God I REALLY fancy my sister in law

[Tooembarrasedtousemyrealname]

She is about 6 years younger than my DW and very good looking indeed, but has never really had a serious boyfriend and I think she is a tad jealous of her sister (DW and I are hand in glove).

I would NEVER do anything, but I can't help fantasising about her. She once injured her knee and DW suggested I massage it - with DW in the room - I obliged but when my SIL asked me to move my hand in a Northerly direction to massage her quads, I felt a bit hot under the collar TBH and broke off.

This is not an "am I normal" or "am I being unreasonable" thread, because (a) I know it's normal, and (b) it won't be unreasonable unless (to quote J.L. Picard) I make it so.

Just wanted to share...

lol at Duchesse's "simple tastes" comment!

My BIL (actually partner's brother but no abbreviation) openly and wickedly flirts with me in front of DP but DP knows I adore him and he loves his brother... we all know it's just a bit of fun and we all feel nice: me cos I feel attractive, BIL cos he gets a reaction and DP cos he's obviously got good taste and she prefers himself...

so long as your DW is completely assured of your love, loyalty and adoration I don't think this is a problem. My exh did fancy my sister and told me so, but in his case it was a bit scary as I was not so sure how much and how far he was willing to take it if I was ok with it. He ended up having an affair years later with someone els and we are no more.

your allowed to fantisise my dh spent a night moaning and saying nigella in his sleep one night

I have 4 BIL & I would rather be poked by an out of date cocktail sausage than any of them!

this made me smile very witty !!!

but why share tooemb/happy?
the feeling is fine, the sharing makes you creepy.

Lots of posters share pointless information... lots of posters post that they fancy Colin Farrell, that guy out of ER, some of those other men in tv programmes I don't watch.. Russell Brand.. are they creepy??????

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Then all the more reason to share and not let it sit and ferment in his head?

So Russell Brand isn't a real life person... thank feck for that... he's a tad freaky IMO

Is Tooembarrassedtousemyrealname now too embarrassed to reply to his replies to his OP?

Maybe he's run away with his tail between his legs!!!

I curse this thread for making my mind wander over towards my BIL who is the most unpleasant, awful, smug, slimy, horrid man I have ever had the displeasure to meet.

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As long as it is his own legs his tail is between

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50% of my BILs have made a pass at me

ooohhh are you a stunner the harpsi? Or do you all live on an Island?

So where is he then? It's all well and good sharing the whole of MN with his secret but where is he to reply to his very interesting, helpful replies!

lol fireflyfairy
no I fear I am not a stunner
it is a very isolated valley
also, many people play the banjo

What do you lot think of his post of 19:56 today re sex with his DW and it being good when his SIL has worn something low cut? Isn't that a bit sick? His poor wife.

Are you a yokel?

Are you a local yokel?

Are you married to your bruvver?

Are you your own muvver?

D'ya think tooembarrassed's wife has come in & found him......? Maybe she & her sister are carrying out his every fantasy as we speak........ [wicked grin]

no I don't think it is a bit sick, I think it is pretty normal (if it's true).

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Mr Inferior's three brothers all look exactly like him. Strangely enough this is actually quite off-putting.

And in his case he shares the simple tastes of the DukeofNorksBride, which I am happy to say I can buxomly meet.

ww, I thought that was tongue in cheek???

Maybe it's because I come from such a large family that things like this get bandied about all the time.. I have sisters who are twins & there are always remarks made from their dh's! Always innocently though, maybe that's why I'm being very light hearted about it!