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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 14:21

@calimc83 I'm really hoping it could be, not had any more but will keep an eye on it☹ similar to the spotting I had on the 28th that was just from wiping then didn't have any more...
what day DPO are you on now?💕

@aesgriff thinking 9/10 dpo, its so annoying ☹ mine has been on wiping too, keeping my fingers crossed for you🤞

Welcome @slops1990 sorry for your losses ☹💕 I had a MC start of Dec so started trying as soon as the bleeding stopped, trying for my first x

20viona · 02/01/2022 14:23

@Sparklesurprise29 @aesgriff could be IB. with my first pregnancy I had what I thought was a short light period for 2 days the week before my BFP. Turned out to be IB.

aesgriff · 02/01/2022 14:34

@20viona I feel like this happened to me in my first pregnancy but I wasn't paying much attention 🤦🏻‍♀️ now I am close to googling every little twinge.

@Sparklesurprise29 about the same DPO as me! We can be worried together ♥️ it's only on wiping so far and dark brown. I've attached a pic just to explain what I mean.

@Slops1990 welcome! I had a MMC for my first pregnancy at 8 weeks. D&C on 8th November at nearly 11 weeks. I haven't had a period yet since the D&C (nearly 8 weeks ago!) but got a peak OPK on 22nd December.

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 14:51

Hi everyone - wiped and bright red. Having slight twinges too... Keeping my fingers crossed for you all🤞 this will be my first AF post MC, hoping its not too heavy and sore💕

@aesgriff thats looking promising for IB, I read it can be dark brown! 💕

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 15:02

@Sparklesurprise29 if it is af then just think fresh new start ❤️ mine was surprisingly normal so hope yours is too ✨

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aesgriff · 02/01/2022 15:03

@Sparklesurprise29 let us know how you get on 🥰 our bodies are strange things aren't they. I haven't had a period yet but I hope if this is your period it's kind to you xx

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 15:05

@Slops1990 I had my miscarriage in October I was 12 weeks. I'm now on my second cycle since. Its taken me different amounts of times with each pregnancy 🤦 Good luck ✨

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Slops1990 · 02/01/2022 16:19

Thanks for such a lovely welcome everyone 😊
Its very hard not to becone fixated, my previous cycles to this one i have become obsessed with symptom spotting & taking pregnancy tests. My consultant said to have sex every other day throughout the whole month & it covers all bases. So this cycle i am just chilling out about it all a bit, well trying to, and hoping for the best.
Good luck to everyone for this cycle!

20viona · 02/01/2022 16:26

@Slops1990 every other day for a whole cycle
Would kill me off 🤣 my husband would be pleased though haha.

Slops1990 · 02/01/2022 16:29

@20viona my other half is loving life, i dont think i have ever seen him smile quite so much hah.
I must say towards the end of the cycle it does get a bit exhausting haha

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 16:38

@Slops1990 I did that for one cycle never again it killed me off 🤦🤣 I can hardly be bothered to do it in fertile week 🙈 but yes oh absolutely loved it! 😂

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20viona · 02/01/2022 17:02

@Skl2021 @Slops1990 men are a different breed I swear. But I don't tell my husband when I'm ovulating I think it would be too much pressure on us both so I tell you lot instead 🤣. Just cracked a bottle or fizz in the bath to brighten the day!

Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 17:56

@skl2021 thats very true! Its good to know yours was okay, I'm hoping AF reverts back to what it was like before🤞

Thank you @aesgriff 💖

@20viona fizz in the bath sounds amazing! 🍾 although I'm still feeling sick so thinking it defos must be a bug rather than a pregnancy sign!

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 18:11

@Slops1990 Hi 👋 and welcome. I'm ever so sorry for your loss. I'm on my first cycle TTC after a MMC in Nov xx

Slops1990 · 02/01/2022 18:22

@20viona i think i have had 1 too many fizz's over the past couple of weeks lol.

@calimc83 hi & good luck for your first cycle

WhatTheEll · 02/01/2022 19:15

Hey again, and happy new year! Good luck to everyone 🌈 🌟
I had my last mc in July and I had what I thought was my period this cycle but I found out I was pregnant. Trying to be hopeful but after 2 mc last year, half of me is thinking "3rd time lucky!" And the other half is thinking "don't even start to get excited."
I'm about 5 weeks. Both previous mc's I've started bleeding around CD41/42 so I NEED to get past this point I feel. The one thing I'm clinging to is my FRER from today 18DPO, compared to my 1st mc at 18DPO, is much much stronger. Dye stealer in fact.
Sorry for rambling. I just don't know what to do with myself. To make matters more stressful I'm starting a new job on Weds 🤦🏻‍♀️

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 19:35

@WhatTheEll amazing news 🎉✨ keep hopeful! I'm sure u will make it past that date! And hopefully with your test being so much darker that's good news! I'm keeping everything crossed for you 🤞🙌❤️ x

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Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 19:35

@WhatTheEll and good luck with the new job 🤩 x

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 02/01/2022 20:03

Congratulations @WhatTheEll
I've had two miscarriages with no other children so you really start to think it will never happen

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:00

Huge congratulations @WhatTheEll have u spoken to your GP? They should be able to prescribe you progesterone as apparently that's recommended now for those who have suffered early losses x

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:01

@Skl2021 how are the opks going? X

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:03

@Sparklesurprise29 how are u getting on?? I think I'm around 2 days into the TWW...fml 🙈🙈😆 x

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 22:04

@calimc83 I'm doing ok thankyou! Getting bored of isolation now 🙈😂🤦 I'm cd 10 and ovulation tests are still the same so that must be like my usual lh level 🤔 I just thought they were dark they must just be sensitive tests! Also got no other signs yet so just waiting! How are you doing x

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calimc83 · 02/01/2022 22:06

@Skl2021 I bet! When are u allowed out?! Am ok....trying to keep busy! My 2 year old randomly told me I had a baby in my tummy earlier......😬 x

aesgriff · 02/01/2022 22:13

@Skl2021 I didn't have any CM for my positive OPK! I don't think everyone gets it. I did use pre seed because I read if you don't get much CM then it will help (talking like I've had a BFP 🤣 I haven't!)