🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@lozza2206
Is that the wee one with cancer if so my sister has been following her story was on the phone to me last night crying about it awful sad, 💚💚 good for you taking the relax approach this month thou now try that every month and just go with it as they say good things happen when you least expect it to xx

@kiwi17
Awww I'm sorry but girl we got this dust yourself of and chin up we r stronger than you think few wine tonite and get ready for this month 💚💚 xx

@Annny27
She that much of a b###h she still teasing me lol but deffo on her way prop tonite she due on Sunday but deffo going to be early 😂😂😂😂 in work nw weekend of even thou I'm on a day's overtime on Sunday so a few drinks for me tonite I think lol 💚

Just want to say thank you to you ladies this chat has helped me through this journey 💚 just know that we r all an amazing bunch of ladies for the journey we r going through is one of the toughest we will prop ever have to face in r life times, but know we will get through it in the end with r rainbow babies in r arms, also remember relax stop stressing enjoy life and time with the oh and it will happen when we least expect it ladies 🍀💚🍀💚

Thanks everyone :) you're all such a comfort even though it sucks to know we're all going through this :( going to have a nice hot shower whilst dh takes dd out for a walk with my pregnant friend and family - I have to stay home and do 'work' haha. Hope everyone has a better day!

@Babyghirl yeah tomorrow going for the past few months x

@kiwi17
Enjoy some you time and I'm so glad your doing what you have to for you don't be working to hard nw 😂😂😂😂😂
@27DONFIN
Keeping my fingers crossed she does not arrive for you 💚

@Babyghirl thanks not holding out much hope we weren’t very active this month

@27DONFIN
That's when it can surprise ya thou know people oh have said I only did it once but remember that's all it takes as long as it was around the right time 🙏🤞💚

Still wallowing here... anyone else had 5 days of spotting before their first af after the mc? I normally spot a bit but this seems extreme.. and when I say spotting I mean literally a tiny bit in cm - nothing in my knickers or anything. Just fed up now esp after the bfn this morning and want af to hurry up.

@kiwi17 since my miscarriage (17 months ago.....) I spot for up to 5 days before even though before I didnt!!

@kiwi17
I'm the other way round at start abit of blood that nite then it's there nxt morning but do spot for bot 3 days at the end x

I didn’t realise how common spotting was till I came on here. It’s personally not something Iv ever experienced but you have all put my mind at ease if it was something that ever happened

@Annny27 how are you? You started groping your boobs yet 😂 I’m proud iv only started it today usually it’s a good week before I’m due

That's interesting @Annny27 but also frustrating- I was wondering if it was a progesterone thing but I've not had irregular periods or anything else symptomatic of low progesterone before so not sure. @Babyghirl yeah I tend to spot a bit at the end too... Hope this isn't going to drag on for ages 😢

@27DONFIN
You find out stuff on here that worried you then you realise how many it happens to 😂😂😂😂
@kiwi17
Yea my period is so light nw bleed for 2 days then brown for a couple of days wish I just had a full flow for bot 4 days and be over with lol
Well I have started my weekend of with a few blue chilling while oh is on nite shift, hope yous all have a great weekend ladies 💚💚💚💚

Hi ladies is it ok to join in?? X

@sweetbabydust1989
Of course it is all welcome to r group sorry you find yourself with us though but the support is outstanding xx

@Babyghirl Thankyou so much I suffered an ectopic back in January this year so on my first month of ttc i had no tubes removed or injection my little tot resolved itself within 12 days... I wanted to ask some advice on ovulation testing as I am really confused as I think I might be ovulating later than my peak test...

I got my static smiley on cycle day 12 (Sunday) so that straight away blocked out cycle day 13 (Monday) doing this via the clear blue advanced tests... I have been experiencing lots of CM and cramps since cycle day 15 so have no idea on when my DPO started...

Last month I had 3 low days 1 high day and then my peak but I didn't get my peak until cycle day 16... my cycles I would say are now between 28-30 days now.

Also worried I haven't DTD enough this month we did cycle day 5,7,11&12 hoping that's enough I work stupid hours.

I generally feel awful the cramps are mild but in the middle not located on one side.. they kinda come in waves they come and go..

Sorry for rambling on just nice to get it out there xx

@sweetbabydust1989
You ovulate about 12 to 36 hours after your peak but also you can get a peak where your body gearing up to ovulate then stops then goes again have you taking your temp any month I say that's the best way to keep track of your cycle I would get a dip in temp the day of ovulation so if you take your temp along with the tests you would get a better indication of when it happened and go from there, but I have stopped all tracking as it was stressing me out I have had 4 miscarriages and a cp, so sorry you had to go through that it's awful being on this journey but us ladies understand what your going thou and no question is never tmi 💚💚

@Babyghirl thank you for your response... I haven't tried the temp tracking as I work stupid hours so not sure if that will affect the results... yes it's a pain really I did another test after my static smiley disappeared and it was just a blank circle ( low fertility)... oh wow you have been right through the mill haven't you I hope you get your BPF xx

@sweetbabydust1989
That's another reason why I stopped temping cause I work shifts to so having to set my alarm for 6 took it at 6 cause oh gets up at 6 for work so when I was off and he was off it killed me lol, I have nw been put on the ivf list but hoping my app comes through for the rmc before hand and they can tell me and give me a reason for my losses and hopefully help me on my nxt bfp. But please as hard as it is try to relax and not stress I have learnt on my journey that it does not help with temping and stressing it took me a year to fall pregnant the first 3 pregnancy's then I stopped all tracking and fell pregnant ten weeks after the 3rd loss you got this and will have your happy ending 💚 xx

@Babyghirl I really hope ivf has a happy ending I really cannot wait to see a scan pic from you... to be fair iam not that stressed i feel pretty good well apart from these cramps... when I conceived my ectopic it only took a couple of months as I came off my mini pill end of October and got caught in December I saw my consultant as I have adenomyosis they also thought I had endometriosis but he thinks because I got pregnant fast that he is sure it's just the adeno... I had a scan after my ectopic and my ovaries are all good no idea on tubes as he said doing a hycosy wouldn't benefit me atm and go see how I go xx

@sweetbabydust1989
I'm hoping I catch before that and don't need it tbh hoping the recurrent miscarriage clinic can give me answers what cycle day r u on nw from your last period I have found after my losses I cramp a few days before the witch arrives glad your not stressing what vitamins you taking xx

@Babyghirl yes it would be better to catch naturally I completely understand that 100% I am taking some multi vitamins aswell as folic acid which my consultant said would be good to start before ttc.. I am currently cycle day 18 my last period was 24th March that month was 30 days xx