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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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No AF and BFNs 🤷‍♀️

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ImpatientMama · 17/11/2020 14:24

Hello! We are trying for our second child and I am frustrated. I am sure several of you can relate to being frustrated with this whole TTC thing. 😅 Anyways. AF was due 3 days ago and has not shown her ugly face yet. But I have also gotten nothing but negatives (and one invalid). I was planning on not testing again until AF is a week late. Anyone get their BFP that late or even later? I am irregular, so it could just be a late period? I just want to know if I really am pregnant or not, so I can move on! Thanks for any insight you all provide! 😊

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mrssunshinexxx · 14/02/2021 12:10

Just got static smiley was NOT expecting that really pleased done a cheapie too and also v strong ! X

HT1335 · 14/02/2021 13:00

@mrssunshinexxx oh that’s fab! Pleased you’ve had that ☺️

lastbany · 15/02/2021 14:08

Af for me today x

mrssunshinexxx · 18/02/2021 06:33

Anyone due to test soon x

Marvellouslymadmum · 18/02/2021 12:45

Nope cd3 for me 😑

mrssunshinexxx · 18/02/2021 13:01

@Marvellouslymadmum me neither I'm 3dpo

Marvellouslymadmum · 18/02/2021 13:18

Feels like forever until that time again lol

HT1335 · 18/02/2021 13:31

@lastbany least you know what’s happening now that it’s arrived
Good luck with the testing once it’s time!
I’ve got my scans tmorow 🤞🏻😊

Marvellouslymadmum · 18/02/2021 13:37

@HT1335 good luck with your scans!

HT1335 · 18/02/2021 13:45

@Marvellouslymadmum thank you! Let’s hope I get a treatment plan and some good news soon 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Marvellouslymadmum · 18/02/2021 13:59

@HT1335 yes definitely! Let us know how you get on

HT1335 · 18/02/2021 14:21

@Marvellouslymadmum I will do! I’m a bit nervous but I’ll be fine

I was going to post on here someone told me to look into buying maca it can help support fertility, j haven’t bought any yet as waiting for my appt first but it might be worth having a read up on for people? I might ask tmorow if they think I’ll be worthwhile buying some

Marvellouslymadmum · 18/02/2021 14:41

@HT1335 that's interesting, I think I've heard someone mention it before too, not sure what you do with it (tea or food or whatever) but may be worth a go!

HT1335 · 18/02/2021 15:39

@Marvellouslymadmum yeah I was having a read on Holland and Barrett and it sounds good
So if they say it’s ok I’ll buy some tomorrow it’s worth a try if it helps!

Marvellouslymadmum · 18/02/2021 16:01

@HT1335 definitely! I think I'll start rattling if I keep taking all these different supplements lol

lastbany · 18/02/2021 19:14

@HT1335 is it 12 week ones?? Wow gone so quick! Tbh we haven't been trying for about 4/5 months we have been so relaxed about it it's too relaxed! I've now realised if I conceive this month baby be born around daughters 2 nd bday! Which isn't a prob I'm amping up this month fed up now!!

HT1335 · 18/02/2021 19:18

@lastbany no my scans to investigate whether or not I have pcos and to hopefully get a treatment plan to see why I’m not getting my positive tests!

lastbany · 18/02/2021 19:22

@HT1335 sorry! I get you and the other lady who started with this mixed up as user names similar 🤓 that's good! Least you'll get answers!

HT1335 · 18/02/2021 19:32

@lastbany oh don’t worry it’s hard to keep track with everyone’s stories! It’s easy to get relaxed about it isn’t it, ttc is hard work!

lastbany · 14/03/2021 15:13

How everyone getting on?? I'm due af any day not tested yet don't ask me how lol

xTinkerbell · 14/03/2021 17:32

Can I join?

I’m TTC baby number 2. Came off pill mid December... 25 day cycle then 22 day cycle...currently cd30..negative on a one step on cd28 but didn’t use fmu....waiting a few days and if no AF I’ll try again

Marvellouslymadmum · 14/03/2021 22:49

I'm still here @lastbany af has arrived today for me - so kind 😂

Hi @xTinkerbell it's frustrating when you're late and don't know why! Have you been tracking ovulation? I know it can take a while for cycles to return to normal after coming off the pill

xTinkerbell · 15/03/2021 07:30

@Marvellouslymadmum so frustrating. Not really, I didn’t track the first month. Used OPK’s the second month and had positives cd11 & 12. Used this month from CD 9- CD15 and all negatives. I gave up because I was getting really stressed by then and we have just been DTD every other day anyway.

So now I’m thinking I either ovulated late so period due late or for some reason didn’t ovulate at all. Just want AF to get a move on at this point so I can try again next month

Marvellouslymadmum · 15/03/2021 08:40

@xTinkerbell yes that would be my guess too, it drove me crazy when I had the same happen to me I was cd54 when I finally got an answer!

HT1335 · 15/03/2021 18:17

@lastbany I’m here I’m under the fertility clinic now and have a plan I haven’t been ovulating.. very long winded story I do have pcos but there’s hope!!
Oh I hope af doesn’t arrive for you
@Marvellouslymadmum good luck for the next cycle!
@xTinkerbell it’s very frustrating isn’t it
I’ve had no at since November now!
How is everyone else getting on??

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