🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

[ELM7]

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

Yeah that's true @27donfin ❤ hopefully I can get pregnant soon and me and my best friend can be pregnant together 🥰

This journey is lonely and painful isnt it!

@27DONFIN @Annny27
Ever hear that song stop the world and let me off if only it was that easy to get off this journey, it's a long hard journey to be on and I so wish none off us where on it. But the light at the end of the tunnel has to shine through for us all very soon, keep your chin up ladies we will get there soon and have r rainbow babies in r arms 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 x

Ahh @Annny27 I’m so sorry it’s so rubbish cos of course you are happy for your friend but it’s still always hard to hear when you want it so bad for yourself.

We’ve all been there. One of my close friends fell pregnant just after me so we had great plans for mat leave together but sadly both miscarried. And she is pregnant again now so of course I had great plans again about us being on mat leave together but wasn’t meant to be again for me. She’s due in April and I can’t wait to meet her little one but will also be thinking about the little rainbow that wasn’t meant to be for us. Sending big hugs to you. xx

@Nuggetlover27 really hope all was ok with your scan yesterday? x

Morning ladies:) feeling a bit better today :)

@ELM7 thank you lovely! Yes its rubbish isnt it when we have all these plans and infertility is like No❤

@nuggetlover27 hope all went well lovely ❤

@babyghirl what was today's test like? And yes this journey is full of bumps and trenches!

Aw @Annny27 I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. We all desperately want you (and the other ladies here) to get your rainbow(s)!! 💕

Sorry to come on here with some good news at what seems to be a bad time , but I hope you'll all be okay for me to tell you that my scan went well! We saw a heartbeat and all the measurements add up and it's in the correct place. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it stays all okay. This could actually be my rainbow ladies! I can't believe it

It's always a bad time on here so any good news is much appreciated @nuggetlover27 haha

Glad baby is all okay ❤❤ got a pic to share? :D

@Annny27
Just done a test first response 2 lines so now going to phone the epu and c what they say phone docs aswell xx

Ahh @Nuggetlover27 I’m so pleased everything went well at the scan. We need the good news updates on here so really hope the next few months are smooth sailing for you and your rainbow 🌈 x

@Nuggetlover27 congratulations on your healthy rainbow 🌈 💕

@Babyghirl let us know what they say on the phone! Fingers n toes crossed for you xxx

Thanks @ELM7 @Annny27 @lozza2206

This is the photo we have I know it doesn't look like much at the moment 🙈🥰

Its amazing @nuggetlover27 I can see baby taking shape ❤❤❤

@ELM7 have you got any more tests now or has the fertility clock restarted given that you got pregnant recently?

Yay! @Nuggetlover27 an amazing picture to treasure.

@Annny27 I’ve got our first phone consultation on 15th March but that was arranged before we got pregnant so don’t know if they will reset the clock or not. Hoping not or if they do that it will just be 6mths (because of our ages) and we are already 3mths in. I really want (that sounds wrong) them to do some investigation on me as I can’t help but think the double uterus is playing a part in why I don’t stay pregnant. And no one seems to really know what’s going on in there cos at the point they scan me is just been about what’s happening with the MCs

@Babyghirl hope you’ve been able to get hold of epu.

@Nuggetlover27 awww so glad your scan went well 🌈

@Babyghirl sending positive thoughts your way 🤞🏻🍀💚

Hey girls I'm a bit early to join but I need to think forward to get through this. Went for a private scan last night at 9+4 after seeing baby and healthy HB at 7 weeks. No HB and not progressed since 7 weeks. So am having a mmc. Getting scanned at my maternity unit tomorrow and I guess they'll take from there. But I need to think forward to have a reason to keep going and we plan to ttc straight away. I've been taking the seven seas pregnancy vitamins for the last 9 weeks or so - does anyone just keep going with these while TTC? Last time TTC I just took a folic acid and then a gummy vitamin that had C and D.

