TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

[FfayeN]

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@FfayeN oh love, so sorry you're feeling anxious. Remember that cramping, back ache and spotting early on can be completely normal. I've had three heavy bleeds including cramping. Haven't had a scan since my last bleed a week ago but after the previous two all was still fine. And I honestly thought that no bean could have survived those. So don't panic yet. If the pink cm turns into bleeding, obviously call you local EPU. Fingers crossed it's just a bit of spotting. Sending you calming thoughts ✨

@RaliaMusca thank you for your reassurance. I think potentially those thoughts of not having an early scan will change if I have spotting. It's so hard to not go into instant panic and my mood has changed rapidly. Going to do a clear blue digital tomorrow to check that's coming up with the right weeks roughly. In the meantime going to settle myself with some haagen dasz 😔 xx

@FfayeN I had brown spotting around 5 weeks . Epau wouldn't see me as it was too early and said it's most likely implantation so I'm guessing it would be the same for you if it's just spotting. Xx

@ChloeN haha good luck 🤞🏼 I always say I'll hold out then bam I never do 😆

Latest blood result is 1088 so we had 2109 Monday, 1851 weds and 1088 Friday so I'm happy with that. Still have a scan booked but I think it's just taking a while to drop. Hopefully one more week if it follows the same trajectory 🤞🏼

@Mariabombia 🤞🏼 thank you lovely. I think the lack of sore boobs too has me stressing but I know that all these things can be normal....I've googled and googled it xx

@mummatara that's such good news 🥰 xx

@FfayeN oooh lovely I hope it's nothing for you ❤️xxx

@mummatara thats good news! Glad they are heading in the right direct for you!

@FfayeN hope you’re okay. The beginning of pregnancy is so scary. My mum said when she had my siblings, she had to get tested at the doctors after missing her second period and that’s how it was back then! Almost wish it was still like that because it’s torture this beginning bit of pregnancy isn’t it 🙁

@mummatara that is good news :)

@HalWin2221 my mum said the same! She said she could of had early mcs and had no idea because she thought her period was just late!

I hope this link works. It's there ready for when we get close to 1000 posts. Sorry there's so many on here now I've lost track a little of all the new names to add 😘

TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/4660277-ttc-after-miscarriage-thread-13

@ChloeN its so crazy isn’t it! She also said she had a really light period with my sister, I was like mum, that’s implantation bleeding 🙄😂

@HalWin2221 theyre totally clueless aren’t they🤣🤣 when I told her I had ewcm she was like oh yeah the jelly stuff that comes out so the egg has space to come out?😭🤣

@ChloeN she didn’t! 😭😭😂 I’m 1 of 4 so maybe being clueless works! 💀

@HalWin2221 i think my mum got pregnant super quick each time so maybe it does 🤣🤣 we need to be more oblivious it seems

This is amazing! 🤣

@ChloeN @HalWin2221 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I honestly wish I was more clueless about it all

@ChloeN 🤣🤣 oh that's the best thing I've heard. My mum thinks I'm nuts we do opks and tracking and stuff she's like oh you should just stop all that and see what happens 🙈 yea sure mum like I've got the capacity to stop poas 😂 she just doesn't understand the need because it was all very easy for her. That's not to say she isn't sympathetic because she's been awesome but she's just like oh relax and see what happens @HalWin2221 it is hard isn't it we have so much available to us know to know so early it may cause much less heartache if we had to wait and get a doctors appointment to confirm

@HalWin2221 @Mariabombia @FfayeN I was speaking to one of my clients about getting pregnant a few weeks ago and she told me that you ovulate continuously for your whole fertile week🤣 like a new egg every day, she wouldn’t let me tell her it was just the once

@mummatara it must be a mum thing, mines the same🤣 she admits she doesn’t understand ttc and loss because it hasn’t happened to her which is fair enough! She is trying to understand a bit more bless her, she did say I should try keep the ewcm up there now she knows it’s not to clear the way 😂

Devastated to be joining this thread. This week I had an early miscarriage with baby number 2 at 5+5 weeks. Tested positive for covid the same day so I think the two may be linked.
We want to ttc again right away. I have pcos and was on ovulation induction so time isn’t really on our side sadly 😭

@Mamaseekingrainbow sorry you're here lovely 💕 I've lost 2 pregnancies this year after having covid both times in early pregnancy and had problems with my sons pregnancy after catching it at 8 months I'm 100% convinced it's the cause of my problems ☹️

@ChloeN @Mariabombia @mummatara @HalWin2221 @FfayeN omg you girls crack me up 😂 my mum and dad tried to conceive for 7 years before I finally came along... and she didn't even know she was pregnant until she was 3 months along! Her cycles are so erratic, she just thought she'd skipped a few periods 🙈 I don't know how she was so chilled after 7 years of ttc!

I truly believe it was the cause of mine. I’m so sorry you’ve been in a similar position x

@Mamaseekingrainbow sorry you had to join us. Pregnancy loss is so utterly shit. I hope you're doing ok given the circumstances 💐