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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

990 replies

ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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SunnySideUp2020 · 15/02/2021 15:53

😂😂😂😂 @Annny27

I actually was always concern about that so thanks for clearing this out.

Bit shit that they only offer one round in ages...
You are totally right to go private if hycosy doesn't wotk. The process is already long in itself.

But hopefully a good flush will help!
🤞

MilsCookie · 15/02/2021 16:24

I think it's absolutely horrendous that it differs depending on where you live in the UK. I only found that out last year. If I were you and had the money I'd definitely go for private IVF. Like you said, it's the only thing you want and you want it now so why not go for it!! But I really hope after the hycosy it will happen naturally for you and your DH and you won't have to go down that route. But if you do it doesn't matter - the end result will still be the same and it's your rainbow baby! 🌈

MilsCookie · 15/02/2021 16:25

Sorry forgot to tag @Annny27 ❤️

27DONFIN · 15/02/2021 16:58

@Annny27 iv been taken a note of my period when I comes in the calendar in my phone but trying not work anything else out till when I think I’d be due. Just checked this Saturday Af is expected.

🤣 I’m sure they’ve been asked worse. As soon as we started trying I think that’s the first thing I googled

Babyghirl · 15/02/2021 19:00

Well the nt trying to I get answers is out the window cause we dtd today and he finished 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 I just can't help but think nxt time could be my time so I'm just going with the flow, jesus looking at me acting all positive 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I need a slap lol 🍀💚

SunnySideUp2020 · 15/02/2021 19:17

How are you doing @Nuggetlover27 ??

Nuggetlover27 · 16/02/2021 09:53

Morning ladies
Sorry I've been quiet, I've been off worrying silently 😆

Thank you @SunnySideUp2020 and @27DONFIN ! I'm doing okay , I've had a lot of cramping but no spotting so I'm really hoping that's a good thing. Had pretty much constant sore boobs and started to feel slightly sick the last couple of days but nothing major! Just waiting for my appointments to come through and for a midwife to contact me. I'm only 5 weeks so still very early. Time is going very slowly! Haha

@Annny27 sorry that you've had spotting 😞 has AF arrived for you now?

I'm glad they have some tests lined up for you and hopefully they will give you answers or perhaps relax your mind a little and then you will conceive naturally 💕

lozza2206 · 16/02/2021 16:03

Hello all, period finished the first official cycle after my MMC in January has begun...

@Annny27 go for what is best for you and your rainbow 🌈 baby is so close!

Anyone else feel like you research so bloody much, I am trying to stay relaxed but I feel like this picture..

Annny27 · 16/02/2021 16:46

Hahaha I am glad we have all worried about leakage in the past then @Babyghirl @SunnySideUp2020 @27donfin 😬👀🤣

@lozza2206 omg I need 10 times the amount of lavender than that 🤣 new cycle and fresh start then! I am 15dpo and after few days of spotting my period will be here tomorrow

@Nuggetlover27 will you try and get an early scan at 6 weeks or half out a little longer?

@babyghirl haha he made your mind up for you 🙈 i think if you get a bfp again DEMAND progesterone! Do you take aspirin when you get a bfp?

@MilsCookie yeah It is rubbish - I am pretty sure we are in the same or neighbouring counties (don't want to out myself on here haha) and the South east in general is bad for ivf entitlement! Not fair as we all pay taxes so why is it so different depending on where you live haha!

@27donfin I have gone against my morals and ordered opks for next month :S

Babyghirl · 16/02/2021 17:00

@Annny27
Yep he did 😂😂😂😂😂 I do take the aspirin but might start temping again and take it from ovulation have read a lot on doing that. Hopefully this is ur last period for a while. 🙏🤞🍀💚 Would be great to all get bfp together and be mums to be together lol.

27DONFIN · 16/02/2021 18:34

@Annny27 I’m loving life not peeing on sticks but whatever works for you.

@lozza2206 🤣

Babyghirl · 16/02/2021 19:49

@lozza2206
That meme made me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@27DONFIN
It's great nt testing I just go with the flow and have hit the spot 4 times just can't keep it there lol

27DONFIN · 16/02/2021 20:11

@Babyghirl I definitely don’t feel consumed all month by it and think we’d lost interest in dtd I just seen it as a task/tick box exercise which my OH hated!!! So the fact it’s even helped that is great.

Annny27 · 16/02/2021 20:18

Because I get a lot of ewcm i genuinely cannot take it easy as its so obvious to me 🤣 i wish I could relax and take it easy but I cant 🙈🙈 @babyghirl @27donfin

Babyghirl · 16/02/2021 20:27

@Annny27
😂😂😂😂 You should invest in one of the ovia bracelets would really help u I think there dear but have heard so many good reports on them.

27DONFIN · 16/02/2021 20:46

@Annny27 yeah I get a lot of ewcm too I just go with my body now instead of confirming it with any tests.

MilsCookie · 16/02/2021 21:02

@Annny27 ohhhh really?! Totally understand you not wanting to put yourself but I feel like we're practically friends now I've known you/been chatting for over a year! If you genuinely weren't too far away I'd love to meet up if we could (although I know we've had that discussion before about internet strangers 🙈🤣). I am in Oxfordshire... you can decide how close you are haha! X

MilsCookie · 16/02/2021 21:03

*out not put!

Annny27 · 16/02/2021 21:35

Omg ironically I looked into the oval brackets things but thought it was a bit expensive.....well 18 months later and we have spent goodness knows how much on opks and pregnancy tests so probably should have bought it at the start! @babyghirl

@milscookie we border Oxfordshire so really not that far atall 🥰🥰 we should deifinitley have a "catching up after miscarriage thread" meet up after lockdown as I am sure there's a few of us in the south plus hopefully I will be atleast pregnant by then haha!

@27donfin yeah I am pretty confident I know when I ovulate (within a day or two) anyway!

Annny27 · 16/02/2021 21:36

Ovia*

Babyghirl · 16/02/2021 21:57

@Annny27
I was looking on ebay bot 100 second hand have a wee look.
Can yous all travel to Belfast for the meet up girls 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Nuggetlover27 · 17/02/2021 10:41

@Annny27 I am hoping to go for a private scan around 7-8 weeks so then hopefully we can hear the heartbeat and I will be more reassured, but waiting for my nhs scan dates to come though so I don't book anything too close to them.
How are you doing? I really hope this is your last AF for a while ! 🤞🏻

Hope all you other girls are doing well too 😘

Annny27 · 17/02/2021 13:31

Period here now! Onto cycle......15 since miscarriage 🙈 but atleast she has arrived and hopefully won't be too painful!

@Babyghirl we will have to virtual dial you in haha!! Are you going to have the covid vaccine BTW I know you work in health care- I think they said it was probably fine for ttc now

@Nuggetlover27 yeah I think 7-8 weeks is a good idea :D can out your mind at ease a little

Babyghirl · 17/02/2021 14:04

@Annny27
I'm taking it getting it sorted today seeing I'm bck lol, was meant to get it 4 weeks ago but had to cancel it as just found out I was pregnant 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈. Yes yous will have to zoom me in 😂😂😂😂😂. Sorry the witch arrived for u on to nxt month hopefully it's a successful one. 🍀💚

27DONFIN · 18/02/2021 07:46

Not this cycle for me either @Annny27 woke up this during the night with awful cramps and sure thing this morning Af is here a few days early x