@justwant2beamum I’m sorry you find yourself here. My only advice is please be kind to yourself and don’t put pressure on yourself. I look back and I just dived straight back into ttc and I really wasn’t ready. Xx

@27DONFIN
Thank you surely it's got to be my turn soon lol xx
@justwant2beamum
Sorry you find yourself on this thread but glad you found us for support its an amazing group for support, be kind to yourself nothing you have done has caused this them thoughts will go through ur head at some point, I have been there 4 times while ttc last one being 4 weeks ago done a test the other day and it came bck positive so off to the epu nxt tue to c if it's left over hcg from last miscarriage or a new pregnancy first 3 times I fell pregnant I always fell pregnant in September after my last loss on holloween I fell pregnant ten weeks l8r the quickest time ever and if this a new pregnancy only around 2 weeks after the last miscarriage I was nt wanting to get pregnant again 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 as in waiting on an app from the fertility clinic for tests. Good luck for tomara and look after yourself 💚

@ELM7
Phoned them today I'm going nxt Tuesday to c what's going on they wanted to wait a week so if its a new pregnancy they hopefully will c something on scan to rule out left over from last miscarriage 💚

@Nuggetlover27 great news lovely, so pleased for you! How far on are you? Great to see a heartbeat, fingers crossed all goes smoothly.
Thinking of you all ladies and hope you’re all ok, can’t wait to see you all get those BFPs xxx

@Annny27 Be kind to yourself it is ok to have feelings of anger, happiness, sadness etc. My best friend and I found out we were pregnant on the same day. Our due dates were 2 days apart. I had an MMC, and every scan, movement, and moment she experienced made me so happy for her but so sad for myself. I still haven't had my rainbow baby, but I am almost 9 weeks now and have had a second loss since then. I still have some hope 🤞

@Babyghirl good luck at your scan next week! Xx

@Nuggetlover27 congratulations- what a lovely scan picture xx

@justwant2beamum so sorry you find yourself here. I went for a scan at 10 weeks and baby was measuring 7+4 with no heartbeat, overall i waited 2 weeks with scans in between and had surgery as my body did not miscarry naturally. You are not alone so please ask any questions you may have. This is such a lovely thread and lovely people xx

@chali7
Thank you nt feeling confident it's a new pregnancy tbh as my boobs aren't sore burning on and off but not sore xx

@Annny27 please dont be so harsh on yourself. You are in a shit situation, have been for too long, trying hard. It doesn't matter that she is your friend, her being pregnant reinforces the fact that you aren't. I am sure deep down you are happy for her. But it's also normal to feel devastated. 😕 i am sorry you are going through this. Try to protect yourself and your feelings. And i hope you get your bfp soon and you two share the journey together ❤

@Nuggetlover27 that's amazing news lovely! It looks like my very first scan dated 7w4. 🌈
Whenever you are ready i can add you to the pregnancy chat x

@Babyghirl it is good that they are seeing you, hope you get answers at your scam next week!!! X

@sunnysideup2020
Thank you I'm kind of hoping it's nt tbh as I can't go through a 5th miscarriage I wanted to wait to I got more tests done with the fertility clinic, but also don't want in to be an incomplete miscarriage aswell as the thought of having to have an op terrifies me and set my anxiety off lol. How you keeping 💚

@Nuggetlover27 That's such good news the scan went well! Congratulations!! When is the next one planned for?

@Annny27 definitely don't be hard on yourself. It's totally normal to feel like that when you've been going through what you have. I didn't go through anything near what you have and I totally broke down when found out sis in law was pregnant. I really hope you get ur BFP soon and ye both get to share the journey together. (Also the one time I ovulated early and got my pos opk on CD13 was my lucky cycle so 🤞for you too!!)

@Babyghirl I'm really hoping it's good news for you too but I know you must be going through such a rollercoaster of emotions one way or another. I won't say anything but good luck with your appointment. Xx

Evening ladies :D 2dpo now - I love a good early ovulation haha! We are actually going to continue with sex during the because apparently (apparently!) The presence of sperm in the womb can reduce the chance of body attacking/ rejecting embryo. So will do it every few days if we cba haha

@leok83 thanks lovely! Yeah sometimes I actually cant believe that we are on month 15 after miscarriage - seems insane!! Glad you have started maternity leave now (I read everything over on the other thread like a little stalker haha)

@SunnySideUp2020 thank you ❤ yeah it's tough sometimes! Have you got most things prepared for baby girl now?

@babyghirl how are you feeling?

@ELM7 yeah it must be contributing although you have gotten pregnant twice now so perhaps they dont think it's an issue. So am I right in thinking that you have 2 separate uterus? Or partially separate.

@27donfin taking it casually this cycle?