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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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Babyghirl · 09/03/2021 13:26

@sunnysideup2020
I would point more towards a cp tbh as my boobs felt the way they did last time burning and tingling but I'm OK with it hopefully get answers and help for nxt time around xx

chali7 · 09/03/2021 17:08

Just popped on to see how today went @Babyghirl - so sorry to read this. But also pleased you have an appointment now! That is progress and really hoping they can help! ❤

27DONFIN · 09/03/2021 21:19

@Babyghirl sorry to hear this but glad you have your appointment snd it’s not too long a wait x

Babyghirl · 09/03/2021 21:23

@chali7
@27DONFIN
Thank you girls the support from this group is out off this world, not long to wait 3 weeks tomara thank god xx

Annny27 · 10/03/2021 13:18

Morning ladies! I had my AMH test results back which is 41 pmol/l so "optimal fertility" levels which I am super pleased about as I was worried about it.

@babyghirl your best friend sounds so sweet! Does she need any treatment or is it too far for that? :(

@27donfin managing to take it easy?

@elm7 yeah I would have though theh would be way more interested in the double uterus! If you have a hycosy they will be able to see how the fluid flows through the uterus and therefore see the extent of the split

Babyghirl · 10/03/2021 13:37

@Annny27
It's to far gone to be cured 😪😪😪😪😪 just getting chemo to reduce the size to take the pressure off the heart she's amazing been with me through everything 💚

27DONFIN · 10/03/2021 13:46

@Annny27 that’s great news are you feeling better after that result?

Yeah I think so lol I know next week il be y usual symptom spotting reading into things too much

@Babyghirl I’m so sorry to hear that about your friend 💕

lozza2206 · 10/03/2021 20:12

Sorry I have been so rubbish on here these last 2 weeks.

@Babyghirl wishing you loads of luck for your appointment🌈

@Annny27 that's amazing news 💕

Quick question cause I think I am going mad symptom spotting. This is my first official month TTC since my surgery in jan. I had my peak and think I felt ovulation. I am now 10dpo. Just want to see your opinions on tender to touch boobs. I usually get it a few days before my period - I always have lower back ache a week before. But I have had tender boobs and back ache since 4dpo... I basically wanna know what sort of boob pain you experience before your period or before a BFP? Xxx

Babyghirl · 10/03/2021 20:23

@lozza2206
All mine have been different one of them I had nt got my usual boob pain another one was just pain all over shouting under arm to 2 was like a burning tingling sensation lol so all different for me if it's unusual for you it could be a sign good luck 🙏🤞💚🍀

lozza2206 · 10/03/2021 20:25

@Babyghirl thank you! I know it's different every time and every period too! Do you ever look back to yourself before TTC and think wow I just skipped about not even thinking about this stuff. Now it's all I live and breath for!! 😂💕

Babyghirl · 10/03/2021 20:31

@27DONFIN
Thank you she my soul mate although 20 years older than me been with me through the worst days and the best days 1st one to know every time I got a positive test even before the oh 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 will be lost without her xx

Babyghirl · 10/03/2021 20:33

@lozza2206
Norm before my period they just tender nt to bad around the bottom and around the sides by the arm pit but nt sore to the touch x

Babyghirl · 10/03/2021 20:37

@lozza2206
Yep lol I think bck to my school days and remember being told u look at a wee boy you will get pregnant but they never ever told us about the struggles some will go through so they lied to us 😂😂😂😂😂😂, I'm nt ttc nw thou to I have my app on the 31st of this month to c what nxt steps r 4 losses is enough for anybody xx

Annny27 · 12/03/2021 16:58

Afternoon! Been so busy these past few days with work....looking forward to weekend!! I am around 10dpo and experiencing all the normal pre AF signs 🙄🙄

@babyghirl bless her ❤❤

Any sign of AF?

@27donfin symptom spotting happens to the best of us

@lozza2206 I get "fuller boobs" before my period and if they shrink I know she is on the way! So it wasnt necessarily painful for me - just fuller

Babyghirl · 12/03/2021 17:42

@Annny27
Nope just that bit off cramping the other day but not a thing to show for it 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 I want it to hurry up she said the other day at the scan my lining was thick so I don't know where it is lol 💚 hope auntie flow does not get u.

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 15:10

Girls quick question has anybody ever took vitamin d and noticed it delayed your periods, I remember taking my pregncare after my first miscarriage as doc told me to still take them and it messed up my cycle I have been taking vitamin d for a few weeks now and my period still not here 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 my period norm comes back in the sync after my miscarriages. 💚

Annny27 · 13/03/2021 15:23

@babyghirl not experienced it sorry but I have heard about pregnacarre delaying it!

Have you taken a test atall since? If your lining was thick and no period then it could just have been too early for them to see??

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 15:36

@Annny27
They said there test was nagitive and super sensitive 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 will leave it a week stopped taking the vitamin d 3 or 4 days ago and feel periodie if u get me lol just wish it would hurry up so I knw where I am and hold of to my app.

MrsF111 · 13/03/2021 18:27

Hi everyone, I have just had my second miscarriage so back to TTC for me. First one was a MMC, this one was an early loss but not picked up until 12 week scan as I haven’t bled (spotted around time of BFP but no period or bleeding since) so I’m waiting for my period to come back so we can get back to trying. Thinking about trying baby aspirin this time around. Currently resting up and reading the baby loss guide

27DONFIN · 13/03/2021 18:37

@Babyghirl I was taking folic acid with vitamin and mines were always 28 days. This month Iv stopped and started taking the folate so will see if there’s a difference

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 18:46

@27DONFIN
I noticed the months I was taking the pregncare with vitamin d in them my period was late norm 29 days on the spot before hand and this time I was taking vitamin d and I'm 2 weeks late and even after my miscarriages I always had my cycle back to norm so have stopped the vitamin d and hoping it kick starts soon. Have you remembered to take your folate every day lol 💚

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 18:50

@mrsF111
Sorry you find yourself with us but glad you found us for support. Having 1 miscarriage is awful never mind 2, so r they treating the second one as a mmc as well so sorry for your losses, I myself have had 4 and 1 cp I'm nw in limbo waiting on my period to come after my last loss early Feb also waiting on a 2nd fertility app which is at the end of this month go easy on yourself 💚

MrsF111 · 13/03/2021 19:04

@Babyghirl. I’m not really sure if they are classing it as second mmc, they said chemical pregnancy and also called it an early loss (same thing?) but it doesn’t really explain when I’ve not bled, but as with everything pregnancy related the consultant said it can happen/not hard and fast rule Sad I really wish I had gone in for an early scan so I had found out sooner, although I guess there is nothing that could have been done to speed it up, I just need to wait for my period but I at least wouldn’t have spent the last 2 months thinking everything was ok!

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 19:26

@mrsF111
I'm no doc but I would say a mmc isn't that wat they class as a mmc baby not developing but no bleeding or pain to say anything is wrong it's hard when you have been through so much but we all will get there just a tougher Rd to get where we want but will be extra special when it does happen for you, vent and scream on here at anytime you won't be judged for anything as it's the only place we can say wats on r minds cause we all understand what we r going through 💚

27DONFIN · 13/03/2021 19:31

@MrsF111 so sorry you find yourself in this feed 💕

@Babyghirl yeah only missed one night infact I need to take it just now lol

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