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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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lozza2206 · 13/02/2021 12:28

@Babyghirl thank you! 💕 I think you're making the right choice, each time it happens it's even more heartbreaking. Well it was the start of the lunar new year yesterday (I don't even celebrate it) but I said to my partner I'm all up for a new start and new year!! ⭐️

Babyghirl · 13/02/2021 12:42

@lozza2206
Hoping 2021 is a better year for all off us and we get r rainbow babies. We r all on a tough journey but it will end for us all. Just a long road to get wat we all want 🍀💚

lozza2206 · 13/02/2021 12:47

@Babyghirl miracles happen all the time. My friend just announced she is pregnant and this is a well deserved one. She lost 3stone to complete IVF a year ago and it failed. She is now 13 weeks pregnant that happened naturally after 4 years and 1 failed IVF. 💕💕 we will get there ⭐️

Annny27 · 13/02/2021 12:48

I am so looking forward to my fertility appointment on Monday.

If I am honest I am tempted to do private ivf and treatment if the nhs wait list is too long. I want to start my family now or look at other options

@babyghirl ah okay! Will look into it :D have you tried accupuncture BTW? I am interested

@lozza2206 it sucks doesn't it!!! Yes maybe this is my new year new start haha

Babyghirl · 13/02/2021 13:08

@Annny27
Tryed it once I was so relaxed going to start it up again when it opens bck up again it's dear thou lol, yea look in to it anything is worth a try tbh there is a 100 in the bottle so nt to dear for the price look up folate just some people don't bring down the folic acid so pure folate is better for them. 🍀💚
@lozza2206
Congratulations to ur friends been a tough road for them to just goes to show u miracles do happen and it will for us to 🍀💚

ChampooPapi · 14/02/2021 13:54

@Annny27 good luck for tomorrow, I really hope you get a clearer pathway set out for the next stage. I think probably going for private IVF is a good idea, you want to start this! I don't know what your finances are like though so it's very hard to just say 'go for it' but I want this for you so much, I really think the NHS will help you but you will be seen a lot quicker privately. All the best to you for tomorrow lovely xx

Annny27 · 14/02/2021 14:12

@babyghirl I am also trying to cut down on sugar this month to try and reduce some body inflamation.....after todays valentines treats ofcourse 🤣👀 sugar is my drug of choice haha!

Thank you @ChampooPapi 💗💗
We are very lucky in that we already have that money put aside (just general savings) but we have decided to use that for private ivf if it comes to it 🙌🙌 if its only a few months for nhs ivf we will wait but if its more like a year then I dont know if I am going to wait for nhs (I am nearly 30 and I know its still young but I want a few babies if possible haha!). Hope your girls are settling into more of a routine now! 💗

Babyghirl · 14/02/2021 15:23

@Annny27
I'm nt to bad in the suger I don't like sweet stuff lol no chocolate for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 goodluck for your app and let us know hw it goes 🍀💚

27DONFIN · 14/02/2021 18:43

Just catching up ladies.

Massive congratulations @Nuggetlover27 amazing news. How are you feeling?

@ELM7 @Babyghirl @Annny27 how are you all?

I’m still not tracking no apps no ovulation tests. Don’t feel so consumed so that’s a positive. Hope everyone is doing well snd had a lovely weekend.

Hello to all the new ladies and I’m sorry you find yourself is on this thread xx

Babyghirl · 14/02/2021 19:08

@27DONFIN
Doing OK hoping my body kicks bck in to cycle going to do a test tomorrow hoping it's nagitive then I know everything is back to normal. That's the best way to go don't track just go with it makes it less stressful 🍀💚

SunnySideUp2020 · 14/02/2021 19:28

Good luck tomorrow @Annny27

ChampooPapi · 15/02/2021 07:22

@Annny27 thinking of you this morning 💜🙏

27DONFIN · 15/02/2021 07:57

@Annny27 🍀 good luck thinking of you

chali7 · 15/02/2021 08:01

Good luck at your appointment today @Annny27 x

lozza2206 · 15/02/2021 08:29

@Annny27 good luck today xx

MilsCookie · 15/02/2021 08:51

Thinking of you @Annny27 good luck today! 💞

Leok83 · 15/02/2021 09:20

Good luck today @Annny27 xx

Annny27 · 15/02/2021 10:45

Thanks ladies! You are all very sweet 🙌

Soo not left feeling deflated becaise they said I wouldnt be entitled to IVF untill November as that is two years since our miscarriage! And then even then I only get one round on the NHS.

So they said I can do a private AMH test and then next month (so after March's period) they can do a HyCosy (tubes blockage test). And then if we haven't conceived by the month after that we are going to do private IVF we think.

For the sake of 5-9 thousand pounds (I am aware that thats actually a lot of money but its the only thing I want!!) It seems silly to wait another 9 months!!! When I could get started on IVF privately

27DONFIN · 15/02/2021 11:56

@Annny27 you just need to do what’s best for you.

I honestly can’t believe how different things are depending where you are in the uk. I’m sure here in Scotland it’s 3 rounds everyone is entitled to I might be wrong tho x

Annny27 · 15/02/2021 11:57

@27DONFIN its totally disgusting the differences! Some areas offer none!!!! And then some areas offer 1 (mine) no then some areas offer 3. Its really horrible and I am so grateful we have the funds for it but my heart bleeds for this couples in areas where no ivf is offered! It should be standard across the UK

27DONFIN · 15/02/2021 12:53

@Annny27 none that is disgusting. Iv seen stories where people have moved house to change hospital trust so they can have treatment x

Babyghirl · 15/02/2021 13:27

@Annny27
I have heard of people getting that done to c if there tubes blocked and catching the nxt month so hopefully your one off them. 🍀💚

Annny27 · 15/02/2021 15:23

Yeah thats what the doctor said @Babyghirl that it can "clear it all out" haha

@27donfin yeah its so awful! Do you know where you are at with your cycle atm?

@fizzl you are going to laugh at this.....so I was worried about progesterone levels, then I moved on to worrying about uterine scarring and now......... premature ovarian failure 🤓🤣 even though the doctor said my follicle count was okay I am thinking of what if it was the lower end. Anyway constant worrying as usual.

Annny27 · 15/02/2021 15:26

The highlight cringe moment of my conversation was asking the doctor if its okay if ejaculate drips out after sex 😬😬😬

She said it was absolutely fine btw.....just incase anyone else was also concerned which I doubt you were because you arent neurotic like me 🤭🤭🤭🤭

Babyghirl · 15/02/2021 15:40

@Annny27
😂😂😂😂😂 Lol so dripping is OK llf we find to ask some weird questions that has made me laugh today thou 😂😂😂😂😂

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