TTC THREAD 16--THE BEST CHRISTMAS PRESENT EVER!!!

[kizzy212]

OH MY GOD

CAN YOU BELIEVE IT GIRLS, MONDAY NEGATIVE, TUESDAY NEGATIVE, I HAD GIVEN UP HOPE.

THURDAY 16TH DECEMBER BFP

[morningpaper]

Moschops YAY! This must be a lucky thread! XXX

[morningpaper]

Hula I hope you've been bding...

[Twiga]

Ace news Moschops , many congratulations, lol x

Tania {{{hugs}}}, sounds like you'll be well prepared when you next see the dr.

Colin, any news?

[ernest]

turn your back for 2 seconds and it all kicks off! Amazing, fantastic well done to both of you, so pleased we finally got some bfp's! That's your Christmas booze up knackered though

[Sallie]

CONGRATULATIONS! . Have just heard that my middle sister is expecting in August too so lots of happy news for Christmas. Just hope this is our month...and hope its a lucky month for everyone else ttc.

[moschops]

can i just say.....i'm obviously over the moon at the news i received this morning....but i sat for ages on here before i plucked up the courage to tell you guys.

knowing how much heartache i've had, with my nightmare irregular cycles and having no idea what was going on with my body, at one point i thought i would never get pregnant. now i've got my bfp it makes me realise even more how hard it must be to get that bfn month after month. i'm really sending good babymaking vibes out to you guys.

dp and i have decided not to tell anyone in RL yet. it is really early days and i still can't quite believe it. of course it won't be secret for long, most people will probably guess why i'm having a sober christmas!!!

i'm gonna stay on the ttc thread for now, don't feel ready to move on yet, and am gonna stay and throw babydust everywhere Tinkerbell style!!

[Sallie]

Rudy - sorry about your BFN . It never seems to get easier does it? I feel like a fraud complaining about the ttc process when I already have two lovely kids but that doesn't seem to make the whole cycle of hope and disappointment any less tricky.
Anyway, I am also a big believer that things happen for a reason so I am sure that we will all succeed at some point....here's to a very Happy Christmas and a very fertile New Year!!!! . As you can see, I am in holiday mode already - last day in the office today until 4 Jan - that is, unless I have to come in after all.....

[morningpaper]

Aw, thanks Moschops! We are REALLY pleased for you - ok and a teeny bit jealous maybe... But we are here to GRADUATE remember so BFP's are what it's all about. I'm chuffed to bits for you.

It's a bit annoying that everyone will notice your sobriety over christmas! XXX

[MINNIE1]

moschops,
Comgrads Really happy for you.. Wishing you a healty and happy PG...

[Chuffingoodtime]

moschops how about telling people that you are ttc and it is best to not drink. That way you people won't "guess".

[Chuffingoodtime]

oh and congrats to you and kizzy!

[moschops]

well having discussed it with dp this morning we are great believers in the benefits of wine and have agreed that one glass every now and then won't hurt baby. so i'll just have one glass and as i'm a tightwad no-one will bat an eyelid if i make it last all night.

it'll just be a change from my usual drunken self....

although just typing that and the thought of wine has made me feel queasy!! how will i cope if pregnancy makes me go off wine!!!!! as long as i can still stomach chocolate then everything will be fine.

xxxxxxxx*

[Tania2]

Thank you so much girls for all your hugs and support. It really means alot to me especially atm.
Morningpaper thanks so much for that link very interesting reading even read it to dh. we just cant work out how i could have clamidya??? surely one of us would know???
RD sorry about the bfn fingers crossed you have just tested too early.
jb will have to look up clamidya now. I just cant work out how it wouldnt be detected i have regular smears and was tested for all sorts of stuff when i found out i was pg with ds. Even gave dh the BIG "have you played up on me"
Congratulations moschops what a way of telling us you must have been speachless. good on ya girl. But cant help being a little

[moschops]

Tania.......i am really keeping my fingers crossed that you get the happiness you deserve. it's an awkward position for me to be in......my pregnant friend said to me she felt so bad that i was having problems ttc and i thought 'yeah right, says you with your 7 month bump' but now its happened to me well, to be totally honest, i've had a few tears today because i'm so frustrated on your behalf. and i understand what my friend meant. i don't want to leave this thread because i want to be pregnant and growing fat with you guys on here. i feel like your my best mates and i'm scared to be out there doing this without you.

i should be bouncing around (and i AM happy) but i still can't help feeling like it's rubbing your noses in it if i grin all the time.

sorry i'm really tired and emotional today.....i'm going to go and eat chocolate.....

