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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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Skl2021 · 13/11/2021 18:15

@Bellesjp sorry should of said 20miu then a 10 Miu 🙈🤦 I need sleep 🤣 x

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Rachae · 14/11/2021 08:12

Morning everyone @Bellesjp fingers crossed that your line progresses xx
@Hhdxx I didn't see that any lines got lighter from my screen.. here's hoping they get darker
@Skl2021 so weird you're still getting faint lines! What has the doc said?

Well I'm 13dpo now and it looks like my tests are progressing. We've got the darkest line we've ever seen across our MCs, so I'm getting a bit more hopeful. So hard after 4 losses but here's hoping xx

Rachae · 14/11/2021 08:13

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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
Skl2021 · 14/11/2021 10:34

@Rachae I haven't rang epu back yet. I was hoping because they have got lighter and stopped bleeding I won't need need to. Was hoping this last HCG would be gone with next period but I might ring and ask. And those are lovely lines I'm really positive for you! Let's hope this is it 🤞✨🎉
@Hhdxx @Bellesjp any updates this morning 🤞 xx

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Bellesjp · 14/11/2021 10:41

Hi @Skl2021 ran out of frer but did a Superdrug this morn and bfn. I think I must have such a low level that it's only being picked up by frer 😩 I'll ring the midwife tomorrow x

Skl2021 · 14/11/2021 10:45

@Bellesjp yes maybe u would be better with blood tests then u know were your at and if there dropping or getting higher. Such a horrible place to be in. Hope u get sorted 🤞 xx

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Ladylou17 · 14/11/2021 19:46

@Bellesjp I would get a blood test lovely my levels took ages to go down after mmc xx

Bellesjp · 14/11/2021 19:57

@Ladylou17 think I will ask for one tomorrow, how long did yours take to go to 0 if you don't mind me asking?

Ladylou17 · 14/11/2021 20:43

@Bellesjp it took 2 months to finally be 0 xx

Skl2021 · 15/11/2021 11:36

How is everyone today ✨ xx

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Hhdxx · 15/11/2021 12:00

I'm sorry I've been quiet the last few days!
@rachae your lines look good!
I did a clear blue weekly yesterday that said 2-3 weeks so I'm stopping to test now as it's driving me insane and making my anxiety bad.
I've had a few problems booking in my first scan to check whether it's ectopic because I'm at a higher risk due to an infection I had with c-section after losing my daughter.
Sending everyone lots of courage xxx

Skl2021 · 15/11/2021 12:05

@Hhdxx awww lovely news ✨ so happy u got a positive digital! Looks like everything is going well. Yes I would stop testing as it will only cause anxiety! Hopefully u get your scan and it will help ease your worries. IV got everything crossed for you 🤞🤞✨

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Hhdxx · 15/11/2021 12:08

@Skl2021 thank you so much. It's so hard and anxiety is bad but I'm just grateful.
I've got quite strong cramps but I'm trying to see this as a good thing... I think...
How are you today? Xxc

Skl2021 · 15/11/2021 12:13

@Hhdxx did they give u a date for your scan? Hopefully u don't have to wait too long. Yes I think its normal to have some cramps and stretching as long as there is no blood. Im doing ok I think I may have ovulated over the weekend. Well my tests went positive and now they have dropped again. So hopefully af appears sometime next week. I will be 4 weeks post miscarriage on Wednesday just want to get my.first period over then start trying again. Still testing faint positive on pregnancy tests so hoping that goes negative soon 🤞 x

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Rachae · 15/11/2021 14:58

@Hhdxx thank you! Ohh fantastic news on the weeks indicator... I'm hoping for the same outcome on Sunday when I do one of those. Super nervous as I got 1-2 weeks when I was 5 weeks pregnant before, so I'm scarred by that experience.

@Skl2021 Hello, how are you doing? Did you measure it with an opk? Fingers crossed!

I'm ok today... it's hard when it isn't a test day. Yesterday I felt confident and today I feel really anxious waiting for the test tomorrow to see if the line got darker. Had my bloods today at the docs too and got the second round wednesday... they won't come back until next week tho - so I think the tests might be the earliest indicator of if things are ok xx

Skl2021 · 15/11/2021 15:27

@Rachae yes I did use opks it did go positive not as positive as IV seen it other months but now it's gone negative again so hope it was that I just want my period never thought I would say that 🤣🙈 it was so hard getting a positve opk and not DTD! We both decided it was best we wait until after period. Yes don't get to down about test lines and darkness it causes major anxiety. Your lines looked lovely and like u said much darker than previous so 🤞🤞 keep positive!! Xx

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Rachae · 15/11/2021 17:05

Thanks @skl2021 Going to try and chill tonight and hopefully the night will pass quick 🤞 xx

Rachae · 16/11/2021 08:12

Morning everyone! So I didn't chill ... Ive been up since 2am worrying 🤣 just goes to show that we shouldn't symptom spot as I was legit convinced the test would be lighter and it's darker this morning. Phew xx

Skl2021 · 17/11/2021 09:14

Everyone doing ok? 💕✨

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Rachae · 17/11/2021 13:05

Hey @Skl2021 I'm doing good thanks, how are you feeling today? x

Bridgey8 · 17/11/2021 13:05

I'm still testing positive.. 2 weeks post surgery. Is that fairly normal? Xxx

Skl2021 · 17/11/2021 13:10

@Bridgey8 I'm still testing positive 4 weeks on but mine was natural. Is it strong positive? U might have to ring epu and check most say test after 2,3 weeks.

@Rachae I'm doing ok not much to report still waiting for something to happen 🤔🙌 x

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Bellesjp · 17/11/2021 13:36

Well AF turned up for me this morning so my faint lines must either be left from before or was a chemical this month. Midwife wouldn't give me a blood test but said wait and see what happens, has told me to retest in a week and see if still got a faint line 🙄

Bridgey8 · 17/11/2021 13:46

@Skl2021 they told me to wait to three weeks so will test again next Tuesday. Has your AF shown up yet? Xxx

Skl2021 · 17/11/2021 13:52

@Bellesjp I'm sorry to hear that. Horrible when they won't help you. You only want to know what's going on 💕
@Bridgey8 yes hopefully it goes.lighter or goes completely negative 🤞 nope nothing happened here yet. Hoping next week if I did ovulate over the weekend. So just a waiting game xx

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