🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@27DONFIN
Sorry the witch got you to, I'm 21 days from miscarriage bleeding started and have a feeling I will get mine early to my cycle has been as short as 24 days to 27 so could be any day nw if you say day 1 off bleeding was cycle day one lol.

That’s good bleeding has started @Babyghirl I remember that being the longest wait ever after my miscarriage felt I was going crazy waiting on it x

@27DONFIN
Nt started yet but I can feel cramps on and off you know just the heavy period feeling you just know its going to rare its ugly head any day nw lol x

@Babyghirl that was me last night I woke up with my hands putting pressure on my stomach. Iv known all week she was coming as my night sweats were in full swing thankfully my other half was away with work the last few nights when they were at their worse

@27DONFIN
Funny last 2 nites I have been sweating aswell lol waking up my tshirst soaking in it lol. Hopefully this is the last time u c her for 9 months x

Well just got my covid 18 injection woohoo lol, but also done a test and it's nagitive woohoo but sad at the same time so I really think it's my period on the way early after loss, then I knw where I am with my body again 🍀💚

19 not 18 😂😂😂😂

@Annny27 ahhh I'm so curious now as to where you live 🤣 but yes... I'm sure we could arrange something one day... would love that. We've been through a hell of a lot together! ❤️

When you hear a knock at the door and your sis in law and wife drops this off, omg had me roaring her wife a civil marriage really believes in these hoping it helps xx

@Babyghirl thats super cute!!! At this point I would try anything so it can't hurt can it :D

Glad you got your jab!

@27DONFIN I also get hotter when my period is due to arrive!

@Annny27
It deffo can't hurt my folate also ordered to so hoping they here by Monday, what cycle day r you on nw 💚

@Babyghirl omg what a thoughtful gift. Iv never seen anything like this before.

@Annny27 isn’t it just amazing being a women lol

@27DONFIN
Me either until they delivered it to me to day was amazing have it around my wrist already lol xx I can let yous know where they got it if u like x

Hi everyone, sorry I keep going awol! Things just feel a little hectic here at the minute - not enough hours in the day suddenly for some reason it's really strange!

Hope you're all doing as well as can be expected! 💐

Congratulations @Nuggetlover27 that's amazing news! Hope you're still doing ok. Those first few weeks are scary but hopefully a scan will put your mind at ease for a short while. I also didn't really have many symptoms in the early stages - it gradually progressed and then I felt quite ropey between weeks 7-14 but nothing too horrendous. I did used to get a bit of mild cramping too - it was strange because I'd worry when I got the cramps but then worry when I didn't because I also knew it was quite a normal symptom early on! Either way I think you just worry (I certainly do/did 😄). Fingers crossed for a nice smooth pregnancy for you - hopefully we will see you on the other thread when you're ready.

@Annny27 yes can definitely relate to the constant worry! There always has to be something and it's exhausting. I'm sure your ovaries are in tip top condition if the doctor has said there's nothing to worry about though! It's hard because I know I felt like I just wanted an explanation or some answers to help me figure out what my body was (or wasn't) doing. It sounds positive though that you have a plan of action in place and something to focus on/work towards so you know you're being as proactive as you can be. I really hope you get your BFP soon, I find it quite hard/emotional checking back in on this thread because I remember these feelings so well and I really just want you all to get your BFP and baby at the end. Lots of positive thoughts and good luck vibes coming your way 💐

I dont often have down days about ttc and our situation but todays one of those days. IMy family had a group call and they "hahaha there will be a lockdown baby boom"

Those comments piss me off because A) people have contraception so only why would it be a baby boom and b) do people really have nothing better to do than have sex all day? 🤣 Anyway I just hate comments about babies or baby booms I just retreat into myself when people talk about it

@fizzl yep I imagine it is a reminder of the difficult times! Yep I will try and not worry and let nature take its course! Itw so difficult though to not be obsessive haha

@babyghirl did AF arrive? I am cd5 now so period over tomorrow 🤪🥰

@27donfin do you have anymore tests now or have they basically said just try naturally some more?

