunky87, glad they were able to operate her quickly. God bless her.
I am excited for you @Busybee143 you get to see baby🥰 is this your first?
You should test @Waiting2BAMummy

Busybee143 · 01/10/2020 06:54

@Coolhand2 it is my first from my body yeah, my wife had our daughter in 2019. I'm very nervous as last time I had an early scan it was bad news but this is a new pregnancy so fingers crossed.

Waiting2BAMummy · 01/10/2020 11:14

No AF yet but did a cheap test this morning and BFN so I guess I just await the landing of the broom.

Busybee143 · 01/10/2020 13:41

@Waiting2BAMummy what test did you use? Your not out yet

Waiting2BAMummy · 01/10/2020 13:47

Just a cheap fermometer stick test @Busybee143 what time is your scan?

ChunkyButFunky87 · 01/10/2020 14:36

Good luck today @Busybee143

@Waiting2BAMummy you're not out til your out. I've never got a positive on any test until 4+5 (the day after the end of when my period should have ended), don't know why, so there's still time.

I'm still waiting for AF myself, CD 29 today, last month came on CD 23, so really it's the waiting game this weekend x

Busybee143 · 01/10/2020 15:02

@ChunkyButFunky87 @Waiting2BAMummy I'm keeping everything crossed for you guys!
It's at half 5, its really hitting me that it could all go to shit, I'm really nervous and scared.

Waiting2BAMummy · 01/10/2020 15:13

Sending you positive vibes @Busybee143 you have just as much chance that all will be well stay positive x

Waiting2BAMummy · 01/10/2020 18:24

Hope you got on okay @Busybee143

ChunkyButFunky87 · 01/10/2020 18:28

Literally just popped on to check too @Waiting2BAMummy! We're all behind you @Busybee143 hoping for good news x

Busybee143 · 01/10/2020 21:48

Hello, thank you so much for your kind supportive words guys, it honestly really means a lot! I actually saw a baby in there today inside me! I couldn't believe it! I was so shocked there were tears of relief! I'm 5 days behind what I thought but apparently that's normal, a nice little strong heartbeat too. I'm so in love!

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