Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

[Skl2021]

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

...something that did help feel more in control was that after a few months I stopped testing early. It was driving me crazy. I only tested after period was a day late. Much easier said than done, I know, I just wanted a conclusion either way and had spent too many months squinting at lines!

...but now that I have no idea what my cycles will be like, I'll be back to testing early lol. I think that only worked with consistent cycles. :/

@Ganesh2022 I think if you're over 9 weeks then they like you to stay in, incase of a haemorrhage. If you were around the 5 weeks mark they'd probably give you the tablets to take home I think....but not 💯 so you'd have to check with them. I'm so sorry you're having to go through all of this. It's the worst. I've only started with the OPKs as I wanted to get back to TTC straightaway and didnt know how to track anything after the MC...my first AF was 14 days 😬 x

calimc83 as, in, period lasted 14 days?!

@Ganesh2022 Yep! 4 days of proper bleeding, then 10 days of spotting! Thought it would never end 🙈 x

Horrible. I hope it all settles and that you, me, everyone on the thread has good news and soon.

@confusedmumof4maybe5 congratulations hope this is a sticky bean ✨🤞🙌

Wow this thread is moving fast! Welcome to all the newbies. Sorry you are all going through this horrible time 💐

@calimc83 I'm having a terrible day again. Just taken one after work and it's the same. Maybe even lighter I'm so fed up with it all feel like stoping it now. It's just messing me around and my emotions are all over. Why can't my body just do what it's told 🤦 I need a stiff drink or ten. This month is just too much

@Skl2021 so sorry to hear this...maybe take a step back. Have a few drinks tonight...what dpo are you? I ovulated late this cycle. Bet your covid has set you back xx

I'm feeling so down today. I just think it's never going to happen. I'm not due to test until Wednesday but I haven't felt the pulling sensation I got with my other positives :( just getting the odd twinge

I wasn’t due to test till Wednesday the only thing that made me was light pink spotting me nachache

Backache

I put the backache down to the lumbar puncture I had the week before

@calimc83 I'm cd 16 today so still early I know. Just the constant testing and they go up and down or don't move it's just getting to me. I need to get this month done as I don't feel hopeful and maybe step back next month and not do anything just DTD when I want to. My emotions are all over. How are you doing? X
@Hopingforarainbow27 snap must be something in the air! Hope you get a positive outcome! 🤞 I just can't seem to snap out of it! X

@Skl2021 mine were a bit like that..up and down then finally positive. Are u checking EWCM at all?
I'm ok...feeling nauseous but felt the same just before AF showed up last month 😩..didn't realise nausea was a symptom of PMS...but apparently it is! No urge to test yet as don't think it's good news this cycle xx

@Hopingforarainbow27 it's crap isn't it...think we're all feeling it today. Have u still got the CM? X

I had moist cm today after going to the toilet (I was a bit constipated) sorry tmi! But fry the rest of day so I'm confused now?

@Hopingforarainbow27 Nothing TMI when TTC! 😆 x

@calimc83 I have noticed alot more cm started yesterday so I'm hoping something is happening or soon! Don't know how much more I can take I want it done already! Yes I didn't know nausea want a symptom of af! Aww I hope it is good news for you we do need some 😩✨ x

@Skl2021 sounds like you're not too far off..hope it happens soon for you x
I know, it's not something I've ever noticed till TTC. I felt nauseous just before I got my BFP in Aug but before that I'd never noticed it. According to Dr Google some sites say it's typical of PMS and some say it's not so who knows 🤷‍♀️ x

Sadly I posted about this in total happiness on day of BFP but something I noticed was that I thought I would "just know" when it was positive, and I really and totally didn't. I tested literally just to get the negative over with and was shocked. All symptoms were exactly the safe as AF. If that gives hope to anyone who's certain it just isn't the month.

*same :)

Thanks @Ganesh2022 💕

@Ganesh2022 same thing happened to me with DS. Did a test just to get the negative out the way, and it was positive. Zero pregnancy symptoms.

@PamelaDoov @Ganesh2022 Thanks 😊 need to stop symptom spotting xx

@calimc83 when u thinking of testing? X