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At Home Insemination - Buddies?

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H8624 · 15/02/2020 17:58

For several reasons hubby and I are going down the route of at home insemination. It can be quite a lonely process I think - does anyone want to join me and we can go through it together/share tips etc?

Bit of background - we've tried for 2 months now both unsuccessful. I'm using clearblue ovulation detector to get my peak, and we've been doing the insemination every day from when I get my flashing smiley to the day after the peak, give or take the odd day! Using 10ml syringes and laying down afterwards for 20-30 mins.

Finding the 2ww a real struggle, and my heart breaks every time AF comes! I know it's only been 2 cycles and could take a lot longer so need to be patient! Altho feel like everyone around me is having babies which doesn't help!

Anyway sorry for going on - anyone want to join and share their experiences/tips? Need some motivation and hope!

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Coolhand2 · 21/08/2020 01:27

CD1 for me, and I thought it was coming in a few days.
Wishing you luck @Busybee143
@Waiting2BAMummy in the long run it makes sense to buy one of those because we spend a lot of money TTC. 🤞 For you ladies

Busybee143 · 21/08/2020 02:52

@Coolhand2 good luck for the new cycle. What do these bracelets do then?

Coolhand2 · 21/08/2020 15:32

@Busybee143 the Ava bracelet measures your temperature and other things too then predicts 6 fertile days. Unlike taking bbt you don't have to wake up at the same time, it just needs a few hrs of sleep time.

Waiting2BAMummy · 21/08/2020 18:49

Good luck for your test tomorrow @Busybee143

@ChunkyButFunky87 you’ve gone quiet hope you’re doing okay

Busybee143 · 21/08/2020 21:22

@Coolhand2 ah right interesting, sounds good.
@Waiting2BAMummy thank you so much, if I don't see progression I'm going to be gutted, only time will tell eh

@ChunkyButFunky87 @ellabars you guys ok??

ChunkyButFunky87 · 21/08/2020 21:30

@Waiting2BAMummy @Busybee143 I'm here! Lol

So I've spent the last couple of weeks doing C25K and improving my food, down half a stone and just trying to be a healthier me! I hope it's working, my boss randomly messaged me yday and said "you look the most chilled/happy I've seen you in a long time" so I hope it's just having positive effects all round.

I got the temp but haven't ended up using as I wake 1-2 times a night with DD and it says need to not move but she usually wakes to come in our bed 5am ish so I've held off

@Coolhand2 does anyone question your Ava?! I was looking but worried people at work would know what it is and give the game away lol

I'm just coming up to our next round, trying to note CM which appears to be changing for the positive so I reckon we'll be doing Sunday, Tuesday and Thursday all being well

Waiting2BAMummy · 21/08/2020 21:30

Fingers crossed @Busybee143 I’m so hoping for a nice dark line for you c

Waiting2BAMummy · 21/08/2020 21:34

That’s great @ChunkyButFunky87 chilled is exactly where you need to be. Sounds like you’re making great strides to be healthier too and losing half a stone is great.

Fingers crossed this will be your month you so deserve it after all your hard work.

Waiting2BAMummy · 21/08/2020 21:37

Ovusense is an option if you’re worried about people figuring out the Ava bracelet @ChunkyButFunky87. Hopefully you won’t need it next month though!

Coolhand2 · 21/08/2020 22:06

@ChunkyButFunky87 you wear the bracelet when you go to sleep and take off in the morning. I would be worried if I had to wear it during the day. Great job on exercising and staying healthy.

Busybee143 · 22/08/2020 09:11

@Waiting2BAMummy I ran out of the same brand of pregnancy tests so had to do two different ones, they look like good lines though so I think I'm happy. I'm 17dpo I think

At Home Insemination - Buddies?
ChunkyButFunky87 · 22/08/2020 09:34

@Busybee143 great lines! Congrats!

foreverfrustrated09 · 22/08/2020 10:58

@Busybee143 that's amazing ! You'll be did a couple weeks after me. So happy for you

foreverfrustrated09 · 22/08/2020 10:59

*youll be due

Busybee143 · 22/08/2020 11:39

@ChunkyButFunky87 thank you, hope the little bean sticks this time!!
@foreverfrustrated09 I think in due April 26th, when are you due? How are you feeling?

foreverfrustrated09 · 22/08/2020 11:42

I'm due around April 17th! I'm not having to many symptoms except for sickness which has hit me hard. Had to get something prescribed by doc cause I couldn't keep anything down. But tired to

Busybee143 · 22/08/2020 12:14

@foreverfrustrated09 I'm just a bit tired I feel like I need more symptoms to put me at ease 😂

ChunkyButFunky87 · 22/08/2020 17:22

Keeping everything crossed for you @Busybee143

Here's to lots of sticky beans Smile

Busybee143 · 22/08/2020 18:00

Thank you @ChunkyButFunky87 I am going to stick about on here I'm afraid.. A bit like a bad smell 😂

Waiting2BAMummy · 22/08/2020 23:01

They’re great lines @Busybee143 the FRER has even pulled dye from the test line. Fingers crossed for a sticky bean but it’s all progressing nicely so far.

I’ve bitten the bullet and ordered the ovusense it’s expensive but not really when you consider how much money I’ve spent on clearblue OPK’s. I took a cheap test this morning and it was negative so waiting for af to arrive though that should have been today if I had been right and I ovulated on CD13 though I don’t actually know that I did which is even more reason why I need the ovusense.

Busybee143 · 22/08/2020 23:20

@Waiting2BAMummy thank you! I really hope so!!
What is ovusense I'm not familiar with it? Don't forget some ladies don't get a bfp until after af is due so fingers crossed!

Waiting2BAMummy · 22/08/2020 23:27

It’s a little sensor that you insert like a tampon every night and it records your temperature every 5 minutes. It gives you a 4 day fertile window and then confirms ovulation day once it’s happened. I drink too much water to be messing around with OPK’s and I know I’ll just forget with the temping so with this I don’t have to do anything @Busybee143

Busybee143 · 22/08/2020 23:31

@Waiting2BAMummy sounds like a really good idea, hope it works for you

ChunkyButFunky87 · 23/08/2020 22:05

Stick around as long as you like @Busybee143 lol

@Waiting2BAMummy let me know how you find Ovusense, I think that sounds like it'd suit me, I saw on your other post someone said they take out to go loo once a night with no effect and I'd need to! Poor bladder lol

Well back on it, so to speak! Tonight, 2WW begins, but hopefully we'll get 2 more tries on Tuesday & Thursday fingers crossed. It just makes me happy being back in with a chance each month

Waiting2BAMummy · 23/08/2020 23:25

Good luck @ChunkyButFunky87 will definitely let you know how I get on.

If you do decide to buy one let me know because I found a 20% off code!

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