[morningpaper]

Tania I think it takes a long time (years) for chlamydia to develop into problems like blocked tubes. It is usually symptomless. AFAIK smears won't pick it up, you have to get tested for it specifically. I don't know whether is 'disappers' from your system or whether it lurks indefintely. (Perhaps you could ask NHS Direct?)

Might not BE that of course!

[runtus]

Morning girls - fab new thread I see! 2 BFP already, blimey you were quick off the mark!!! Excellent news, so pleased for you.

Well, I am finally off the progesterone pills (prescribed by Dr to induce long awaited period) and now just waiting for af so I can FINALLY start the clomid on day 2. Fell like I have been saying that for ages now but hopefully this can't fail now??!

So sorry to read about your nightmare at the Dr's Tania, and good for you for telling him whats what. You go girl! There are always options to every situation so good on you for not simply accepting what he says..........

[morningpaper]

P.S. I've got NO IDEA where I got it from because the men I slept with all used condoms, except the poor unfortunate that I passed it on to. Although at the time I did write a bitchy letter to a certain waitor that I met in Italy ...

[jingleballs]

girls just a quick bit of an email I want to show u all.... (it's from DH on about my xmas pressie... he can't decide!)

"Then I thought of adopting a dolphin for you....but decided that we need to money more than he does....he hasn't even got a wallet to keep it in....in fact he hasn't even got TROUSERS to keep the wallet in...and so the money would only get wet...either that or he'd spend it on cheap fish and loose dolphins so I decided against that (besides we havn't got anywhere to keep him...I think that the bath's too small)"

OMG what have I married! lol, anyhow it made me laugh so hoping it will cheer someone else up!

will stop in again properly later on.

[morningpaper]

jingleballs: funny boy!

[Tania2]

Up late again tonight girls, first cant really sleep and second iam in the process of orgainising a xmas lunch for my nanna's sisters here tomorrow and its going to be a really hot day so trying to get most of the salads made now b4 they get here at 11am.
moschops you be over the moon and shout it from the roof top (in cyberspace) i am extreamly happy for you we have all gone through this together and will all be winging soon about how sick we are feeling and we just want the baby out! we will all get there sooner or later.
Morningpaper really hoping its not that. i have only had 4 partners first 2 were virgins 3rd i think i may have had unprotected sex cant really remember and 4th is my dh he swears that he has been loyal and we did have a break for a little while but he says he honestly hasnt been with anyone else in the nearly 11 yrs we have been together not even in our break. Did you have symptoms? Do you know if it has effected your tubes?
runtus cant beleive i am about to say this but....hope af arrives soon best of luck with clomid.
JB your dh sounds like such a sweetie thanks for sharing that with us it really made me

[runtus]

Thanks Tania, I am getting really excited about it all again now. I sort of went cold on thw whole thing for a while there (hence me not posting for a while)because of all the holdups - but feeling loads more positive again.

Plus xmas and our holiday in Oz are just around the corner so I am excited about everything right now!

Hope the party goes well,not sure I would be that brave!

[cockenzie]

wow kizzy .such a fantastic pressie for xmas.i am sure this time ur dh is over the moon!

i was chasing everyone on the previous thread..i havent been much on in the last few days.cant believe already 70 posts in this new one!!??!!



any more testers? any more people waiting to test?i am chikening out as i am due sun week (boxing day) and convincing myself that i aint pg.just dont want to be disappointed.i dont feel pg in the lightest

[cockenzie]

jb - i thought u had started on the persona a long time ago? not just now? i am saving to buy one mext month

[RudyDudy]

moschops huge congratulations. It is very sweet and thoughtful of you to be so considerate of all our feelings but it is what we are all here for and if there were no bfps we would all give up hope totally!! If we're going to support each other through the harder bits then we have to rejoice about the good bits. I think it is lovely news and you should be thrilled. And very happy for you to be hanging around sprinkling us all with babydust!

[RudyDudy]

hi runtus - nice to see you again It sounds like you've lots to be excited about - when are you off to Oz? It seems a strange thing to be saying on here but hope AF comes soon!