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Anyone TTC #2?

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mamaatthegym · 26/11/2020 22:29

Lots of threads about TTC baby #1 so looking for someone baby #2 support!

If so how old is your current DC and what made you realise it was the right time?

DD has just turned 1 and we are thinking about #2 very soon! DD took 14 months to conceive so I’m prepared for another long slog...although a bit panicky that it could happen sooner! Am also still shifting some baby weight that clung on nicely during both lockdowns Wink

Anyone else?

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Mybobowler · 30/03/2021 11:12

Thank you @DinkyGT I really appreciate it. I've just vamoosed from work and now I'm having a cry in bed. Feeling so stupid! The perils of early testing I suppose. I'll let you all know how I go xx

May2311 · 30/03/2021 11:38

@Mybobowler oh I'm so sorry!! Get yourself snuggled up in bed and take it easy- look after yourself and let us know how you are 😘

Nobeautysleep · 30/03/2021 11:48

@Mybobowler I’m so sorry to hear that... hope you’re OK. It’s totally shit. Stay snuggled up in bed for the rest of the day. Sending lots of love.

I’d just like to say, ladies, that this thread is such a lovely and supportive space. It’s so nice how we are all supporting each other remotely even though we don’t know each other. You’re all amazing 💕

dunkedbiscuit · 30/03/2021 11:52

Sending lots of love @Mybobowler although it maybe worth doing another test in a few days to check for sure as I’ve had friends who had significant bleeds in pregnancy but actually all turned out to be ok xx

mrssunshinexxx · 30/03/2021 12:45

@May2311 I understand that I'll patiently wait for you :) my nausea is easing thankfully I have my first midwife app this aft so that makes it more real!

mrssunshinexxx · 30/03/2021 12:46

So sorry @Mybobowler testing early can be a curse sometimes but it's also practically impossible not to so don't beat yourself up take good care of yourself xxx

mamaatthegym · 30/03/2021 12:52

Oh no what! @Mybobowler I’m so sorry. Absolutely gutted for you. Take care of yourself and rest up. Flowers

Welcome to the thread @minthumbugs and sorry about your loss in Jan, it can be a rollercoaster but we all stick together and this is a great place to vent. A few of us on here now have had chemicals and early losses and are trying again so it’s a supportive place to be Brew

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Mybobowler · 30/03/2021 13:01

You're all so lovely, thank you so much Flowers I totally agree @Nobeautysleep I never thought I'd find this much care and solidarity on a forum thread. You're all brilliant.

Bleeding has eased off again. I don't know what to think. I'm going to expect the worst but maybe, very quietly, keep a little bit of hope. I'll let you all know how it goes.

minthumbugs · 30/03/2021 13:52

I'm so sorry @Mybobowler. Take care of yourself, I'm thinking of you ❤️

@mamaatthegym thank you! Sad to hear that ☹️ it's nice to have a community of women who have been there though. That was my second loss and it totally knocked me, i wasn't expecting it to happen again! Had an ectopic before my LO. Fingers crossed I will have another wee one soon 🥰 baby dust X X

mrssunshinexxx · 30/03/2021 13:57

That sounds a good idea @Mybobowler x

Mybobowler · 30/03/2021 14:36

I've started cramping and bleeding really heavily now so I think this is it. I'm so shattered, I didn't think it would feel quite so devastating. I know this is really weird, but I just want to post this picture just so someone knows it was real for a couple of days. The bottom test is from this morning.

I'll be back but I'm probably going to take a bit of time out. Please tag me into the new thread when this one is full. Thanks everyone for being so kind and I'm rooting for all of you still waiting for your BFPs xx

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DinkyGT · 30/03/2021 15:22

Oh @Mybobowler I am so so sorry to hear this. I know we are internet strangers but your messages and support have been helping me so much (as well as all the other ladies here too!)
As we are cycle buddies I have resonated with your experiences so much.
Take care of yourself and take as much time as you need xxxxxxxx

Nobeautysleep · 30/03/2021 15:35

Take care @Mybobowler xxx

dunkedbiscuit · 30/03/2021 20:29

Oh @Mybobowler I’m so sorry, it was very much real and so is the hurt, sending you lots of love x

Cantthinkofaname99 · 30/03/2021 20:43

So sorry @Mybobowler it was definitely real, take some time out and look after yourself. Xx

DinkyGT · 31/03/2021 07:11

Am I going mental?
Is this a squinty line?

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DinkyGT · 31/03/2021 07:12

I can't seem to get it to show on the photo 🙈

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Cantthinkofaname99 · 31/03/2021 07:42

@DinkyGT I'm not sure, think I can possibly see something on the second pic but may be my eyes playing tricks on me. Fingers crossed for you!

May2311 · 31/03/2021 07:50

Morning everyone!

@DinkyGT I can see something of a squinter- did you track ovulation? If so do you know how many dpo?

@Mybobowler hope your doing ok & managed to get some rest last night.

Xxxx

DinkyGT · 31/03/2021 07:55

12DPO today so I did think it might have been a bit more obvious/visible by now. Just constantly confused at the moment!
Woke up a lot earlier than usual which means my temp for today may not be accurate but it did dip.
AF due tomorrow according to my chart...🤷🏻‍♀️

May2311 · 31/03/2021 07:58

@DinkyGT fingers crossed it might just be a late implantation! Give it a couple of days a try again. 😘 xxx

DinkyGT · 31/03/2021 08:33

Just looked again and now I'm thinking no it's nothing there. Just seeing what I want to see!
I'm not going to test anymore now until I'm certain AF hasn't appeared (if that is the case...) Slowly going mad and it's still such early days for us (cycle #3!) send help! Xx

mrssunshinexxx · 31/03/2021 08:48

I can see a second line @DinkyGT maybe you ovulated later than you thought ? X

minthumbugs · 31/03/2021 08:55

@DinkyGT I think I can see a second line in both pics too. Do another test on Friday! X

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