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Trying for Jan BFP

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Wombat84 · 19/12/2020 22:31

Anyone else now trying for a jan BFP? 14dpo and cd27 today and now have pink spotting on wiping. Just waiting for cd1 again now x

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Catmum55566 · 27/12/2020 20:03

@SalemsPot22 ah I think ov can be delayed coming off the pill. Mine was CD23 or 24 first cycle following from first AF. Keep testing once per day and hopefully you will get a positive soon.

@idkwhatsgoingon so sorry to hear that. Really hoping you get a BFP soon.

Fingers crossed Jan will be a lucky month for us all!

Tokyo21 · 28/12/2020 07:51

Hey I’m in similar position.
Lost my pregnancy at 15 weeks in September and just started TTC this month.
I’m also 6dpo, when is your period due and when you gonna start testing?! So nervous but also excited.

newyearisnewtome · 28/12/2020 08:04

Currently in the TWW waiting for AF...hoping Jan will be my BFP

SEpoppet · 28/12/2020 09:16

@idkwhatsgoingon and @tokyo21 I'm so sorry for your losses - sounds like a terrible ordeal. Fingers crossed everything will go smoothly this time.

@Catmum55566 that's nice we will be doing it together! I dont know about you but the first week I'm always fine but the second week is agonising and I symptom spot like crazy!

@newyearisnewtome how many dpo are you? Fingers crossed!

Idreamof2more · 28/12/2020 09:29

10 dpo today feeling the same I always do before af. Grumpy and hormonal no symptoms at all. Not sure how many months I can do this for. The TWW is more I can handle with my anxiety x

newyearisnewtome · 28/12/2020 10:36

I think I'm about 11DPO, I didnt use OPKs or anything this cycle. It was making me quite stressed and my cycle has been acting strange on top of that. I just went with when I saw consistent EWCM.

I could test now I suppose, but will wait until I'm late or AF arrives. Saves money and heartache

Idreamof2more · 28/12/2020 11:07

Do you have any symptoms @newyearisnewtome ?

Idreamof2more · 28/12/2020 11:08

I’m going to wait until I am late for sure but feel af is coming so not in great mood

newyearisnewtome · 28/12/2020 11:18

@Idreamof2more I thought I had back twinges last week but no not really no symptoms. I think Xmas has helped keep my mind occupied.

newyearisnewtome · 28/12/2020 11:19

Oh and I also had EWCM this morning (day 25) so who knows whats going on. I think AF will probably show but just want to get on with the next cycle. Let's see eh

Idreamof2more · 28/12/2020 11:22

I wish you luck 💓

idkwhatsgoingon · 28/12/2020 17:47

@Tokyo21 im so sorry to hear that Thanks. I'm trying so hard not to test and stay sane lol I'll try to wait until 12dpo if AF keeps away that is

idkwhatsgoingon · 28/12/2020 17:48

@SEpoppet thank you. Fingers crossed for all of us Smile

33Carr · 28/12/2020 18:04

Hi all! AF was due today but hasn't arrived yet! Wasn't really TTC in Dec due to clashes next year but getting back on it again in Jan so I was actually looking forward to AF starting!!

Kaz1987 · 28/12/2020 18:51

Hi can I join. I come off the pill start of November and have been trying literally every day since haha. AF arrived 26th Dec and I should be ovulating around 6th January from what looking online suggests. Please can you recommend other ways to monitor this as I’m clueless. I’m 33 trying for 1st child but really scared after reading online about age being an issue Confused

Irishgirl1990 · 28/12/2020 19:10

Hi girls, hope it’s okay to join in. Just joined mumsnet for some support. TTC #1 for the last few months on, started using ovulation sticks this month so got my dates right this time. Peak day was last Monday. Felt funny cramps very mild but was so strange on Friday 4/5 dpo, no symptoms since. Did a curiosity test yesterday 7dpo and it was negative but I know I tested too early. When should I wait to test again? Expecting AF on the 3/4th Jan. Xxx

Irishgirl1990 · 28/12/2020 19:13

@Kaz1987 Hi Kaz I used ovulation sticks from day 12-21, my cycle is about 33-35 days long give or take and I got a peak fertile day on 19-20th Dec and had pains on the 21st. I would try them (clear blue) they certainly kept me calm this month as every other month previous we missed it by a few days because my cycle wasn’t predicted correctly on the app. Hope that helps xx

legohaus · 28/12/2020 19:27

@idkwhatsgoingon @Tokyo21 I'm in a similar position to you both. MC late October at 13 weeks. This is our first month TTC since. Currently approx. 7DPO. Sending you both a million good vibes abs tonnes of solidarity xx

Kaz1987 · 28/12/2020 20:41

@Irishgirl1990 thank you for the advice I’ll get some tomorrow Smile

Fuzzyspringroll · 28/12/2020 21:07

We're ttc #2,...and have done for two years now. Had an ectopic in July and have just started to try again after the compulsory 3 month break. Last period was an arse because it was 5 days late and I was getting my hopes up. I'm now 1 dpo but I don't think it's our month. I've for a hycosy booked for early January. Last time, my tubes were blocked and cleared with a laparoscopy and I'm pretty sure it's the same issue again. My gynaecologist doesn't want to cut me open unnecessarily, though, so I'm going to have the test done and can then present that to her. I hope to avoid the, "I told you so!" If we are lucky, it's going to flush it enough to clear a path for DH's swimmers.

Chica1990 · 28/12/2020 21:22

I’d love to join! TTC since July 2019 and had an ectopic early October. Used a ferti-Lily cup this round and also had sex every day for 6 days over fertile window which we haven’t done for a loonggg time. I’ve also had reflexology and been having acupuncture. I even tried a fertility massage on my stomach before Xmas!

3 of my friends who started trying after me have now had their babies and it’s heartbreaking. It’s taking a mental toll on me.

Good luck to us all! I’m due AF on 7th Jan

Tokyo21 · 28/12/2020 22:10

Sending good vibes all the way back to you!xx
Have you felt anything yet? Today I noticed slight tingling and prickly feeling but scared it’s all in my head ugh.

idkwhatsgoingon · 28/12/2020 22:15

@legohaus I'm so sorry u had to go through that. It's horrible. Hopefully we'll all have what our heart desires

Monday55 · 28/12/2020 22:43

I'm joining in! Hoping this is a lucky thread as we've been Ttc for over a year. Had a MC in March 2020 and haven't seen a bfp since then.

Currently CD9 and bfp due Jan 15th. If we don't get a bfp this cycle we are going to start IUI as we are now fed up!

We have a bunch of friends and family who have had babies since we've been trying. Just wanting it to be our turn now 🥺

BonBon8493 · 28/12/2020 22:57

Hello! Hope it’s okay for me to join too! I love all of the support and love I read from you ladies but I’ve never been brave enough to comment before Confused

I am on cycle 2 of TTC number 1 but my AF came 2 weeks late in cycle 1 (got me all flustered and a whole bunch of BFNs later!!) so I’m using OPKs this month to help me track better as my cycle is all out now.

Hoping for lots of BFPs for you all Smile x