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WIBU to send a complaint about this aggressive text message?

435 replies

TheNamesJames · 16/03/2020 11:08

I have just received this from my GP (and yes, it was recieved in capital letters, I haven’t edited it):

COVID-19: FOLLOWING LATEST GUIDANCE, Edited out MEDICAL CENTRE WILL BE OPERATING A TELEPHONE CONSULTATION ONLY SERVICE. ONCE YOU HAVE BEEN ASSESSED, THE CLINICIAN WILL DECIDE IF A FACE TO FACE CONSULTATION IS NEEDED. WE ARE WORKING HARD TO PROTECT OUR PATIENTS AND STAFF. IF YOU HAVE AN APPOINTMENT BOOKED IN THE NEAR FUTURE, YOU WILL BE CONTACTED, DO NOT ATTEND THE SURGERY.THANK YOU FOR YOUR CO-OPERATION.

Is that unnecessary and rude? I haven’t even seen a doctor at that surgery since eleven months ago, it’s not like I’m hounding at their door every day and a walking risk.

I get that it is important and needs to be clarified but wtf, does anyone else think it’s really rude to send spam messages to random people in that tone of manner?

OP posts:
Loughers · 16/03/2020 15:02

Pathetic, quite simply - pathetic.

TheNamesJames · 16/03/2020 15:05

There's nothing to complain about, it's sent to all patients regardless of whether they regularly see their GP or not, it isn't personal.

WHY ARE PEOPLE USING THIS AGAINST ME? I SAID, REPEATEDLY, THAT I KNOW IT WASN’T PERSONALLY JUST TEXTED TO ME. PEOPLE KEEP BRINGING IT UP TO ATTACK ME WITH SOMETHING I DIDN’T EVEN SAY.

If I’m wrong and it looks like I am wrong given the responses then find, I will and have taken it on board, but I could appreciate people not suggesting something I didn’t say and have made clear several times I didn’t say.

OP posts:
AwrightDoreenTakeAFuckinDayOff · 16/03/2020 15:10

WHY ARE PEOPLE USING THIS AGAINST ME? I SAID, REPEATEDLY, THAT I KNOW IT WASN’T PERSONALLY JUST TEXTED TO ME. PEOPLE KEEP BRINGING IT UP TO ATTACK ME WITH SOMETHING I DIDN’T EVEN SAY

No need to be all aggressive and unnecessary and rude with your ragey capitals OP. Grin

TheNamesJames · 16/03/2020 15:12

No need to be all aggressive and unnecessary and rude with your ragey capitals OP. Grin

Lol, fair enough! Grin😂

OP posts:
AwrightDoreenTakeAFuckinDayOff · 16/03/2020 15:13
Wink
OhLook · 16/03/2020 15:14

OP I think this thread is a dead cause now. I'd hide and move on. It's just a pile on now.

Thewomeninthemirror · 16/03/2020 15:17

Do you really think this is the time to be troubling gps with a complaint over a text?
If so, you need to take a serious look at yourself. Our nhs staff are working so hard trying to keep us all well/healthy/alive and you want to give them hassle over a fucking text?

GreyGoose1980 · 16/03/2020 15:17

What planet are you on OP?

TellMeWhoTheVilliansAre · 16/03/2020 15:18

That’s why I called it a spam message in my OP... because they sent the same message to everyone on their list

That's not what spam is. Of course they sent the same message to everyone on their list. That's because they needed to get the same message to everyone on their list and a group text is the quickest most direct method of contact.

Do you think they should have personalised the message to each patient? Do you think they should have sent nothing at all? Just wait for the hundreds of phonecalls to block up their switchboard? Wait for people to be waiting in a queue for their call to be answered and then decide to just turn up at the surgery anyway to see what's happening?

The Prime Minister is a bumbling baffoon recommending to do nothing and let everyone get infected. Where does he think the 100,000s of patients who will require hospital treatment, ventilation, ICU care are going to be treated if something isn't put in place to slow this thing down.

Thankfully sensible medical professionals who know where this is heading are taking charge of their own situations and trying to do what's best to try save people's lives.

