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#makeithappen TTC through Donor IUI or Donor IVF or just undecided. All welcome. Thread 11

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kwick · 08/12/2017 21:28

This thread is for anyone trying to conceive... or thinking about doing so through donor IUI or donor IVF. Nothing TMI - feel free to join, we are a lovely group here to support and help keep the cray-cray away!

Here is the link to the previous thread
Thread 9
Thread 8

Thread 7

Thread 6
Here is the link to the one before that: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2832207--makeithappen-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-or-just-undecided-all-welcome
Here is the link to the one before that one: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2769549-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-or-just-undecided-all-welcome-makeithappen-loadsofBFPs
Here is the link to the thread before that: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2688511-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-or-just-undecided-all-welcome-makeithappen
Here is the link to the one before that one: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2587046-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-or-just-undecided-all-welcome
And the one before that!: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1877198-Donor-IUI

We also have a weight loss spin off thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/donor_conception/2889818-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-weight-loss-spin-off-thread

#makeithappen TTC through Donor IUI or Donor IVF or just undecided. All welcome. Thread 11
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LRDtheFeministDragon · 07/03/2018 11:06

Oh, and tiny, good luck today!

Smithguy86 · 07/03/2018 11:43

So had my scan this morning everything looks great and it's twins!!!

LRDtheFeministDragon · 07/03/2018 12:38

Ooh! Oh, how exciting! Congratulations. Smile

StorkAhoy · 07/03/2018 12:45

smithcongrats, that’s amazing news!

star re serum clinic, I think ever answered everything, but if you need anything else let us know. I did donor embryo and they matched me down to my education and hobby level! So I’m quite happy. Good luck!

LRD hows it going now? Xx

pickle162 · 07/03/2018 12:47

Congratulations smith fab news. Wow on the twins front.glad everything good :)

LRDtheFeministDragon · 07/03/2018 12:50

It's just the waiting game at the moment, stork, but I'm keeping my head down. It's very nice hearing other people's good news - it makes me hope! Thanks for asking. Smile

StorkAhoy · 07/03/2018 12:51

late and mandy as I only lurk on here now I may not have said congrats on your positives! Such congratulations!

Hi to everyone else!

I’m 18wks tomorrow and found out on Sunday that I’ve been blessed with a little girl so all is good here!

Ttc2017 · 07/03/2018 16:31

Omg Smith that's amazing news xx
Stork congrats that's lovely a beautiful girl :) xx

I love hearing everyones success stories it's only thing keeps me going through all this

Ttc2017 · 07/03/2018 16:43

I'm so nervous for my scan tomorrow last time I broke down like an emotional wreck I just want to get off the starting block and at least have a shot at injections and the actual iui it's constant hurdles isn't it I know you all understand I can't talk to anyone as my family and friend I had told now think I'm not going ahead any more as it was too much stress they didn't think I should carry on so I'm going it in secret my own journey x

pickle162 · 07/03/2018 17:41

What time is your scan ttc really hoping everything is ok for tomorrow: we are here for you all the way x

Ttc2017 · 07/03/2018 17:58

Thanks pickle it's at 11 x

Starshine1 · 07/03/2018 18:30

Ladies! Thank you so much making me feel so welcome to the site! It’s so lovely to talk with people who are experiencing/have experienced similar things! It’s made me a bit emotionally!

Thank you for your post everhopful! And congratulations- really positive and wonderful news for you. I have had a hysteroscopy only two weeks ago as I have just finished 6 months of superovulation ( with no luck and now think I just wased time and money with that). I have a cyst on my left ovary whichever they were unable to drain, but my consultant feels this should have no impact on iVF with DE. Thanks for sharing the positive thoughts on the European clinic. I have a very supportive DH which has helped a lot. We are booked into serum at the end of the month and my next cycle is due to start around then- so I guess it could be really quick! Although we have a holiday mid April which might delay things!

Based in Essex- have a local fertility clinic so hoping they’ll do lining scans- I was wondering how they’re done, so thanks for answering that for me.

Reading through the thread- Mandy- I hope the HCG is continuing to climb! 🤞

I have no idea how to make the names go on bold (clearly not very technically minded!)

Mandy002 · 07/03/2018 18:44

Thanks @StorkAhoy and @Starshine1. Had my 2nd blood test today after work so will find out what's happening tomorrow. I sooooo hope it/they stick around! The clinic are starting me on lupion tonight. So really looking forward to that. I know that might sound mental but I'd rather do the injections as I think the pessaries/gel might have been aggravating my insides and I'm hoping with injections the blood will stop but I did do a clear blue digital this morning and it came back 2-3 weeks pregnant. 🎉🙏🏻

Congrats as well @Smithguy86.

Starshine1 · 07/03/2018 19:11

Congratulations smith! Mandy too! Hope the test result tomorrow shows everything is ok!

Good luck for tomorrow ttc- it’s so hard having no control over our bodies isn’t it!

Thanks stork- 18 weeks! I am sure you won’t stop worrying until little one is here- congratulations!

LRDtheFeministDragon · 07/03/2018 20:14

Oh, yay, mandy.

And that doesn't sound silly about the pessaries at all - I think since everyone's shaped a bit differently, some people will find them a bit of a problem! Just anecdotally from me and DP, we had totally different reactions to them and I am sure it is just to do with what shape you are inside.

Mandy002 · 07/03/2018 20:24

Well spoke to the clinic and they said to do the injections every other day as a top up and I still have to take the pessaries 2 a day orally and 2 a day vaginally 😩 If I keep having problems I will ask them if I can do them all orally or 2 injections a day instead.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 07/03/2018 20:36

Oh, crikey, that is a lot. Yeuch. Lots of solidarity and sympathy.

TinyPaws · 07/03/2018 21:29

Ouch Mandy, that is a lot! Hopefully all worth it in the end.

Welcome star!

Congrats Smith!

Thanks LRD my IUI went OK today. Hope the 2WW is going quickly for you.

Good luck tomorrow TTC!

Ttc2017 · 08/03/2018 11:20

I can't believe it my scan was OK I can start injections tonight I'm so excited x

Starshine1 · 08/03/2018 11:55

Great news ttc! This is in prep for IUI isn’t it? X

Ttc2017 · 08/03/2018 12:04

Yeh :) next scan Monday as they think I might over respond to meds so they going to check early x

atomicamy · 08/03/2018 12:12

Hi All,

Good to be here! My wife and I are just embarking on our journey to parenthood. It's an exciting, and of course daunting time. Though it's great to be in the company of many others in a similar situation.

We have chosen IUI, with a bank donor as our preferred route - this will be at Birmingham Women's Clinic. My DW will be bio mum this time round, while we hope for role reversal in the future.

It's great to read everyone's experience. We look forward to sharing the good, bad and ugly! It most likely won't all be plain sailing.

Good to be here! Smile

pickle162 · 08/03/2018 12:18

Ttc I am over the moon happy for you!!!! Yay for go ahead ⭐️

Welcome atomicamy 👋

LRDtheFeministDragon · 08/03/2018 13:24

Oh, that's great news ttc. Good luck!

tiny, glad it went well. Smile

atomic - welcome, and good luck!

Ttc2017 · 08/03/2018 13:38

Thanks girls :) once I've made up the menoupur does it go back in the fridge or do I keep it out then? X