TTC THREAD 16--THE BEST CHRISTMAS PRESENT EVER!!!

[kizzy212]

OH MY GOD

CAN YOU BELIEVE IT GIRLS, MONDAY NEGATIVE, TUESDAY NEGATIVE, I HAD GIVEN UP HOPE.

THURDAY 16TH DECEMBER BFP

[FastAsleepInAManger]

I feel a bit weird talking about it here actually, she's a friend I have from the meet-ups section, I hope she doesn't mind me saying anything

[Colinsawmommykissingsantaclaus]

Sorry about your friend, fastasleep

Well, AF consisted of really light spotting and has stopped. This is driving me crazy.

[Hulababy]

so sorry about your friend fastasleep.

[jingleballs]

light spotting, for one day only (hmmmmm)

[FastAsleepInAManger]

Ooh colin (sorry about calling you that!)..... let me say it again.....oOoooooooOooh Colin!!!!

[jeddah]

Bloody hell!!!!!!
just took me 25 mins to catch up!!!!

1. Hester! sorry about fikin af!.....I am just so thrilled that you ov and had a 'normal cycle!'.... me and you need to speek! (can't wait for the meet!)
   Life is a strange one! fate is even stranger!....my dear friend this month is not for you.....build your strength and 'inshallah' it will happen!
   
   
2. runtus...roll on af! 'come on you clomid!!!!'
   
   
3. Bonkerz...sounds good new thinking of you.
   
   
4. Kizzy when you sai 're eclap'....did you mean 'pre eclampsia' research shows that just because you suffered with this, the 1st time, does not mean it will happen again!
   
   
5. moschops so happy for you
   
   
6. Rudydudy.....so sorry! you are early though!
   
   
   
7. JB I telehoned gynae sec today and she said waiting list was 6 fikin months!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I told het that I work for the NHS anf have done for 20yrs and I am 41!!!!!!! She had told me to ring the appointments clerk on Mon morning and have a 'chat' with her!
   
   cd7 green light dead boring!
   
   I am really looking forward to our meet in the new year! I can not wait to meet everyone!!!!!

[FastAsleepInAManger]

Where is this meet thing then?...I seemed to have missed all talk of it with my lazy post skimming ways...

[jingleballs]

my god jeds, 6 months really?? can't u 'pull some strings' and get a cancellation appt as i'm sure theres bound to be a few.

[jeddah]

JB all in hand!

fast...... meet up in the new year...somewhere central? and not expensive! will keep you posted! there is a tread you should look at called:

AREAS FOR MEET UP

[jingleballs]

good good I bet u'll get ur one b4 me - and i've had to wait lol.

[jeddah]

I HAVE JUST DRAFTED A LETTER TO MY GP IN DISGUST!...TELLING HER THAT i THINK THE SERVICE THAT I RECIEVED FORM HER WAS DISGUSTING....SHE SHOULD HAVE REFERRED ME 6 MONTHS AGO IN VIEW OF MY AGE!!!! AND THE WAITING LIST! I AM SO PISSED OFF!

[Hulababy]

Good for you jeddah!

[jingleballs]

good on u hon, u've been TTC for a yr isn't it?

[jeddah]

I don't mean to offend anyone on a waiting list for a gynae referral....but I have worked for the NHS for 20 yrs and cared for thousands of patients and I really feel like a deserve a fraction of a thousandth millimeter of payback for this. If I WAS 10 YRS YOUNGER I WOULD NOT EXPECT ANYTHING!

[jeddah]

Off for a bath and to calm myself down.

sorry girls.......very grumpy!

[jingleballs]

sorry hon - didn't mean to upset u. (was only joking)

[RudyDudy]

(((jedds))) what can I say? that is shit! You shouldn't have to do this but complain like hell as high as you can and let's hope something can get sorted sooner. Hope the bath was relaxing

[jingleballs]

(comes in slowly/quiet.....) jeds hon, did u hear from becki at all?

MB.

[jeddah]

JB you didn't upset me! honest....just having a bit of a rant and rave... really pissed off with doc ...not you!

Rudy....nice bath, chocolate and gin!

off to bed

NIGHT NIGHT

JB contacted beckif...but she has not replied hope she is ok

[jingleballs]

ok then thats good, Personally I don't thinkg the whole NHS/Lottery postcode is fair, it should be the same all over the country but there we go.

nite nite hon.. hope ur not BD too much! lol... save ur energys for the red days! he he

[Tania2]

Hi girls family has finally left and ds has fallen asleep on the couch watching shreak 2.
Colin iam 11 hours infront where are you? Its a pain isnt it noone to really chat to live as everyone is asleep.
Thanks hester for the info it seems to be very common if i have got it it could only be partner number 3 or dh has played up surely the guy would know if he had it they do get symptoms?? Sorry about af arriving have to give you credit for sticking it out for 5 years i wanted to throw in the towel yesterday and thats only after 1 year. you inspire me you would have to be the strongest person i know. Really wish i didnt live to far away cause i really just want to give you a big hug and tell you everything is going to be ok and yeah get pissed too that always seems to help me
JB sorry about af but it does seem strange dont want to get your hopes up but i did have spotting when i was pg with ds enough that i counted it as af are you due for af? thanks for looking up that info for me but they wont even let me enter the site says access denied only for uk residence. could you cat me the page please?
Jeddah shit 6 bloody months and here i was winging that i had to wait that long for my laperoscapy is there a shortage of gyno's in the uk? Regardless of age or anything the wait should never be that bloody long. Kick up a really bit fuss and use your contacts in the field to get you somewhere you deserve better!!!
So wish i could meet you guys feeling that i will never get the chance.
Sorry for your friend Fastasleep.

[hester]

Jedds, you poor thing, you must be furious. Six months is way too long and yes, you must pull every string at your disposal. If they won't budge, what is your Plan B? Do you think you could get them to refer you elsewhere? Or would you be able to see him privately? The system is ridiculous; I know no-one should wait that long, but there really ought to be some sort of fast-tracking for those of us where time is absolutely critical.

Tania - thanks, honey. At the moment I don't feel brave, I feel like a mess. Hoping a good rest over Christmas will put me in a better place and give me the strength to get through the next few months - and whatever happens after.

Sweetie, I don't think you should get too caught up on the chlamydia thing when it may be irrelevant to your case. But just so you know, yes a man can have it and never realise. It is very common and often symptomless - very different from other STDs.

I too wish we could sit in your garden with a glass of something nice and cold and have a good chat about it all. Cyberspace is good but not quite good enough!

Colinsmommy - really, really hoping your light spotting is sign of one thing and not the other...

As for me, I have three party invites this weekend and am trying to decide whether it would do me good to kick up my heels, drink champagne and be forced to be jolly, or whether I'd be better off wrapped in a blanket on the couch, taking it really easy. It may be decided by how well I feel: I'm exhausted and STILL NAUSEOUS (tenth day!). I welcomed it when I thought I was pg; now I hate it, as well as making me feel crap it's like a continuing reminder, poking fun at me for being such an idiot, going 'ner ner ner ner ner'..

[Tania2]

Oh hester maybe it might be a good idea just to kick back with some friends (without kids) have a few drinks and relax it might do you the world of good maybe your body is telling you to drink and be merry
Dh and i are going to get drunk together tonight when ds is asleep play some board games and just plain old get SMASHED just the two of us. well thats the plan we'll see if we actually do

[jeddah]

Morning girlies! very quick post....dashing out! just typed a right stinker of a letter to the local quack! and I will ring hospital again on Monday.Hope all of you are well.....jsut so glad that we have eachother.

[jeddah]

just even!