But yeah, it's exactly the same as the GP trying to sell you a penis enlargement 🙄

AwrightDoreenTakeAFuckinDayOff · 16/03/2020 15:21

A penis enlargement text would beat our dentist’s tooth whitening texts (channels Coldplay - we are all yellloooooow) into a cockit hat. 🤣

Mrskeats · 16/03/2020 15:26

The NHS is up to its eyes and you are bothered by this?
Madness.

ItsGoingTibiaK · 16/03/2020 15:32

WHY ARE PEOPLE USING THIS AGAINST ME? I SAID, REPEATEDLY, THAT I KNOW IT WASN’T PERSONALLY JUST TEXTED TO ME. PEOPLE KEEP BRINGING IT UP TO ATTACK ME WITH SOMETHING I DIDN’T EVEN SAY.

Because you said “I haven’t even seen a doctor at that surgery since eleven months ago, it’s not like I’m hounding at their door every day and a walking risk.” Which implies that you thought the text wasn’t aimed at you and you shouldn’t have received it - ie personalisation.

*If I’m wrong and it looks like I am wrong given the responses then find, I will and have taken it on board”

There really is no ‘if’ about this.

Firsttimelottie · 16/03/2020 15:53

The things some people take offence at... Confused

LaMarschallin · 16/03/2020 15:59

If I’m wrong and it looks like I am wrong given the responses then find, I will and have taken it on board

Can you do that?

Just ask for threads you've started to be taken down?

I thought it was just if it was outing or something.

(Genuine question. I'm a relative newby)

LoisWilkersonslastnerve · 16/03/2020 16:00

Thinking it's a bit blunt is one thing but to actually consider a complaint? UnrealShock

ZarkingBell · 16/03/2020 16:13

I used to sit next to the people who dealt with complaints in my last NHS job. They were the kindest, calmest, most caring people you could imagine.
This complaint would have made their day.

TheNamesJames · 16/03/2020 16:19

Can you do that?

Just ask for threads you've started to be taken down?

I thought it was just if it was outing or something.

(Genuine question. I'm a relative newby)

I didn’t say anything about getting this thread taken down. AGAIN, an example of people making things up that I’ve supposedly said just because they disagree with the thread.

OP posts:
AwrightDoreenTakeAFuckinDayOff · 16/03/2020 16:19

I don’t think the Op meant they wanted their thread deleted. Just that they understood they’d been mistaken (not ‘arf) and would accept the general opinion they’d been a bit a great big knuckle of a knob Grin

Don’t want to talk for him or her but I think they’ve realised that this is not a problem or an issue for times such as these - or at all.

LaMarschallin · 16/03/2020 16:26

@TheNamesJames

Fulsome apologies. I misread and was mistaken. I was wrong and foolish.

I'm afraid I still think you're even more wrong and foolish than I am.
By a big way.

I comfort myself with that.

TheNamesJames · 16/03/2020 16:28

I don’t think the Op meant they wanted their thread deleted. Just that they understood they’d been mistaken (not ‘arf) and would accept the general opinion they’d been a bit a great big knuckle of a knob

Hi, Doreen, there’s a bush over there that hasn’t yet been beaten around, for some reason I think you’d make an excellent volunteer Grin

OP posts:
LaMarschallin · 16/03/2020 16:28

@AwrightDoreenTakeAFuckinDayOff

You're right - I misread (and am still curious as to how MN works).

Thanks for the heads up Smile

AwrightDoreenTakeAFuckinDayOff · 16/03/2020 16:33

No worries @LaMarschallin Grin Flowers

AwrightDoreenTakeAFuckinDayOff · 16/03/2020 16:35

Nah James

I’d expect to be paid. I’m not volunteering to beat anyone’s bush unless I have a couple of bob in my pocket. And I’d probably want gloves too. You don’t know what folk do with their bushes Grin

TheNamesJames · 16/03/2020 16:37

@LaMarschallin

I'm afraid I still think you're even more wrong and foolish than I am.

Okay.

By a big way.

Okay.

I comfort myself with that.

...if that makes you feel better, then okay??

OP posts:
HighlyUnlikely · 16/03/2020 16:39

OP, I'm not sure you understand what BEATING (not beaten) around the bush means!