🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

[ELM7]

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@Annny27
OK really thinking it's a new pregnancy thou done a first response test on Tuesday and the line was darker not sure how long it will hang around for thou this time my losses have been ten weeks 6 weeks ten weeks 6 weeks lol. Deffo if this little bean does not stick around no more sex to I get answers lolI'm shocked at how quick it has happened. But I'm going about my daily life as last 4 my life stopped and it never mattered so taking. It easy did nt help me will know more on Tuesday when I have to go to the epu to get a scan to c what's going on good luck to u this cycle and hope that good egg is caught 🙏🤞🍀💚

It's incredible how quick it happened for you this time ❤ @babyghirl not long until you know for sure. They wont be able to see much but atleast they can take your hcg levels and ask for progesterone check as well and get those suppositories!

@Annny27
That's my plan hoping it sticks around long enough to get that far, need some good news my best mate my second mummy who I have worked with for 19 years just been diagnosed with small cell lung cancer terminal she only 57 so has knocked me for 6 and I would love to reach 13 weeks to tell her I have made it as that's all she has hoped for for me and her face would be amazing xx

@Babyghirl I sorry to hear about your bestie and I pray you get to tell her about this little bean.

@Annny27 as causal as I can lol I was meant to ovulate today but had major egg white cm Monday then eased then more again yesterday. We have dtd every second day since last Wednesday but not planned just the way it worked out. Maybe should turn on my charm tonight just Incase then as you say keep it regular over the next two weeks. X

So sorry to hear about your best friend @Babyghirl xx

@27DONFIN
Thank you and I really hope so would be amazing for her to hear x

@chali7
Thank you it has knocked me 6 just getting use to the fact she will never be bck in work and I'm on my own now after 19 years people calls us the terrible twins lol x

@Annny27 as far as I know I have 2 separate uterus but the first I knew about it was when they were scanning me to confirm the first MC so that was the focus at the time. I did speak to a consultant on the phone last year and he said it shouldn’t cause any issues with pregnancy but that they would keep a closer eye on me at the later stages but after the second mc I can’t help but think it is causing an issue. And I know you understand but the thought of it taking another year to get a BFP again especially when I’m already 38 is unbearable.
Hope the TWW doesn’t drag too much for you.

@Babyghirl so sorry to hear about your friend. Really hope you will be able to share good news with her soon.

@ELM7
Thank you very much would be amazing she been with me through everything and she would love me to be successful and knows I would be happy before she leaves xx

@slcxxx
For some reason I'm only getting notification now for your post over a month ago lol how r you doing. I some time get ovulation pain but its like a dull stabbing pain on left or right side depends on what side I ovulate from x

How is everyone doing this weekend?

@Babyghirl how’s you? Any more symptoms? X

@27DONFIN
Nt as off yet boobs burning off me on and off consapated after 4 losses I have myself down for 5th 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈. How r you doing x

@Babyghirl they’re major systems I’d say. Yeah all good only a view days post ovulation so the symptom spotting hasn’t started lol x

@27DONFIN
Fingers crossed this is ur month but no symptoms can be a sign to lol like if u norm get sore breasts before auntie flow and don't the month u catch that's a sign lol xx

So I had ERPC on Friday under GA. only really light bleeding not as bad as a period. Anyone else have that and when did your hcg go? I got a blazing positive on an IC yesterday :( just want my body to recognise what's happened so I can get my cycles back and try again. The thought of not even having a chance to conceive for a couple of months just makes me feel absolutely hopeless. I despise my job and was already miserable there and now I'm back today and especially with lockdown as well I just feel I have nothing good in my life, nothing to keep me going and get out of bed for and nothing to look forward to. My baby was my new chance at a happy life for once and now I have nothing.

@justwant2beamum
Please go easy on your self, it can take a couple of weeks for it to leave your body they say take a test 2 weeks after the bleeding stops but can take up to ur nxt period to get rid of it fully depends how far along you where. But take time to urself and please try not to put pressure on yourself I have been there 4 times now pregnant I think straight after a miscarriage for the 5th time it's hard not to think the worst will happen but I have learn stressing definitely does not help took me a year to fall pregnant the first second and third time then ten weeks the 4th then I think if I'm pregnant now again only 2 or 3 weeks after my 4th miscarriage I was trying nt to this time around to I got in depth test done thou 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 x

Hey,

I hope people don't mind me joining. It's such a horrible situation to be in - am sorry for your losses.

I wonder if anyone could give me any advice -
I have started some private miscarriage tests after 2 miscarriages in 6 months - testing thyroid, autoantibody, genetic thrombophillia, thromboelastogram and antiphospholipid.

I have to have one final comparison test for antiphospholipid shortly but due to a minor accident there is a good chance I could be pregnant this month (the second tests cannot be taken if pregnant).

Has this happened to anyone else? Can they savour any of the results from the first round? I would have thought some of the tests are complete given it's only the antiphospholipid which is taken a second time.

Any advice would be appreciated!

@j785948
So sorry you find urself here but glad you found us for support I have had 4 miscarriages last one being 5 weeks ago and have an app tomorrow with the epu as I'm pregnant again tryed to prevent it obviously not to well lol as I'm due testing at a fertility clinic. I have heard they have to be took 6 to 8 weeks apart for a clear answer as if first comes bck positive and second comes back nagitive I think they say it was nagitive not sure thou but hopefully if you r pregnant again it's a sticky bean and you won't need the tests completed, 💚

Been not keeping up but just wanted to wish you luck for your appointment tomorrow @babyghirl ❤❤❤

Will catch up and reply properly tomorrow

@Babyghirl hope all goes ok at EPU today. Will be thinking of you. x

Good luck today @Babyghirl

@Annny27
@ELM7
@sunnysideup2020
Nothing seen on scan and there test was nagitive but I'm OK with that cause I could nt go through another miscarriage tbh I'm cramping nw unless it's a cp we will c as last one I had I passed a gray looking clot. But on the upside got a call today from the fertility clinic got an app for the 31of march so I'm looking forward to that xx

@babyghirl I am so sorry :( that rubbish:(

But promising news about the fertility appointment! So do they expect you to bleed again soon?

@Annny27
They said my lining was thick but said nothing bot bleeding but with the cramping I knw its not to far away, looking forward to my app and hopefully get answers my best friend video called when I told he abot the app, she said she wants me sorted and hopefully pregnant and over 3 months before anything happens to her god love her lol xx

@Babyghirl sorry to hear.
Might have been your hcg perhaps from the previous month...
Good news about fertility appt. Hopefully they can help x