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claireinthecommunity · 06/05/2010 13:08

Sorry to hear that Aries x.

I really hope it's just too early for a + kkas

A warm welcome to florin and SaorAlba

Hello to everyone else I may be a little quiet for a while, we have a very busy work load over the next few weeks, and are also hoping to get away for a short break at some point this month. I'll pop in when I can, but just thought I'd let you know that I haven't fallen off the face of the earth. Take care all, and happy shagging!!!

luckyseven · 06/05/2010 14:39

mrswaj send your address quick as you can start the cbfm up to cycle day six so you could do it this month if halo can post it tomorrow!

hairytriangle · 06/05/2010 15:54

I'm a bit weepy this afternoon...
Doc referred me to hospital

POAS positive
Thurs last week HSG was 24
Tues this week it was 64
This is a very slow rise

Have had physical examination, all seems fine, cervix is closed

Have had another blood test, to see if it's risen any more.

too early for a scan, HSG needs to be 1000 to be able to see anything worth seeing.

OneOf8 · 06/05/2010 16:18

Thinking of you Hairy x Really hope it turns out ok. Nothing useful to say ... hopefully someone will come along with better than

CaveMum · 06/05/2010 16:35

hairytriangle I'm keeping everything possible crossed for you.
Feeling weepy is totally understandable, lesser women (myself included) would have crumpled under the stress of what you have so far endured in such a dignified manner.

hairytriangle · 06/05/2010 17:23

Bless you Cavemum and thank you Oneof8

The fact is that a year ago I was in a far, far worse situation, as my ex who i was with then had completely talked me out of having kids.

So I am just privelidged to be in this position, in a way....

Ariesgirl · 06/05/2010 17:42

Hugs to you Hairyone. Keeping everything crossed.

Hermya321 · 06/05/2010 19:23

Hairy I'm assuming that you've had help for your pregnancy, how far along are you? I'll be praying that you have a very very sticky stubborn LO.

Original poster

maamalady · 06/05/2010 19:41

Congratulations, haloflo!

And keeping everything crossed for you, hairytriangle.

Unsurprisingly, no change here

OP posts:

hairytriangle · 06/05/2010 19:46

Levels down to 55.5 today, so definite miscarriage.

going to go and cuddle up , we've had a good cry.

Hope to bounce back here soon

xxxxx

Ariesgirl · 06/05/2010 19:50

Very, very sorry .

Hermya321 · 06/05/2010 19:55

Oh I'm so so sorry Hairytriangle.

haloflo · 06/05/2010 20:51

hairy really sorry to hear that after the hope you were given yesterday.

Mrswaj Send your address tonight & I'll definatly put the CBFM in the post tomorrow. You should get it for saturday as i'll send it first class. Hopefully the post will arrive early as when you set it to your day it opens a 6 hour testing window. 3 hours before, 3 after. With your hours you'll have to think of when is best to turn it on. I've properly not explained that very well. In fact lucky if you still have what you emailed me in your sent items could you send it to Mrswaj? It was really helpful and clear when I was trying to work the CBFM out. (I hope thats not cheeky of me!) If you don't get it for then you can always keep in til the next cycle. I probably would have SWI'ed on the days I did last month anyway so maybes it just being in your house helps!

Brillant news about DP's job too. Things are definatly looking up for you.

flick I'm going nowhere quite yet and I'll definaty keep lurking in the future. I really hope things happen fast for you in July and you aren't too far behind me.

kkas Sorry about your BFN. I hope AF is stays away a few more days for you and you still get there.

aires Sorry about AF. I hope you feel better in a few days.

felicityFlick · 07/05/2010 02:16

So sorry HairyT - I'm so pleased that you continue to be able to back positives from what's happened though. Your attitude is inspirational, like kaloki said the other day.

Glad you are not going anywhere flo

womanlytales · 07/05/2010 08:44

Terribly sorry Hairy - I too am inspired by your attitude.

LankyLegs · 07/05/2010 08:59

Just wanted to add my sorry hairy . Hope you rest up and can start to look to the future and next steps soon. The only way is up right?

applecharlotte · 07/05/2010 09:16

Congrats to all the BFP people! Great news. Hope everyone else is well also. AF got me today feel so sad about it but going on holiday on monday so looking forward to a cocktail on the beach which is some consolation I suppose...

Could a kind person please stick me as CD1 for today pls ta

kkas · 07/05/2010 09:26

so sorry hairy hope you feel better soon.

kkas · 07/05/2010 10:28

AF here for me too. had a bit of a breakdown last night and still a bit today. into the double digit cycles now....

aries i've updated you on the list but please let me know whether i've got it wrong.

