🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

[ELM7]

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

Congrats @chali7

I was only told pads for the MC bleeding they never said anything about only pads for first period to me and I used tampons. Isn't it annoying how we all get different advice?!

@kiwi17 totally understand I'm starting to get a bit down about TTC again, it comes in waves sometimes I'm ok then the thought of starting again and then if I eventually do fall pg again the horrible drag of those first weeks it's so unfair we have to start again isn't it! I keep thinking about my wee sept baby and all the plans I'd made for the future based on that date. I feel already like I won't be successful this month and DP announced today he would likely be away end of April for work for 4 weeks so I will miss a whole cycle in May and I'm really down about it already 😩

@justwant2beamum
The hole ttc should be an exciting thing for us ladies but here we r filled with dread off stressing will I ever get pregnant again to when we do it's the stressing over if we will go through another loss I have got so use to losing nw when I do get a bfp it nt if I loss its when, but we have to hold on to that hope that if I stop nw I won't get what I want and that's to be a mum. Hopefully dp does nt have to go and you can still catch ur egg 💚💚

@Babyghirl it's so hard and so awful what you've been through so many losses.

Well hopefully I get pg this cycle then he can go away if he likes. I'll be pissed off If I don't catch though which is most likely then he's away. I might tell him he has to say he can't go on trips at the moment but not sure what he'd say to that

@justwant2beamum
Is he going away somewhere far or is it a drive away where maybe you can meet up for a wee break during the fertile period and spend a weekend together would be in my head to bet ya this is the month I would catch if he was here lol its a tough one or maybe take the couple off weeks to relax take a break could do you the world off good 💚

@chali7 congratulations such lovely news. How have you been keeping? x

I am so sorry girls I just lack motivation to post 🙈 but I am reading it all!

10dpo and brown spotting so onto the next f*ing cycle once again 💩

@Annny27
I'm crossing my fingers it could be implantation for you until proving other ways lol. I'm getting cramps aswell so I knw the bitch is on her way for me to 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 💚

Argh @Annny27 I feel you. 11dpo here and 4th day of tiny bit of pink cm. Tempted to test tomorrow but not sure there's much point :( onwards we go together @Babyghirl!

@kiwi17
Test just so you knw yourself where you stand and just cause I really want you to test to 😂😂😂😂😂 xx

@Babyghirl 😂😂😂 tomorrow morning it is then! Don't get your hopes up!

Hi Ladies I’m like @Annny27 and just lacking motivation to post as just have nothing to say on this crappy crappy ttc journey but I do read all your posts.

Sorry that a few of you think the witch is looming. I really hope not. x

It's hard isnt it @ELM7 ! I have been saying the same shit for 17 months haha. How crazy that I have known some of you for that long on here ❤❤

@babyghirl sorry you think she is on the way 😭😭

@kiwi17 depressing isnt it! If it isnt normal for you then I would test. I started spotting each cycle after my miscarriage so is normal for me annoyingly:/

@kiwi17
I will be watching this thread waiting on u posting 😂😂😂
@ELM7
Awww sorry to here how your feeling its such a crap journey but we will get there 💚
@Annny27
She deffo on her way I norm start bleeding around this time of nite its weired its the same time of the day isn't it lol but in work nw and I'm waiting on her popping down to say hello 😂😂😂😂😂💚

chali7 congratulations. I hope you are starting to relax now.

justwant2beamum, as others have said, is there anyway you can go to be with your DH? If not, is there any chance he could do the trip at a different time?

Does anyone have any tips of using OPks please? I’ve never used them before but we have decided to try. Do I need to test at the same time everyday?

@miscarriage39
You don't use fmu when using them and don't drink anything for a couple of hours before u do test so around 2 o'clock is best then a lot test bot 8 to cause you can miss ur surge by a couple of hours I don't use them cause they stress me out cause I was never finding my peak and my doc told me to get rid of them xx

@miscarriage39
And the test line has to be as dark or darker than the control line xx

Babyghirl thank-you. Maybe it’s wiser not to use them. I may see how we go and rethink it. Sorry if I’m being thick, but what does fmu stand for?

@Annny27 @ELM7 snap ladies I’m CD 25. And I can’t be arsed with anything my eatting has been crap and I can’t be bothered exercising.

This is my first full month taking b6 and I don’t know if that’s affected my boobs as they aren’t swollen and are still squishy. Anyone else had this?

X

Morning girls 💕

I have been having a month of trying to live life and forget about TTC (very difficult).

I hope you're all doing well. Period due in a couple days for me.

Just wanted to check in and hear how you all were.

Has anyone read the news on little Azaylia Cain? My heartbreaks the world can be so cruel 💔🙏🏼 it did put things in perspective for me this morning reading it all and realising that we can all get through some heartbreaking stuff.

Love to you all xoxo

So it's a big fat massive negative for me :( so angry, disappointed and miserable. Fed up with this whole ttc and feel like it's ruining my marriage 😢 sorry today is just a ranty rubbish day! Plus I woke at 3am desperate for a wee but wouldn't let myself go so have been awake since 7am just lying here miserable after doing the test so now I've got a banging headache 😣 @Miscarriage39 fmu is first morning urine like you would use for a pg test.

@miscarriage39
First morning urine, using them I tend to think makes you time sex so takes the fun out of it and then stresses you out the whole tww lol just have sex every two to 3 days and you should be covered 💚
@27DONFIN
Nt started mine yet waiting to the witch shows her head hoping they don't maky my cycles longer thou as when I take b12 they make it longer, hoping different is a good sign for you keeping my fingers crossed 💚 @kiwi17
I got my 👀 on this thread 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 💚

@Babyghirl il let you know if they affect mine. Last 3 months mines have been 26 days instead of 28. Iv not had my night sweats yet so if it’s storing them I’m loving it lol x

@27DONFIN
I'm sure just hope they nt storing them cause they delaying ur cycle on u hate taking things if it messes my cycle up lol so your period would be due tomorrow then x

@kiwi17 really sorry to hear that. Its so difficult and unfair when it happens so easily for some and then we are finding ourselves in this situation.

I started reading it starts with the egg last night, it was really interesting and has made me feel really positive about some supplements I can try. Although I can see this costing me a fortune!!

Morning all! Bfn for me this morning too, just wanted to see it so that I could mentally move on from this cycle haha!

@lozza2206 yep I saw last night on instagram ❤❤❤ bless her heart! Such a cruel world

@27donfin interesting! I have the b6 but hadn't started taking it yet - nearly out of my seven seas so will start taking on cd1

Soft boobs may be a sign!

@babyghirl did af arrive or still teasing?

@miscarriage39 I agree with babyghirl, they stress me out when I use them and I end up doing like 5 a day when I think I am ovulating haha!

@kiwi17 sorry it was BFN - sucks doesnt it 😭😭