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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Conception

TTC THREAD 16--THE BEST CHRISTMAS PRESENT EVER!!!

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kizzy212 · 16/12/2004 15:31

OH MY GOD

CAN YOU BELIEVE IT GIRLS, MONDAY NEGATIVE, TUESDAY NEGATIVE, I HAD GIVEN UP HOPE.

THURDAY 16TH DECEMBER BFP

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Tania2 · 17/12/2004 02:05

WOW kizzy congrats good on ya girl. Cheers to a happy and healthy 9 months ahead for you.
Well dr still hasnt rang will call him soon.

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Tania2 · 17/12/2004 04:11

Well just spoke to dr. He wasnt going to call me cause he felt that he had already discussed everything after my op and that it wasnt a good idea to discuss it over the phone that he will speak to me at me appointment. I said no you will discuss it with me now so when my appointment comes i can be prepared with questions for you.
Ok so this is what is happening. Large possiblilty that i have blocked tubes he wants to do a Levervist test (ultrasound with a cathader and dye) if my tubes are blocked then there is no option but ivf. BULLSHIT.... i told him that i looked on the internet and there are other options and there is either surgery or a falaoscapy (sp?) He said that the womens hosipital where he works doesnt do it anymore but maybe another hosipital does i asked him to find that out b4 our meeting and the cost of the ultrasound so i dont have to wait on the public list. He really wont know what hits him next thursday i will be so educated in this he will have no option but to do as i say to just get rid of me quick!!!!! Also told me that he didnt find any endo and no cysts and that blocked tubes are from an infection at some stage like a sexually transmitted disease. WHAT i have never had anything that i know of!!!!! Help i am really worried now!!!!

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morningpaper · 17/12/2004 08:20

Tania: wow, good for you. Your doctor is probably more scared than you are!

I had chlamydia for ages and because it is symptomless I didn't have a clue until a previously virgin boyfriend was diagnosed with it (sleeping with virgins - well I was young!) - he WAS showing symptoms in the way of a discharge, but it's common not to. The problem with chlamydia is that is it symptomless and they are seeing more and more problems with women who have had them for years. Wonder if it's worth asking if you should be screened?

From a website somewhere:
"The most common cause of blocked tubes is infection, and the most common infection implicated is called chlamydia. About 70% of women who have blocked tubes have had a chlamydia infection, though half the time it will have been silent and they will not have even been aware of it."
(www.womens-health.co.uk/infertility6.asp)

Anyway, it might not be an STD, it might be anything and you might never know.

Good luck with your research and go for it! (((hugs)))

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RudyDudy · 17/12/2004 08:25

CD32 and I just did a test - I'm an idiot. Of course it was a BFN but now I still feel disappointed and an idiot as well.

Well done with the Dr Tania - sounds like you were really on the ball with him. I take it Thursday is your appt with him so you have a whole week to do lots of research. He really won't know what's hit him . If I find anything useful will let you know.

Hello everyone else - fingers crossed for your appt Jeddah. How are you doing Hester? Any sign of AF? JB - the whole house??? blimey - v. impresssed. Does that mean you're free to come and start on mine now?

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Hulababy · 17/12/2004 08:26

Oh Tania, sounds all very complicated. Really hope at your next appointment you can get all your answers and that you don't have to wait to long.

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Hulababy · 17/12/2004 08:27

Sorry about BFN Rudy.

Anyone heard from Hester?

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RudyDudy · 17/12/2004 08:30

not since yesterday (no af and bfn) - but then we are quite early .

How are things with you Hula?

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Hulababy · 17/12/2004 08:35

Fine. On CD14 (I think) but have lost my BBT thermometer. Have searched everywhere. Rockon DD must have been playing doctors with it. Tried using normal thermometer but it is rubbish! But seem to have had EWCM for 3 days now, and had tummy cramps yesterday afternoon and evening which have no gone. But seems too early for OV - past 3 months of trying OV has been CD15 or 17. Could I have OVd early do you reckon?

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RudyDudy · 17/12/2004 08:43

I'm no expert but...it does sound like it. Especially if you have EWCM ("the dogs bollocks of CM" to quote hester ). Not to be too personal (well, yes actually but that is what this thread is all about) but have you bd'd? tbh I think with signs like that it is worth a go, iykwim. This month I had various signs at various times of the month and nothing made sense or matched up so just bd'd anyway and hoped for the best

I now have cramps but am trying very hard not to read anything into them either way...

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moschops · 17/12/2004 08:47

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RudyDudy · 17/12/2004 08:49

ty moschops

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virginbonkerz · 17/12/2004 08:51

just to let you all know! Thanks for the messages of support. No more bleeding as yet and my cervix is closed tight so thats good. Still feel pregnant with all the ms and stuff. Got early scan on wed at 8.45 so will just have to rest and pray till then. thanks again

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moschops · 17/12/2004 08:52

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jingleballs · 17/12/2004 08:53

hula - Hester emailed me and was feelin poorly on weds, so hopefully she'll be back to normal in a few days.

Rudy - er.. in a word... no! lol, sorry hon but i've had more than enough doing our house! I'll never paint a mod house again! lol. (too much hassle).

Tania - u go girl! I bet the dr was scared after ur call to him, I did think he was being presumtious thou in suggesting an STD? do u have medical insurance to cover the cost of going private if need be? get as armed with info as u can thou and we'll all help you out if u need something looking up - we'll be around the clock till thrus! he he, u during our night, and us during urs!

with clamidya (sp) doesn't it show up on a smear test? (at least thats what I was always led to believe) and would u still OV with it?

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jingleballs · 17/12/2004 08:54

bonkerz, thats excellent, until then, put ur feet up, and rest. fingers crossed for u.

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Hulababy · 17/12/2004 08:56

Rudy - don't worry, we made the most of noting the EWCM

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Hulababy · 17/12/2004 08:59

Good to hear bonkerz

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moschops · 17/12/2004 09:00

well thats it girls, no pate or cheese board or bottle of bubbly for me this christmas.

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jingleballs · 17/12/2004 09:02

oooh u got a BFP as well moschops?

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Hulababy · 17/12/2004 09:03

moschops??????????????????

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jingleballs · 17/12/2004 09:04

moschops come on girl, i need to get to work!

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moschops · 17/12/2004 09:05

i did indeed!!! i couldn't resist weeing on a stick this morning, and after convincing myself i sooooooo wasn't pregnant i couldn't believe my eyes when i checked and saw a little cross where i expected a line.

had to get dp to check the result against the picture on the back of the box to be sure!!!