Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

987 replies

Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

OP posts:
Thread gallery
50
claremc1983 · 21/12/2021 22:45

I had it with my last pregnancy..had my BFP then 2 days later I had implantation. Just browny spotting and not had it in previous pregnancies. When I got my BFP it was pretty faint..not sure how many days after ovulation it was. Somewhere between 10-14? I'm ok thanks, going to start DTD soon I think 😆 OPKs have been v negative but I usually ovulate quite early on so don't want to miss out xx

claremc1983 · 21/12/2021 22:45

@Skl2021 sorry didn't tag you! Too many baileys 😂 x

Skl2021 · 21/12/2021 22:50

@claremc1983 yes I just don't want to get my hopes up anymore. If it's af I just want it to arrive so I can move on 🤦 ohh that's good news then! Soon comes round again! Mine turned positive in a day this time I didn't get the usual build up! Haha you enjoy them while u can 🙌🤞 x

OP posts:
Confusedmumof4maybe5 · 22/12/2021 05:39

Hi
Is it ok if I join? Miscarried Friday this was my first natural miscarriage I have 4 children with my previous partner me and my new partner are trying now the miscarriage took me by surprise I did have a subchoronic hemorraghe so maybe it got bad and detached the placenta.

claremc1983 · 22/12/2021 09:06

@Skl2021 hope u are ok this morning? I'm still spotting a teeny tiny bit which is annoying me. Is it still AF or just the end of my miscarriage?! God knows but it's driving me mad...just want my body to settle down and start getting back to normal..in other news I'm definitely going to start wrapping Christmas presents today! 😆 xx

claremc1983 · 22/12/2021 09:07

@Confusedmumof4maybe5 So sorry for your loss. Welcome. How are u feeling after your MC? X

Skl2021 · 22/12/2021 09:40

@Confusedmumof4maybe5 sorry for your loss 💕 hope your doing ok look after yourself x
@claremc1983 I tested again and bfn so that's me done now. I'm doing ok I'm holding it together nothing else I can do. It's a shit situation but can't change it. Not what I wanted for Christmas but hey ho. I actually started wrapping last night 🙌 only did a few bags but it's a start! 🙈 Kids wouldn't go to bed early and I had to do it when there asleep so I'm now knackered 🤦x

OP posts:
Confusedmumof4maybe5 · 22/12/2021 10:33

I don’t think I’ve processed it yet I kind of feel empty really

Bridgey8 · 22/12/2021 10:52

Finally got my AF - 50 days after miscarriage! So worried that this first period is going to be hell - how is everyone else doing? Xxx

Confusedmumof4maybe5 · 22/12/2021 10:59

@Bridgey8

Finally got my AF - 50 days after miscarriage! So worried that this first period is going to be hell - how is everyone else doing? Xxx
Wow that’s a long wait I had a medical management in august for a baby I lost and I around 9 weeks . My monthly was awful the 1 st one then my second one was only 3 days then I fell pregnant with the one I lost last week. I’m doing well how are you I bet ur relived to finally come on was u worried ?
Bridgey8 · 22/12/2021 13:42

@Confusedmumof4maybe5 ah I wasn't too worried. It took me 3 weeks to test negative for pregnancy and then it seems my cycle kicked in after that and was 4 weeks. I tracked ovulation and came on exactly 2 weeks later so hopefully things are on track... ish!

Jayjane79 · 22/12/2021 14:22

9dpo today TTC1 after MC..

Not very happy with easy at home pregnancy tests. 3 in a row had dye runs or terrible evaps.

I confirmed they weren't positives by doing an FRER.

It's so upsetting. I hope you can see from the photo.

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
Confusedmumof4maybe5 · 22/12/2021 14:26

I don’t even no where to begin or when to expect ovulation and my period . Waiting for test to show negative n too

Skl2021 · 22/12/2021 14:32

@Bridgey8 wow sorry it took that long! Mine wasn't as bad as I was expecting. Just normal for me. I'm now waiting for my second one and already had alot of pains and it's not even here!
@Jayjane79 isn't it horrible when u get false lines 😩 I got a few this cycle but all evaps!! I'm a few days ahead of you on 11dpo. Just waiting for af now 🤦
@Confusedmumof4maybe5 I ovulated three weeks after start of miscarriage bleeding even though I was still getting faint positive tests. I didn't get a negative until after first af x

OP posts:
claremc1983 · 22/12/2021 14:46

@Skl2021 it is a shit situation...but we will get through it! My 2 are at nursery today so managed to get a fair few wrapped...still got a pile to do mind! 🙈 x

Skl2021 · 22/12/2021 14:49

@claremc1983 oh happy days 🙌 so u can treat yourself to more Bailey's tonight then 😂😉 IV just been and got more wrapping paper for round 2 Tonight 🙈 My spotting has stopped again. Definitely keeping me waiting 🤦 x

OP posts:
Sparklesurprise29 · 22/12/2021 14:54

Got this after a stark white test yesterday so hoping ovulation is on its way in the next week Smile
Sending love to everyone Flowers

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
Confusedmumof4maybe5 · 22/12/2021 15:25

I’ve taken a lh and pregnancy test my oh test is really dark and my test is faint pos

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
Skl2021 · 22/12/2021 16:06

@Sparklesurprise29 good luck hope it's soon for you 🤞
@Confusedmumof4maybe5 I think the lh test will be picking up HCG still in your system. Have u stopped bleeding? X

OP posts:
Confusedmumof4maybe5 · 22/12/2021 17:22

Only bled for 4 days I have had some spotting

claremc1983 · 22/12/2021 18:45

@Skl2021 decided to have a night off! Pickled my liver over the last few weeks..🙈😆 need to be good! Enjoy the wrapping tonight..😫😆..hope u can get AF out the way soon! X

claremc1983 · 22/12/2021 19:15

@Sparklesurprise29 mine are looking a bit like that! Guaranteed it'll be positive over Christmas and we'll have to DTD when staying at my parents 😆 x

FieldView · 22/12/2021 19:50

Hi ladies, room for another one please? I had an MVA yesterday (9+4) for an anembryonic pregnancy picked up at 8 weeks at a private "reassurance" (pah!) scan. This is my first pregnancy, and so my first miscarriage.

I've been quietly lurking in the background since the MMC was identified on the 10th and it's really been some comfort to know I'm not alone.

Looks like this might be quite a long journey though!

Skl2021 · 22/12/2021 20:03

@FieldView absolutely! Welcome. Sorry your joining this group too 😩 it can be a very lonely journey so if you have any questions or just want to talk there's lots of lovely ladies here to help 💕

OP posts:
Hopingforarainbow27 · 22/12/2021 20:18

Sorry @FieldView 🤍 it's rubbish!!

Swipe left for the next trending thread