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I can't even be arsed to name-change. Come and tell I'm not pregnant please, and save my sanity!

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OracleInaCoracle · 03/02/2008 10:28

the story so far...

boobs have gone up nearly 2 cup sizes and are vv tender and veiny. coffee makes me feel sick. went out last night and could only have 1 1/2 lager coz the smell was rank. did a CB this morning at 9DPO and got a faint line.

Im so scared. so have decided that I am NOT pregnant. I will be pregnant in 3w time, but not now.

that line was a trick of the light.
ive been trying to put on weight, so thats why my boobs are big.
and ive been prodding them, thats why they hurt.
the beer was off.
the milk was off.

oh FUCK!

but will maybe take it easy, just in case......

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rainbowdays · 04/02/2008 14:28

oh this is not doing MY blood pressure any good, hope you are trying to keep as calm and relaxed as you possibly can be in the situation....

magnolia74 · 04/02/2008 14:34

oooooh, hope she doesn't take too long. Keep dh away from the phone

OracleInaCoracle · 04/02/2008 14:39

im ok really. nothing i can do, que sera sera!

i just want the next few weeks over with!

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OracleInaCoracle · 04/02/2008 14:57

still waiting!

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LilRedWG · 04/02/2008 15:32

Just popping in in between DD's sobs (she has a cold) Any news yet Lissie?

Wendyjayb · 04/02/2008 15:49

Keeping everything crossed for you

Any news yet?

OracleInaCoracle · 04/02/2008 16:37

woo hoo, AM reassured me that a bfp at 9dpo is a good sign, especially since i ov'd right on time for a change, mean that HCGs are high, but take it easy. appt is booked for the 15th at 11am, will have scan too. and if i have any bleeding/cramps to call them straight away.

my god, its really happening!

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kayzr · 04/02/2008 16:40

Thats great news. I've read this thread so many times I feel like I'm going through it with you.
Fingers are double and triple crossed. DS crossed his fingers earlier, they're crossed for you too xx

StealthPolarBear · 04/02/2008 16:40

just noticed this thread

rainbowdays · 04/02/2008 17:20

good that you got some reassurance, just take it easy and try to distract yourself with relaxing however you can.

will be keenly watching this thread hoping for continued good news.

LilRedWG · 04/02/2008 17:24

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OracleInaCoracle · 04/02/2008 17:25

dh and i have decided that i will take this week off college and rest all week. i cant have any treatments or use the oils anyway, but would rather not tell anyone in rl yet, plus have 1/2 term next week so wont miss much tbh.

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geordiemacminx · 04/02/2008 17:27

So pleased for you lissie - there are very few people who deserve this as much as you do.

Thoughts and prayers

sophiewd · 04/02/2008 17:35

Lissie - so glad it sounds positive, enjoy your rest

OracleInaCoracle · 04/02/2008 18:03

right, quick q. its been a while since my last normal pg, is backache ok? no cramps and its mid-back rather than low down, but i cant remember.

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WatsTheStory · 04/02/2008 18:06

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jabberwocky · 04/02/2008 18:09

lissie, huge congratualations!!!

Jacanne · 04/02/2008 18:09

Keeping everything crossed for you Lissie for a happy and healthy pregnancy

FlameNFurter · 04/02/2008 19:55

Wot Lil Red said!

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OracleInaCoracle · 05/02/2008 16:29

im freaking out, please, just let me rant.

af is/was due on friday. kicking myself for testing so early and letting myself hope/get excited. you see, i have backache. nothing major and its not low, its kind of low-mid back. i also had a tiny bit of brown when i wiped this morning.

no stomach pains or cramping but had a funny turn in town today, nearly fainted then threw up. ive bought more HPT's to reassure me, but im so scared. i want this baby sooo much and i dont know how i'll cope if i lose another one.

next friday seems so far away, but pointless going up before then. i know that if this were anyone but me then i'd be saying "of course youre scared" but i feel so weak. id be saying "most women have backache and brown discharge around af time" but i cant believe that it'll be ok. all i want is a straightforward pregnancy and a baby at the end of it, surely thats not too much to ask!

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fryalot · 05/02/2008 16:34

not too much to ask at all, sweetie

Now, you know yourself that backache is perfectly normal and absolutely fine. Ditto brown stuff. In fact, twould probably be more worrisome if you didn't have backache and a bit of brown stuff. You just need someone to give you a hug, say congratulations, it's all going well and send you on your way.

Well, it sounds to me that congratulations are in order, and it's all going well.

Take it really easy till Friday and know that you have probably the whole of MN with their fingers crossed so you can sit in your corner with your feet up, your pc on and you can giggle at the rest of us trying to go about our daily business without an efficient hand between us!

xx

NorthernLurker · 05/02/2008 16:36

If you hadn't had the losses you've suffered - you would think 'oh it's just a bit of backache - must have lifted that suitcase/child/chair a bit oddly' and the chances are it is just that. Really, really hoping everything is ok. Here have a {{{hug}}}

OracleInaCoracle · 05/02/2008 16:37

lol, thanks. im staying on the sofa methinks. only 3 more days to go and thats the first hurdle over with!

dont feel periody iykwim.

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WatsTheStory · 05/02/2008 16:40

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LilRedWG · 05/02/2008 16:40

'Tis well known that you get light headed and throw up when pregnant Don't worry honey, I'm sure everything will be fine this time!