🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

[ELM7]

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@27DONFIN
Going to phone epu tomorrow and c what they say if they will do bloods or a scan to c what's going on but I can't believe that everything will be OK after the last 4 losses. How r you doing xx

@Nuggetlover27 good luck with your scan!

Thanks @SunnySideUp2020 ! after researching more into the place where we booked the scan we both decided we wasn't comfortable with the amount of bad reviews they had plus a couple other red flags, so we cancelled and booked at another place that looks 100 times better for tomorrow evening! One extra day, but I hope it'll be worth the wait!

Looks like there may be some congratulations @Babyghirl ! Really hoping this is your time! 🥰

@nuggetlover27
Going to phone the epu tomorrow c wat they say so nt getting my hopes up and even if I am I will be waiting on the bleeding starting. Xx good lick on ur scan how far r u nw 🍀💚

@nuggetlover27 best of luck for tomorrow! When we.are pregnant again I am not going back to the place where I had my first scan as I felt they didn't properly prepare me for what it meant when they said "I couldn't locate the heartbeat" - I went away thinking that she just personally couldn't find it not that there wasn't one!!! So deffo good to go to one with good reviews

@babyghirl was hopefully the epu can do some.blood tests and progesterone checks!

@27donfin where are you in the cycle? I am about cd12 and probably ovulating in a week

@Babyghirl thanks 😊good luck tomorrow as well. I am 7 weeks today (based on when I think I ovulated) or 7+3 based on lmp.
I don't think I will accept it's all real until I have a baby in my arms 😂

@Annny27 thanks you 😊 oh no that's awful. I really hope with all the good reviews this one knows what they are doing. They have lots of clinics all over the UK so hopefully that's a good thing. Hope your ov is this week and you manage to catch it and fall this month 🤞🏻

@Babyghirl @Nuggetlover27 bothgood luck tomorrow.

@Annny27 I’m cd9 my period was a couple of days early last month and since last night my cm has started to feel wet. So don’t know if I’m going too ovulate early again

I’m starting to wish when I miscarried I’d wet to the epu I just called and said do I need to come in as I couldn’t face seeing anyone pregnant or possibly anyone I knew as I live in a small town where the maternity hospital for our county is. They said no as I was so early I didn’t and just to test again in 2 weeks. I think now snd then if I’d went in maybe I’d of had a scan to check I’d past everything and there was no issues showing. Probably just over thinking

How are you feeling this month @Annny27

Hi Ladies sorry I’ve been so quiet lately just struggling with the wonderful journey of TTC again. CD2 so the next cycle just beginning.

@Nuggetlover27 really hope all goes well at your scan tomorrow.

@Babyghirl really hope that epu can give you some answers tomorrow and that this is a strong new BFP.

Hope everyone else is doing ok and feeling there is some light at the end of the lockdown tunnel. x

@ELM7
We shall c if it is I believe its down to the folate I'm taking its folic acid but just pure folic acid cause that's the only thing I have done differently from August and if I am that would be 3 times I have fell while starting it, just nt everybody cuts down folic acid the way they should that's what a fertility specialist I was following on fb said that's why folate is better xx

@Babyghirl yeah I’ve heard that too so I stopped taken the seven seas conception vitamins and now take folinic acid instead.

@Babyghirl ohh really I didn’t know this. Where did you get folate from? When I look at Holland and Barrett it just comes up folic acid

Get them on amazon 12 pound I think they where for 100 tablets this my second pack off them xx

@27DONFIN
That's the way they come up on amazon have went up in price in a week thou think the more oh order it they put it up lol xx

@Babyghirl fab thanks il order some worth try

@27DONFIN
If I turn out to be pregnant again that will be 3 times from I started taking them from August and its the only thing I have done differently after taking a year each time for 3 of my pregnancy's xx

@Babyghirl ordered now t remember take it lol I’m awful for forgetting my folic acid like now I’m in bed and it’s down stairs 🙄

@27DONFIN
Lol put an alarm on your phone for like a time of the day to remember to take it or keep it by ur bed and you will remember when u go up the stairs and c it lol. 💚

Cd13 and got a peak LH strip which is early but I wont complain.

Wondered if I could get dtd tining advise haha. I usually peak for 2 days so I will actually ovulate tomorrow evening I reckon. We dtd last night - should I dtd again tonight or skip a day and dtd tomorrow morning and then the morning after that so it's just before I ovulate and then just after?

@babyghirl have you managed to speak to the epu? 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@27Donfin yeah I know what you mean it would have been nice to get the all clear with a scan just to make sure everything looked allright! Surprised they haven't done an ultrasound on you now that it's been a year since miscarriage.

I am feeling okay this month! Only dtd twice so far so took it pretty casually but now stressed that it wasn't enough haha

@ELM7 sorry AF arrived :( it never gets easier even if we are a bit numb to it after so long! Xxx

@Annny27
Do the sperm meets egg 3 days in a row skip a day then do again for good luck nt yet going to test tomara again and c what it says don't want to waste there time if I don't need to lol.

@Annny27 i would do it tonight.

Good idea @SunnySideUp2020 @babyghirl we dtd around lunchtime yesterday so if we dtd tonight it would have been more than 24 hours! I wasnt expecting to see the two lines as haven't had that much ewcm yet!

Thanks for popping back here to chat to us sunny we appreciate it ❤❤❤

@babyghirl yes true test tomorrow with fmu and see what it says!

@Annny27 😘😘 just want you to get your bfp lovely. Really really want that for you!

Infertility is bursting into tears when your best friend tells you she is pregnant 😪😪😪😪😪

Feel like the biggest bitch I love her so much but it's just like heart wrenching. Only been trying for a few months so I am so pleased for her as she was really worried about infertility!

Sat here trying not to cry too loudly as dont want to burden my husband either but it really just hits you in the chest!

Awww @Annny27 don’t be so harsh on yourself. We have all been there it’s natural to feel upset by it. How could you not. Being a member of this club is so unfair and difficult it’s an emotional rollercoaster