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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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20viona · 01/01/2022 12:37

@Sparklesurprise29 looks like there may be a suuuuuper faint line there 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Sparklesurprise29 · 01/01/2022 13:46

@Skl2021 Definitely a good idea doing an opk to see if you're getting strong lines! hopefully it won't affect anything too much🤞 have you been feeling ok with it?
Thanks for your reply @20viona, hoping I get some line progression in the next few days! But if not I'll put it down to it being an evap💖

Skl2021 · 01/01/2022 15:36

@Sparklesurprise29 yes I'm fine thanks! Hopefully get out of isolation soon 🤞🙌

So I took and opk and it seems very dark for cd 9 I usually don't get lines like this until near ovulation 🤔 no ewcm so think I'm broken 🤣🙈 bottom is todays!

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20viona · 01/01/2022 15:44

I just haven't got a clue what's going on with my body and it's doing my head in. My MC bleeding only lasted about 3 days at most and stopped on about the 10th December. According to these OPKs I may have ovulated around the 27th Dec, does this seem right? We BD on the 28th Dec anyway. Not a clue 🤣 please tell me everyone else is as confused as me!

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claremc1983 · 01/01/2022 16:00

@Sparklesurprise29 Happy New Year! I can defo see a faint line..eek! Leave it a few days if u can?? Fingers crossed for you xxx

claremc1983 · 01/01/2022 16:01

@Skl2021 ah I'm ok today, thank you x my friend has been and gone now and it was fine...i definitely built it up in my head more than I should of done ( as I always do!). Your OPK is getting there...exciting! X

Skl2021 · 01/01/2022 16:41

@20viona it looks nearly positive to me did u take any after the 25th? Glad u covered yourself incase it is 🤞 will be nearly time for you to test if it was ovulation 🤞

@claremc1983 knew you would be fine 💞 yes but it seems to dark and early for my cycle 🙈🤣 I'm confused do I start Dtd but then I don't want to start to early as I won't want to do it when ovulation happens 🤣🤦 x

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20viona · 01/01/2022 16:56

@Skl2021 Iv got too many apps on the go and done too many OPKs but nothing has been as dark as that top one on the 27th. I need to stick with one app, I'm using glow mainly but premom for the ovulation tests it's all getting so confusing.

aesgriff · 01/01/2022 18:03

@Skl2021 looks like you're getting close to peak 🤞🏻

aesgriff · 01/01/2022 18:04

So I've had the tiniest amount of light brown spotting! Once last night and then once today 🤞🏻 9DPO

Sparklesurprise29 · 01/01/2022 18:51

@skl2021 better start getting busy! Thats a strong line!! Could some ewcm be a bit further in so when you dtd it may do its job!

@20viona yeah that looks like it! 28th looks really strong to me too!

@claremc1983 thank you! Going to leave it till at least monday I think, will try FMU as well, going to try and keep as calm as possible 😳🙈

@aesgriff oooh could be implantation bleeding 🤞 keeping my fingers crossed for you!!

claremc1983 · 01/01/2022 19:21

@thanks it always seems worse in your head doesn't it?! Hmm can u take another today and see how it compares?? X

claremc1983 · 01/01/2022 19:22

Keep us updated @Sparklesurprise29 x

Skl2021 · 01/01/2022 19:26

@20viona well good luck 🤞✨
@aesgriff I know it looks very close to peak 🤔🤦 I don't know what's happening its way to early 🙄 oooh fingers crossed it's implantation hopefully u test positive soon 🤞🙌
@Sparklesurprise29 yes it's too strong for my likening 🙄🤣 haven't started DTD it better hadnt be ovulation 🤦 I'm only cd 9 surely not?!

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aesgriff · 02/01/2022 09:55

BFN on FRER at 10dpo 🥺
Weirdly got a strong line on an OPK thought (just cos why PO 1 stick when you can do 2 😃)
Do we think I'm out for this month?! Got some brown spotting too but only when wiping. Is it TMI if I attach a photo of the spotting?!

20viona · 02/01/2022 10:51

@Skl2021 @Sparklesurprise29 well Iv had a peak OPK today, couldn't be any stronger! So confused but will DTD today hopefully if my 2 year old who won't nap anymore allows it 🤣

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Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 11:14

@claremc1983 Resisted the urge to test again this morning, wonder if I'll last till tomorrow 😂 going to take down the Christmas decorations, should keep me and DH busy! 💕

@skl2021 you might have a couple of days till peak! Its looking good though! Can you start dtd today/tomorrow? Have you got any conception lube since no ewcm? Not sure if it actually works but it did for me last time I fell pregnant😂

@20viona Put a film on for them🤣 hope you can manage to DTD and make it quick😅

@aesgriff still early💕I don't mind seeing a pic, always good for another opinion! When I had a very slight bit last week I showed DH since he was at home because I wasn't sure 💖

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 11:47

@aesgriff I got strong lh tests last time I was pregnant I got them before I got the bfp so 🤞 but some people do also get a surge in lh before af so it can be hard to tell. Good luck ✨🙌
@20viona definitely peak 🎉 get busy! At least u know where u are now!
@Sparklesurprise29 I always get ewcm around ovulation so I don't think it's happening yet. I get it for days usually so can't see it happening any time soon 🤔 might start DTD today will see what my opk is like later! 🤞 No have no lube I did use that with my first tho. X

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Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 13:08

Had some brown spotting mixed with cm so thinking its been an evap☹

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 13:31

@Sparklesurprise29 what day dpo are you now?! ( changed my username from Claremc83) xx

Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 13:35

I'm thinking maybe 9 or 10 @calimc83
I got a positive opk the 23rd but no peak as was testing every 1-2 days once a day then stopped so thinking ovulation maybe happened around then or 24th xx

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 13:36

@Sparklesurprise29 could it be implantation? X

aesgriff · 02/01/2022 13:39

@Sparklesurprise29 how many days DPO are you? I'm 10 and had brown spotting this morning but nothing since.. had very very light tiny amount on two wipes yesterday and day before too. Trying to think positively but it's so hard to x

Slops1990 · 02/01/2022 13:41

Hi everyone i hope you dont mind me joining.
Im so sorry fof evryones loses.
Just curious how many cycles post miscarriage everyone is on ttc?
I had a still birth in August & a CP in oct. I have fallen really quickly before. I have a 3& a half year old daughter who was conceived on 2nd cycle & my stillborn son who was conceived on first. Im now 4 cycles in & becoming so fruatrated!

20viona · 02/01/2022 14:18

@Slops1990 so sorry for your losses. My MC was only last month and I got pregnant on my second cycle. Hoping to get pregnant straight away. My daughter is 2.5 and I would love her to have a sibling. It's so hard not to become fixated!