Friday's list:

evilgiraffe TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 28?! CD98
Stiffybyng TTC#1 cycle UCL28 CD71
PinkiePoo TTC1, Cycle 2, UCL 28-40, CD64
Bellaby TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 32ish CD58
misshoohaa TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL-28-35 CD53
Headbanger TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 24 CD42
Florin TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL ??? CD36
Oneof8 TTC #1 cycle? UCL29ish CD35
Pipsicles TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL38 CD32
chico193 TTC#1 cycle ? UCL36 CD30
Zippys TTC#1 cycle 11 UCL33-39 CD28
applecharlotte TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL26 CD27
takethatlady TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL? CD27
wakarimasen TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL??, CD24
Dinkytinky TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL27 CD22
Claire 196 TTC#1 cycle2 UCL 25-28 CD20
Womanlytales TTC#1, Cycle 2, UCL28, CD20
moulesfrites TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28 CD16
LankyLady TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL29, CD15
Papertiger TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28-32 CD13
claireinthecommunity TTC#1 cycle12 UCL29 CD11
Junglebob TTC#1, Cycle 6, UCL31-36, CD10
cherrycobbler TTC#1 cycle 4, UCL32 CD6
Mrs Wajs TTC#1 cycle 9, UCL 27-45 CD5
Wannamummy TTC#1 cycle 3, UCL 28 CD5
Ariesgirl TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 29-32 CD2
kkas TTC#1 Cycle 10 UCL31 CD1

Not counting days
Kaloki TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL ?
Aly323

Waiting to TTC
Calyx
Sevans
FelicityFlick (41,57,38,33)
seablue TTC #1 Cycle 12 UCL 28ish CD22
CaveMum
calligraphy82
chalky3
hairytriangle
SaorAlba

MIA (stopped counting cds)
Stellybelly TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL? CD115
blueberry noo TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 31-32 CD89
CJ2007 TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL26/7 CD74
mrscinco TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 27-32 CD61
Hoping TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 32 CD89
lipstie TTC#1 Cycle7 UCL26-28 CD77
lucieloo TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL 24-32 CD69
LinzRed TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL? CD77

Graduates:
Trying4Baby1 BFP 21Aug
Kaystar BFP 27Aug
Pepperonipizza BFP 12Sep
Fulhamgirl BFP 18Sep
Ladyemmalou83 BFP 13Oct
bluesnowfalcon BFP 14 Oct
DesperateHousewife21 3rd Nov
Spirael BFP 7 Nov
Curlycasper BFP 11 Nov
Sky27 BFP ???
EmsieRo BFP 16 Nov
vix206 BFP 8 Dec
HypotheticalMummy BFP 9 Dec
Ozziegirly BFP 16 Dec
NovemberAli BFP 24 Dec
Eleanora BFP 28 Dec
whiteroses BFP 11 Jan
hamsterlover BFP 11 Jan
Hobnob76 BFP 17 Jan
MadameG BFP 17 Jan
pixiestix BFP 18 Jan
ceebs05 BFP 22 Jan
addie81 BFP 28 Jan
WorrisomeHeart BFP 29 Jan
chancewouldbeafinething BFP 1 Feb
Hermya321 BFP 12 Feb
fudgecat BFP 19 Feb
honeymoo BFP ??
Pidgin BFP 27 Feb
YorkshireTeaDrinker BFP 29 Feb
DrewsGirl BFP 4 March
bunnygirl80 BFP 12 March
Mumnerves BFP 1 April
Spanishlady BFP 3 April
luckyseven BFP 8 April
Capricorn76 12 April
Homebound 30 April
Starberries BFP
Haloflo 5 May

Ariesgirl · 07/05/2010 10:34

Oh kkas. Let's comfort each other with chocolate and vodka and sit in the corner singing maudlin songs. Truly life is shit sometimes.

Re the day for me, I'm on day 1. Was only spotting before. It's very slow today still. Is my body on strike or something? But the cramps are very hurty

kkas · 07/05/2010 12:47

passes aries the gorgeous pierre marcolini belgian choccies (he's amazing - look him up!) and starts singing. feel your cramp pain babe and i've updated you on the list again.

hi everyone else - don't mind us grumps in the corner!

evilgiraffe TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 28?! CD98
Stiffybyng TTC#1 cycle UCL28 CD71
PinkiePoo TTC1, Cycle 2, UCL 28-40, CD64
Bellaby TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 32ish CD58
misshoohaa TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL-28-35 CD53
Headbanger TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 24 CD42
Florin TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL ??? CD36
Oneof8 TTC #1 cycle? UCL29ish CD35
Pipsicles TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL38 CD32
chico193 TTC#1 cycle ? UCL36 CD30
Zippys TTC#1 cycle 11 UCL33-39 CD28
applecharlotte TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL26 CD27
takethatlady TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL? CD27
wakarimasen TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL??, CD24
Dinkytinky TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL27 CD22
Claire 196 TTC#1 cycle2 UCL 25-28 CD20
Womanlytales TTC#1, Cycle 2, UCL28, CD20
moulesfrites TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28 CD16
LankyLady TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL29, CD15
Papertiger TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28-32 CD13
claireinthecommunity TTC#1 cycle12 UCL29 CD11
Junglebob TTC#1, Cycle 6, UCL31-36, CD10
cherrycobbler TTC#1 cycle 4, UCL32 CD6
Mrs Wajs TTC#1 cycle 9, UCL 27-45 CD5
Wannamummy TTC#1 cycle 3, UCL 28 CD5
Ariesgirl TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 29-32 CD1
kkas TTC#1 Cycle 10 UCL31 CD1

