TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

[FfayeN]

New thread ladies sorry if I've missed anyone feel free to add 💗
@MrsCristianoX @Indianna2006 @TheBirdintheCave @mummatara @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @HalWin2221 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @everythingzrosie @ChloeN @ChickenT2b @Chellooo @theblueflowers @RaliaMusca @Margo34 @Mariabombia @emhope @lovenaps @

@RaliaMusca I’m doing surprisingly well thank you. It sounds odd but from the first test I had such a bad feeling about the pregnancy. There’s a lot to be said about gut instinct 😞

@ChloeN haha bless her 😂

@Mamaseekingrainbow I know exactly what you mean. I felt the same with my last pregnancy, it just all felt a bit wrong somehow but I just always pushed those doubts away. Good to hear you're doing alright ✨

@RaliaMusca wow 3 months 😳 such a different time to be so chill about it. pretty sure I was an accident since she was 16 🙈 she didn't tell my Nan until she was 5 months gone I'm impressed she hid it for that long I looked about 6 months at 6/7 weeks last time 🤣

@RaliaMusca omg bless her how did she cope!! Must of been awful😔

@Mamaseekingrainbow sorry for your loss lovely, I was the exact same, I had a bad feeling and am pretty sure I knew the exact day the heartbeat stopped, didn’t find that out till a week or 2 later though so just thought I was super anxious

@mummatara @FfayeN @RaliaMusca its almost alien to me that our parents just had sex and we came along!
@RaliaMusca I probably need sectioning after each cycle, I’m not sure how your mum lasted 7 years! Finding out at 3 months sounds like a dream though 🙌🏾

@Mamaseekingrainbow Sorry that you found your way to this thread & I hope you’re not here long. It’s such a comforting group so I hope you find some peace here 💕

@ChloeN I’m so sorry 😞 It’s nice finding a bit of solidarity on this forum however crappy our situations are

@mummatara a happy accident, surely 😜 my cousin's wife also somehow managed to not tell any of us until she was like 8 months along. Baggy jumpers and tiny bump 🤷‍♀️
I'm struggling to hide it now and I'm only 7 weeks! Less because of any bump though but because I walk on eggshells fearing any sudden movement might bring on more bleeding. A bit weird when everyone at nursery pick up carries their child out the door and I'm like "nah, you gotta walk"

dd asleep, towels on, let’s do this.

@RaliaMusca oh for sure 😜 I mean I know it must be because out of the 3 children she's got I'm the one called the golden child 🤣🤣 my siblings have tried to steal my crown several times but they can't hack it.....can you tell I'm the oldest 🤔😂 omg 8 months I can't even fathom that and honestly by 8 months there's no way I would be arsed to try and hide it 😳 mine doesn't want me to carry him he just shouts no he wants to walk everywhere I'm all for it but it does take ages to get anywhere 🙄

@Fuckallthetories go go go 💪🏼💪🏼 enjoy and a tonne of baby dust

@Fuckallthetories we’re all cheering you on from the sidelines!

@mummatara oh I wish my daughter was like that, she's four and still wants to be carried everywhere like a baby. She can spend an hour climbing and running on the playground but the 50m walk to the edge of the park is too far for her 🤦‍♀️

@mummatara Yep. Mine is a wander-walker too. He has to stop and pick up every pebble, hug every lamppost and poke every drain 🙄

Hi everyone, not sure if anyone will remember me - a lot seems to have happened since I was last on mumsnet. So happy to see there have been some BFPs! Just had to take a month off TTC to recover from covid and get my sh!t together (not sure if it was 100% successful but we’ll see).
Brief background: I had a spontaneous MC at 6 weeks in Jan 2019, then DS born 2020. Missed MC in June this year which was surgically managed, swiftly followed by a chemical in August. I’m about to turn 38 as well so it feels like a race against time.
Currently on CD13 and just got my peak on OPKs this evening, however DH has gone out drinking for the evening. Typical!

@RaliaMusca @TheBirdintheCave funny how they are all so different. So far he's still happy to hold my hand but he is only 20 months I know it won't be long before that's out the window too 🤦🏼‍♀️

@pangolin84 welcome back lovely ❤️ glad you're feeling better I think I remember you were changing jobs? Oh how typical you'll have to pounce on him this morning hangover or not 😂

That was one heck of a night

how are you all this morning?

@pangolin84 hello again lovely 🥰. Absolutely, you could be right on point if you can get one in this morning 🥰. How have you gotten on DTD so far this month? xx

@Fuckallthetories Tired as the toddler vommed in the middle of the night so we were cleaning sick off the wall at 2am 😂

Your name makes me laugh as I'm a Tory (not that I like the party at all at the moment and haven't voted that way for a few years). 😬

@pangolin84 welcome back lovely! Great to hear from you. Urgh covid sucks, hope you're feeling a bit better. I'm dying of something similar at the moment although all tests say it's not covid 🙄 pounce on DH this morning if he doesn't stink like a brewery!

@bunnykins123 seems like everyone’s ill😖 I’ve definitely caught a cold from the snotty kids round the swimming pool🙄 seems like I get ill every tww, maybe it effects my immune system 🤣

just bought these for next week fingers crossed!!!!!
Pregnancy tests!!

@ChloeN haha funny you say that, I actually get I'll every 2ww too! This isn't just a bug though, this is covid territory - man down, rough as old boots and generally feeling utterly rank. How are you feeling?

Can anybody see a line?

I had a chemical in June, didn’t conceive August, another chemical in September and if this is right it was conceived two weeks after my chemical. I’m scared to get my hopes up. I’m 9dpo.

@bubble55 I can def see that line not even a squinter 🤞🏼 eeek good luck