@Annny27I hate all that chat too. I’m enjoying lockdown for the point of not having to listen to peoples baby chat or questions.

No more tests my OH has been on at me for the last 6 months to relax stop all my tracking and testing. So when the doctor said that it was music to his ears. He asked me can we just try it his way for a bit. I was so consumed with it all I was actually fed up trying to force it so I agreed. If I hadn’t felt like that I would of pushed for more tests just now.

@Annny27 it does and it makes me feel really sad for everyone still going through those feelings and emotions 😔. Sorry I think my first post made it seem about me and it being hard for me but that's not how I intended it - I'm not sure I'm explaining myself very well 🥴. I think what I'm trying to say is I find it hard to know others are still going through this and I wish you all weren't because I know a little of how you're feeling and how hard it is 😞 and that's what I find quite emotional knowing there's still so many of you going through this crappy situation.

I'm sorry you're having a tough day today. People do make insensitive comments and I hate that you have to bite your tongue. I remember my husbands cousin directly asking us if there'd be any babies soon the week after our miscarriage. I know what I really wanted to say to her but I just smiled and said some general polite response about in the future to avoid any awkwardness and her feeling bad about how much she'd just put her foot in it 😠

@Annny27 how are you feeling today? What’s the next steps for you? Xx

Omg i also hate those lockdown baby boom comments/conversations.
Or the announcement saying "we didn't practice social distancing" and all that...
Sorry if anyone has or is thinking of using them!
But they really irritate me. It did before getting pregnant and still does now.
I always think not really funny this ttc journey. And it's no we didnt conceive because we had nothing better to do. It was ups and downs for 9 months with the mc. The crushed hopes. The relentless trying new things, dtd more then less, reading, googling and then the doctors, tests and probbing etc... defo not a joke. Not to me at least. And i am sure not to anyone who's on this thread and who has been putting in the work for even longer.
That's it. Rant over.

And ofc baby dust to everyone 💖💖

@SunnySideUp2020 Hahahahha the "oops we bought the wrong kind of protection" and a photo of masks and a scan 🤣🤣🤣

Yeah it's not funny, it's similar to those comments like oh my husband winks at me and I am pregnant. Well good for you 🤣

@27donfin feeling better today thanks 🙌 we have one more of nothing and then if my next period comes I have to book in for a hycosy to check there is no blockages!

@fizzl totally - people don't think! And I do understand it I also want to know if people are going to have babies but I will just wait untill they voluntarily share the info to me!!

@Annny27
Biggest eye roll 🙄
😂

@Annny27 ohh the my husband just needs to look at me comments 🤬👊🏻 Fuck off

@Annny27
Sorry just getting this nw did nt get no notification for some funny reason no nt yet 😠😠😠😠 but it may hurry up lol don't know what them cramps where unless it was my uterus going bck to norm.

And I knw how yous all feel about the comments I be like piss off. I knw a girl who has had 7 kids has them for abot 2 weeks and then they get taken off her like come on why give her them when she can't even look after them annoys me so much. When we on this thread fighting for a baby 😠😠😠😠😠😠.

@Annny27 oh those comments are just the most insensitive thing. Thankfully my close friends and family and colleagues knew about the MC and I don't socialise much other than them so I didn't have to endure it before I got pregnant which would have hurt a lot. But since I've been pregnant it's amazing how people you barely know put it down as another lockdown baby and they are lucky I don't rip their head off..although I just cut them off with 'hardly when my husband is a paramedic and I'm a vet and we actually saw each other less than before lockdown with all his overtime..believe me this baby was very much wanted and not an accident' and I like to say it with a nice thick flat tone that makes them know I'm pissed at their comments. So hopefully they don't ever say it to anyone else and unnecessarily upset them.
Hope ur feeling better today..you've always been so positive here but you are bound to get down days. When is your next appt at fertility clinic? Big hugs. xx

@Nuggetlover27 how are you doing? Did you get a scan booked yet? Hope everything's going ok for you!