Not counting days
Kaloki TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL ?
Aly323

Waiting to TTC
Calyx
Sevans
FelicityFlick (41,57,38,33)
seablue TTC #1 Cycle 12 UCL 28ish CD22
CaveMum
calligraphy82
chalky3
hairytriangle
SaorAlba

MIA (stopped counting cds)
Stellybelly TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL? CD115
blueberry noo TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 31-32 CD89
CJ2007 TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL26/7 CD74
mrscinco TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 27-32 CD61
Hoping TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 32 CD89
lipstie TTC#1 Cycle7 UCL26-28 CD77
lucieloo TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL 24-32 CD69
LinzRed TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL? CD77

Graduates:
Trying4Baby1 BFP 21Aug
Kaystar BFP 27Aug
Pepperonipizza BFP 12Sep
Fulhamgirl BFP 18Sep
Ladyemmalou83 BFP 13Oct
bluesnowfalcon BFP 14 Oct
DesperateHousewife21 3rd Nov
Spirael BFP 7 Nov
Curlycasper BFP 11 Nov
Sky27 BFP ???
EmsieRo BFP 16 Nov
vix206 BFP 8 Dec
HypotheticalMummy BFP 9 Dec
Ozziegirly BFP 16 Dec
NovemberAli BFP 24 Dec
Eleanora BFP 28 Dec
whiteroses BFP 11 Jan
hamsterlover BFP 11 Jan
Hobnob76 BFP 17 Jan
MadameG BFP 17 Jan
pixiestix BFP 18 Jan
ceebs05 BFP 22 Jan
addie81 BFP 28 Jan
WorrisomeHeart BFP 29 Jan
chancewouldbeafinething BFP 1 Feb
Hermya321 BFP 12 Feb
fudgecat BFP 19 Feb
honeymoo BFP ??
Pidgin BFP 27 Feb
YorkshireTeaDrinker BFP 29 Feb
DrewsGirl BFP 4 March
bunnygirl80 BFP 12 March
Mumnerves BFP 1 April
Spanishlady BFP 3 April
luckyseven BFP 8 April
Capricorn76 12 April
Homebound 30 April
Starberries BFP
Haloflo 5 May

WhiteRoses · 07/05/2010 15:08

Hi everyone,

Hairy, Aries and Kkas - just wanted to say I'm sorry for you all.

Hairy - one little silver lining (if there is such a thing) is that this is proof that you can conceive fairly easily, so fingers crossed for the next time. They say after a miscarriage, because your body's already geared up for pregnancy, it can be easier to conceive again. Hoping that's true. x

Aries - I hope you have a lovely weekend, and DH knows to spoil you with plenty of wine and chocolate. x

Kkas - don't let the double figures get you down (if you can help it). Just think, as far as the doctors are concerned, you're not even worth testing yet, so there's nothing to suggest that there's anything wrong. And statistics are in your favour more than ever now. On cycle 10, there's now an 84% chance you'll conceive in the next two months! So, like Aries, I hope you manage to have a nice relaxing weekend, taking advantage of alcohol while you still can! x

And another happy thought... When you get your BFP, they class your first day of pregnancy as the first day of your last period (mad I know!). But that means, if you want to be really silly (like me!) you can think of this as potentially "PD1" (pregnancy day 1) as opposed to CD1. Something to celebrate!

Feel better soon. It will happen. xxx

PinkiePoo · 07/05/2010 15:55

Hairy big fat hugs sending your way....i really feel for you honey, but it will happen soon for you both. Don't hold back the tears, let it all out and start all over again. x x

aries and kk sorry to hear it sweeties....and kk its so so natural to feel how you are, i swear i do everytime. Don't panic, i know loads of people it took just over a year.

as for me...stopped being sick, YAY. Full on head cold, BOO. and today ladies......DRUM ROLL......

My AF arrived.....WAHOO. I have never been so happy to see it after 64 FRIGGING days, so CD 1 for me today, and now i can back to SWI instead of just shagging!!

takethatlady · 07/05/2010 16:08

Hairy, Aries and kkas, just to reiterate what people have already said. Big hugs. Hairy, I hope that whatever happens as I ttc I can deal with it with as much grace as you. You're going to make a brilliant mum, I can tell.

All kinds of stuff is out of my control at the mo: I was kind of hoping today I'd get a BFP, DH would get a job he's applied for, we'd get an offer on our house and actually be able to move to where I'll be working from September, the Lib Dems would get 350 seats and shock everyone, and my mum would ring and say she couldn't come this weekend after all . So far, zero wishes out of five!!

takethatlady · 07/05/2010 16:09

PS. pinkie, you did amazing getting to 64 days without totally freaking out! Yippee for AF - she's not always so bad!