1dpo - Anyone want to join during the two week wait?

[Ella31]

Hi all, currently 1dpo. Hoping for a lucky month. I lost my twin boys a few months ago at 29 weeks due to TTTS. Two days before this I had a beautiful scan and two perfect babies - only 6 weeks away from c-section. And two days after my scan - our world fell apart. I had no movement and all of a sudden, I was told one of my babies had no heartbeat and then four days later, we had to remove life support from his twin brother as he was so ill. My sons were beautiful, visually perfect babies who were so unlucky. I miss them terribly.

So Here I am 1dpo and hoping for the best. Would love the support from any other hopeful ladies and in turn I'll support ye too. Much luck to us all 😀

Good luck.

Hopefully 4th may (if that's when you are due on) will bring us good news

@narwhalsarereal fingers crossed for you too. I've no idea when I'm due on as haven't had a period since the mc however I am guesstimating 5th May if I'm ovulating today, just need to wait and see what happens!

I did another cheap early response test this morning and I feel like I couldn't see anything, but husband said he could. Had my Premom hpt's delivered this afternoon so tried one of those and we can both see the faintest line. Feeling very tentative. What are the chances we've had indents/evaps for all tests (about 4) taken since Friday? And surely if they were positive, they'd be becoming a bit darker by now? I'm 12dpo 🥲

11dpo*

@2BabyOrNot2Baby have you any pics? Repeat evaps/indents would be horrible bad luck. If they were all from the same box then maybe a bad batch but if not then surely they couldn't all be indents 🤞🏼

Unfortunately not, I did try but there was absolutely no sign of them in the pics. Had my husband look too and he said he can see it (in person), but agreed there was no colour to them. Definitely not the same batch, and two different brand tests. Same happened back in January, except one of those times the line did actually have colour to it but a blood test (unrelated but checking anyway) and more hpt's proved otherwise 🥲

Tested again this morning though, and still nothing. AF was supposed to be here either Saturday or today (dependent on app), so we'll take it from here I guess, but I don't have much faith in it actually arriving today as last month was late too. Last months arrived on CD37 and currently on CD38 🙃

All I have left picture wise is this one, which is about as clear as mud, as I got in a sulk and deleted all the others 😅

I keep trying to talk myself down but it's not working very well 🤣 with my son, I tested when my period was due, got nothing so gave up testing due to believing it was just another month it hadn't worked, tested a week later and got my bfp. I can't be 100% certain on dpo with him, but looking back it was 19-21 days after DTD that I got that. Trying to remain cautiously hopeful 🙃

Only checking in now @2BabyOrNot2Baby , I'm crossing my fingers for you.

@2BabyOrNot2Baby ahh that must be so infuriating not getting a positive when your period is due but are actually pregnant. I have no experience in longer cycles but I have everything crossed for you. It's hard to relax and take your mind off it isn't it? I'm 1DPO and spent my morning scouring the internet in hopes I'll be pregnant 😂

@Ella31 thank you, hope you're doing well 🥰

@CadoAvo I did so well at keeping myself busy for the most part during the 'two' week wait, and now it's all I'm thinking about during my downtime. I have a weird niggling feeling in my hips too that doesn't feel like AF (but also doesn't particularly feel like pregnancy niggling either) and it's throwing me off everytime I notice it! I hope your wait completely flies over! Doesn't feel like only half a month does it 😯

Obviously I'd rather AF not show up for good reason, but I also just wish it would hurry up so I can switch off a little and look forward to next month. Just feels like I'm being forced to wait for no actual reason 😟 the longer I'm sat waiting for it, the longer I'm waiting to try again.

Been the toilet since and had some light brown discharge (sorry tmi!) so think AF is going to show after all. Kind of relieved to an extent

AF has finally made an appearance. At least now I can look forward to the next month 🤞🏻

@2BabyOrNot2Baby ahh that's annoying 😟 but at least you can now look towards the next cycle 🤞🏼

I'm sorry @2BabyOrNot2Baby . Its so unfair

I'm going to make the new thread this evening when I get a bit of quiet time. I'll try to tag everyone and I'll link the thread. If I forget to tag anyone. Apologies. But I'll make sure the link is here

It's not great, but I'm just going to look forward to next month now. My boy is a little behind on his speech at the minute so we'll be working on that even more so hopefully it'll help to keep my mind off things and get waiting times over and done with quicker 🤞🏻

I can't believe we've filled a whole thread! Apologies, that's probably me not being able to shut up 😶

Can I be in the new one please ?

I'm 2dpo & just feel so fed up today.
My best friend has just had her first & I so desperately want to be pregnant, even worse when she posts photos of her little one.

Just feel so fed up & like it'll never happen for me at the moment.

I’m sorry you feel that way :(
can you temporarily silence notifications from your friend? Just to help get you through this difficult time.

Didn't get a chance to update new thread. Making coffee and will get on it in the next hour.

@narwhalsarereal it's the hardest part of ttc. Seeing it work for others. Keep hoping. 🥰🥰

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/conception/5061364-1dpo-anyone-want-to-join-part-2

Here is the link everyone.