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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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Skl2021 · 23/12/2021 16:25

@Hhdxx I didn't test negative until after af so about 6 weeks. Sorry your going through this. Have they advised not to try until you have had the tests? X
@JuniperAndTonic thankyou 💕 x

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chasingtherainbow1 · 23/12/2021 16:28

@Hhdxx sorry to hear about your losses. I was 9 weeks pregnant when I was told I had a mmc as the baby stopped developing at 6. It took 10 weeks for my pregnancy tests to turn negative. I was told this was unusually long though! No retained tissue or anything. I think it's just different from person to person.

Jayjane79 · 23/12/2021 16:34

Advice ladies start of a positive or faulty tests. Easy at home is negative from the same urine.

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claremc1983 · 23/12/2021 17:38

@Jayjane79 I feel like I can see something on both?? Eek x

Lookingforarainbow22 · 23/12/2021 19:51

Hi all, I’m joining the thread as some of you are at the same point as me and I’m finding TTC more stressful after my MMC.
I had an MVA on 19th November; and after thinking I had a BFP last week, found out my hormones hadn’t returned to normal yet. They have now though as AF has returned, so I’m hopeful that this cycle can be more positive!
So sorry to read about all of your losses, but hopeful we can all support each other!

Lookingforarainbow22 · 23/12/2021 19:52

Easy@home has a higher HCG threshold. If you can, I’d try a first response! I see a positive on he second one!

Jayjane79 · 23/12/2021 19:59

[quote Lookingforarainbow22]Easy@home has a higher HCG threshold. If you can, I’d try a first response! I see a positive on he second one![/quote]
Does that make the one step more sensitive than the easy at home?

Lookingforarainbow22 · 23/12/2021 20:07

From what I’ve read on other forums, I think so! To give you context, I believed I had no HCG left in my system because of easy@home. Then got positives at hospital and first response but negative on easy@home. I would test again tomorrow with FMU.
Good luck!

Skl2021 · 23/12/2021 20:10

@Jayjane79 I can see lines hopefully it's not an evap and a lovely bfp 🤞
@lookingforarainbow22 welcome! I'm first cycle after miscarriage was really hopeful but it hasn't happened 😩 expecting af tomorrow! Fingers crossed for the next cycle! X

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 23/12/2021 20:50

Can I ask if any of you take folate/folic acid? If so how much? I'm just realising mine is 0.4mg I've been taking when midwife has advised me 5mg!!!!

Skl2021 · 23/12/2021 21:06

@Hopingforarainbow27 I take 5 mg but that's due to me having a higher BMI. X

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 23/12/2021 21:11

Do you get it ok prescription? I don't know whether to order folate or get folic on prescription. I heard it's best to take the natural form of it? Mind field!

Skl2021 · 23/12/2021 21:49

@Hopingforarainbow27 do you have a higher BMI is that why you have been told to take it? When I was pregnant I did get a prescription from the doctors. However when I'm ttc I bought my own from Amazon. X

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claremc1983 · 23/12/2021 21:53

Welcome @Hopingforarainbow27 I think we had a MC roughly the same time. I finally got a negative with AF which arrived over a week ago..keen to start TTC but this AF is dragging like hell..x

Hopingforarainbow27 · 23/12/2021 21:54

@Skl2021 no I don't. Maybe she recommended it because I've had two miscarriages.

Skl2021 · 23/12/2021 21:58

@Hopingforarainbow27 you might just have folate deficiency. I got put on 5mg a few years back as my folate was low and I wasn't ttc then. The one I use is on Amazon and is called bio innovations I think. Hard to find 5 mg x

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Tofu35 · 23/12/2021 22:02

I wonder if anyone here has had a similar experience- I was TTC for 2 years before falling pregnant. I only ever got a small about of EWCM, and would usually have to rely on ovulation kits etc to find out when my fertile days were. Since my miscarriage, I seem to be getting a load of EWCM and my sex drive is a lot higher. Which is easier to identify than squinting at test lines, but is a new experience for me! Blush

Skl2021 · 24/12/2021 08:54

@Tofu35 I don't have any advise but it seems positive to me fingers crossed it works for you 🤞 x

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Skl2021 · 24/12/2021 08:56

Well ladies cd 1 here the witch got me 😩 bang on time aswell so here's to the next cycle 🤞 not going to be a Christmas miracle after all. Good luck to all those still to test 🤞 let's hope we get our bfps soon 🙌🌈 x

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claremc1983 · 24/12/2021 09:11

Ah so sorry. Great timing witch 😡 hope you are ok. I guess at least she's here and not hanging about..and you can think about Christmas 🎅🏻 and the next cycle!
Been speaking to a good friend of mine ( who's a Consultant/Clinical lead in Gynaecology/fertility) told her about my long AF and she said a good bleed is what is needed 🙈 start afresh and all that so all hail the AF for us! 😆 x

claremc1983 · 24/12/2021 09:11

@Skl2021 always forget the tags! X

Skl2021 · 24/12/2021 09:20

@claremc1983 yes glad it's on time I think it's going to be a nasty one I'm already getting strong pains 😩 haha hopefully that's good then fresh start 🤞mine are heavy anyway. January marks a year since we first started ttc 🤦 it's gone so fast. X

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Sparklesurprise29 · 24/12/2021 11:25

Hi everyone I got a stronger line on my opk yesterday so hoping for peak today as its Christmas day tomorrow and no time for dtd!
However I have a lot less ewcm than I did earlier in the week, its more watery but less of it too...can your ovulation levels go up and down? Could the positive be a sign that AF is coming soon instead? First time using the sticks this week and finding them a bit confusing. Last time I just went with how the cervical mucus looked and I did fall pregnant so not sure if thats maybe a better method.

claremc1983 · 24/12/2021 12:08

@Skl2021 gosh it really does fly! Does it feel like a year? Is it your first you're trying for? X

claremc1983 · 24/12/2021 12:09

@Sparklesurprise29 I've always gone by CM but started with the OPKs as not sure where I am with everything after the MC. If you DTD today you should be covered. Good luck! X