The incredibly addictable wagoners thread - for all stages of TTC...may the BFP's continue!

[calsworld]

Well, I'd like to start this thread by saying a BIG FAT CONGRATULATIONS to everyone who has managed to get their BFP so far, and an equally huge dollop of luck to all those of us waiting for our BFP's!

Sorry to have to post bad news on this lovely thread but back from scan and it's bad news I'm afraid . I've had a missed miscarriage, no heartbeat and baby stopped growing at 7 weeks one day. I'm booked in for a d&c tomorrow as I couldn't bear to let things happen naturally. Dh was with me with was good, and we also got a second opinion (on their suggestion).
I've had such brilliant support and friendship on this thread, and while I'll carry on lurking I'm sure, I don't really feel up to posting regularly for a while.
I'll be crossing everything for good news for folks testing over the next few days. If you wouldn't mind, would someone take my name/due date of the duffed list? Thanks for everything guys, and I'll be back on the ttc list as soon as I can be .

oh so sorry hun my thoughts are with you you take care

Kayzisexpecting, 22, DC2, is up the duff!! EDD: 12/12/08(and craving veg spring rolls!)
Teuch, 31, DC2, is up the duff as well!!! EDD: 29/12/09
Largeginandtonic, 30, DC7, another one up the duff! EDD: TBC
NatalieJaneispregnantagainagain, 25, DC3, up the duff! EDD: 03/01/09
Tinkerbell, 30, DC2, up the duff! EDD: 15/01/09 - sickness and weeing lots gone ye
Popcornprincess, 31, DC2, is also up the duff WITH TWINS !! EDD: 04/02/09
Sorky, 33, DC4, is up the duff as well! EDD: 14/02/09
Rach, 28, DC4, and another!!! EDD: 20/02/09
Lardybump, 34, DC2, another one up there!!! EDD: 25/02/09
Meeely2, 31, DC3, and there's more!! EDD: TBC
HappyNappies, 33, DC1, EDD 25/02/09 I think
Heron23/Ohjoy, 41, DC2, Duffed. EDD?
Auntyspan, 34, has DC2, Duffed EDD 12/03/09 (Is that right???)
Playing, 26, DC1, Duffed EDD 9/03/09
Starshinetiger, 34, DC2, Another one bites the duff. EDD 23/03/2009
GYo, 31, Just joined the Duffed club, EDD 19/03/09 - TBC
Monkeybumsmum, DETAILS REQUIRED!

Calsworld, 32, DC2, TTC NOW, cycle #6
Bemylilbaby, 21, DC1, TTC NOW.
lastboxoftampons, 31, DC1, TTC NOW.
ImaginaryBlueLine, DC2, TTC NOW.
Glaskham, 23, 1ds & 1dd, ttc dc3 TTC NOW.
EsmeWeatherwax, 36, 1DD, ttc dc2, TTC NOW.
Kookykid, 33, DC2, TTC NOW
Gruffalo, 25, DC1, TTC NOW
Cosmogirl, 25, DC1, TTC NOW
Heebeejeebee, 36 TTC NOW - cycle #4
Monkeybumsmum, 32, has DS, TTC NOW - cycle #1
Ses 35, ttc dc1, TTC ASAP, waiting for green light after MC
2Beautifulgirls, 27, DC3 TTC Now
Kalikaroo, 28, TTC Now, cycle #1
Babytime, 29, DC3 TTC NOW
Happynewyearfeet06
Busylady
Monkeynuts

Geordi eJogger, 30, DC1, October/November.
MoosMa, 27, DC3, January

finally got back my blood results :-

downs syndrome - age realted risk - 1:897
risk at term - 1:17931

edwards and pataus syndrome - age related - 1:7355
term-1:99999

Diege - I'm so sorry to hear that . Sadly, I have been there and can remember the feeling only too well. Take plenty of time to recover, physically and emotionally, and look after yourself and your family.

I know you mightn't feel up to posting, but I hope that we can continue to offer you some support over the next wee while.

I am so sorry Diege. Thinking of you, take care.

So sorry to hear that Diege.

i'm so sorry Diege. Take care, i will be thinking of you.

Diege, I can only offer my sympathises. I am so sorry for you. You take as much time as you need to recover and we will look forward to you coming back when you feel able. All my love and best wishes are with you.

Diege, I'm so very, very sorry to read your news, take all the time you need, I'm sending you all my love and and will be thinking of you often.

I'm glad you have your DH with you for support, and hope we can continue to offer you support any time you need it too.

Cal x

Diege, sorry to hear your news - my thoughts are with you.

Diege

I'm so, so sorry to hear that. You pretty much match my mmc with dates etc so I have a pretty good idea how you are feeling right now...

Take care and look after yourself

Cat x

Diege - I'm so, so sorry Take care of yourself.

So sorry to hear your news Diege. Gutted for you. Hope to see you back as soon as you feel ready xx

Diege - I am so so sorry As Teuch and HeeBee said, others of us have been there and know how you feel. I wish I could reach into the computer and give you a huge hug right now. Take comfort in your DH and your beautiful little girls. Thinking of you...take care of yourself.

Shit, Diege, I am so so so sorry, if there is anything anything I can do please just say, my email is [email protected]. Seriously, if you just want to scream and rant and rave, just do it, will happily give you my number if you want to talk, anything I can do, please please just ask.

I'm glad your DH is with you, you will look after each other, will be thinking of you xxx

Oh Tink, I dodn't mean to ignore your post. Are those results good? They sound good to me?

thats ok playing dieges situation is more important.
yes results very low.

i dont know if they tested me for anything else i.e hiv perhaps they would only tell you if bad

Tink, congrats on good test results, you must be relieved after having to wait for so long for them to come back

Thats great news Tink!

Oh and yes, I think they only tell you if there's something abnormal i.e. you have hiv! They don't seem too worried about confirming back to us that all is well!

Great news tink a weight off your mind. Think they test everyone for HIV when pregnant, i can't ever recall getting the results. i'm sure they would have told you by now if there was a problem with them.

Diege - I so so sorry that this has happened. You know we are all here and ready to talk with you no matter how long you need.

Big hugs to you and your family, its nice that you have all got each other for support x

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Tink - great news on your test results. With the HIV - no news is good news. So you can relax

Yes, sorry Tink good news for your results

Diege if you are lurking today, just wanted to add that I hope tomorrow goes as well as can be expected, and that you can try and get some rest tonight in preparation for it.