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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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altrajuce93 · 11/11/2021 11:37

Hey, can I join, I lost my baby at a few hours shy of 8 weeks on 15/10 less than 24 hours after an emergency scan which showed our baby "happy and healthy with a heartbeat". Trying so hard to be positive.

Hhdxx · 11/11/2021 12:36

My cramps have got worse but there isn't any bleeding. I'm so worried I literally don't know what to think about.
I've done a clear blue weekly indicator that says 1-2 weeks pregnant and a boots pregnancy test which isn't very strong at all.
Oh this is just so stressful.
If I didn't lose my daughter, I wouldn't be going through this. Makes it so much more stressful xx

Rachae · 11/11/2021 13:46

@altrajuce93 I'm really sorry to hear this. Mcs are so hard xx

Rachae · 11/11/2021 13:48

@Hhdxx If the clear blue says 1-2 weeks, then that's the perfect timeline for where you're at. I would think that the Boots strength one could be to do with the fact it's a cheapy and also if you've taken it past first morning urine it will be lighter.

Can you ask your GP for a blood test a few days apart - for reassurance? I'm going to do this from 4 weeks, as then I'll know sooner either way and won't get attached.

xx

Hhdxx · 11/11/2021 13:56

@Rachae thanks for your reply!

The boots one was from my FMU but I guess it's not as strong.

I might ring my GP and see what they say. They're really difficult to get through to though. X

Hhdxx · 11/11/2021 14:06

Haha I've just tried calling the GP and I'm 20th in the queue 😂

Ladylou17 · 11/11/2021 14:13

Started bleeding :( really worrying as only cycle day 18 and early ovulation this month. Do you think I should see gp or just write this month off. So stressful!xx

Rachae · 11/11/2021 14:33

@Hhdxx it also could be that each test has a different tolerance level. Have you checked that? Some tests are way more sensitive than the others... I'm willing to bet ClearBlue has a lower tolerance level than Boots.

@Ladylou17 aww no sorry to hear that - a bit early for AF though? xx

Skl2021 · 11/11/2021 14:39

@altrajuce93 welcome! Sorry your in this group also. Try and stay positive ✨💕 it's a horrible situation to be in. X
@Hhdxx hopefully everything is ok if there's no bleeding. I know you must be going out fo your mind hopefully the gp will do something to reassure you. I tried getting an appointment before and can't 😩

@Ladylou17 maybe your cycle is still off? If your worried tho maybe ring doctors. Might just take a little.longer to get back to normal 🤞 x

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Rachae · 12/11/2021 06:54

Morning 🙂 I cant believe it but I can see line progression! We've never tested like this before so I'm praying that line gets darker. I don't think I've seen a line as dark as this one (even tho still faint!) across any of my MCs, even at 5 weeks. Still early days of course and anything can happen xx

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Ladylou17 · 12/11/2021 07:46

@Rachae congratulations lovely a solid line there xx

Skl2021 · 12/11/2021 08:54

@Rachae lovely lines 🙌 that's good news that there stronger than previous ✨💕 x

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Rachae · 12/11/2021 10:11

Thanks @Ladylou17 @Skl2021 :-)
xx

Bellesjp · 12/11/2021 22:39

Hi hope you don't mind if I join. I'm ttc again this month after tfmr at 12 weeks in September. I'm 9dpo and don't know if this is my bfp or if I've lost the plot! I did cheapie this morning and tonight which was blank but bought some frer for tomorrow morning and couldn't stop myself doing one tonight! What do you think? Came up within 3 mins 🤞🏼

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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
Ladylou17 · 13/11/2021 07:05

There's a shadow of a line there I think 🤔 have you retested this morning xx fingers crossed for you xx

Hhdxx · 13/11/2021 07:32

Morning everyone!
I think my test line is lighter this morning so really worried.
@Rachae that's really good news!

Xx

Hhdxx · 13/11/2021 07:41

Here's a pic

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Bellesjp · 13/11/2021 07:43

Thanks @Ladylou17 I've done another this morning and it looks the same. Think it might be a cruel indent 😔 if you hold it up the the light the line is pink but I would have expected a stronger line this morning with fmu at 10dpo

Bellesjp · 13/11/2021 16:38

Just done another test, this is 10dpo afternoon wee but I held for 5 hours. Still same faint line, no darker. I thought it was an indent again so I dipped my last test in water and no line 🤔 worried it might be left over hcg from last time as it's so faint

Ladylou17 · 13/11/2021 17:13

@Bellesjp do you have a picture?xx

Bellesjp · 13/11/2021 17:42

@Ladylou17 I forgot to take one when I did it, this is now it's dried and I edited it a bit so you can see but defo a line. Really hope it's not left over hcg from my tfmr in sept, surely it wouldn't still be? I had a neg test since but I didn't use a frer

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Skl2021 · 13/11/2021 17:55

@Bellesjp I can definitely see a line. I really hope it's not a cruel indent or evap 😩 did you not test negative in between? X

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Skl2021 · 13/11/2021 17:57

@Bellesjp sorry I should of read full post. It could be picking it up as they are sensitive. Hopefully it gets darker over the next few days then u will know. I'm still testing faint positive hope it goes before I try again as like u say u don't know if it's new pregnancy or old x

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Bellesjp · 13/11/2021 18:08

@Skl2021 that's ok, yeah I wish I'd done a frer before ttc this month, I used a Morrison's that was 25mi or whatever it is. It's been 2 months so I really hope not still in my system!

Hope you get negative soon so can start ttc x

Skl2021 · 13/11/2021 18:14

@Bellesjp I tried a 20miu and got a negative and thought yes finally but then I tried a 20 Miu and im still getting faint positive. Seems to be same faintness just won't budge 😩 never thought I would want a negative test so much. So confusing isn't it when your trying again. Don't want to get your hopes up incase it's old HCG. IV got everything crossed for you 🤞 hope it does get darker! Your going to be playing the waiting game for a few days 😩 xx

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