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Anyone just had their BFP?

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DressingGownofDoom · 14/11/2020 16:19

And not quite ready to move to the pregnancy boards yet?
I've just had mine yesterday, and another today, so excited! But because of previous losses and just the general earliness (i'll only be 4 weeks tomorrow!)
Anyone got any symptoms yet? I've only got a tiny bit of soreness in my boobs, less than i get even at ovulation time. and i'm tired - i accidentally fell asleep putting DS to bed at 7pm last night, but again thats not all that unusual! So i very much don't feel pregnant at this early stage, but i so hope I get another baby this time!

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NamechangeTTC · 22/11/2020 10:21

Thank you.
I'll probably be posting when I'm in cause the bloods take 2+ hours. Hoping I don't need a drip this time.

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Mommabear20 · 22/11/2020 12:02

Can I join? Had my BFP this morning! 😁

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NamechangeTTC · 22/11/2020 12:39

Congratulations @Mommabear20

I have better lines today. Please everyone keep your fingers crossed that hcg has doubled this evening, and that they locate the cells in the right place!

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Char899 · 22/11/2020 12:40

@NamechangeTTC those lines are so so good!! 17dpo is seriously strong! Feeling positive for you!!

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NamechangeTTC · 22/11/2020 12:41

Thanks @Char899. I got a 2-3 yesterday on clearblue (1-2 on Wednesday) but I'm saving the last for a 3+.
Quite nervous when I think about tonight

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Mommabear20 · 22/11/2020 12:44

Thanks! It's like my body knows that I know now as I feel rough as a dogs arse today! 🤢 it's not supposed to start till 6 weeks right?? 🤦‍♀️

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Bellaphant · 22/11/2020 14:10

@Mommabear20 I've been feeling shit since five days before my period, exactly like last time!

@na

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Bellaphant · 22/11/2020 14:11

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@NamechangeTTC that all sounds great! Hopefully this was nothing to worry about but better to get it checked....

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Mommabear20 · 22/11/2020 14:13

@Bellaphant ! Same! DH thinks it's because I'm expecting to feel sick (always had a massive phobia of being sick!) which he might be right bout but doesn't help me one way or another 😔

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NamechangeTTC · 22/11/2020 17:39

It's risen!
Hoping scan this week.

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popcorndiva · 22/11/2020 18:15

Had such a downer today. Worrying about miscarriage, think its harder as we haven't told anyone and my DH just keeps telling me I am being silly. My mum would be so much more sympathetic

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Char899 · 22/11/2020 19:50

@popcorndiva I’m with you on that one. Sat on the sofa earlier and I found myself almost bursting into tears. I’ve been a little crampy today and that makes me nervous, I didn’t have that in my first pregnancy so it doesn’t sit well with me.

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Bellaphant · 22/11/2020 20:04

@popcorndiva, mine keeps being annoyingly pragmatic! Me 'but what if it goes wrong?' him: 'well, we know we can get pregnant....'

My ds has a cold from nursery and so do I! I'm super useless today.

I keep getting weird pains. I'm telling myself it's normal and it's earlier than last time because my body already knows how to stretch.

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popcorndiva · 22/11/2020 20:16

My DH keeps saying we have one anyway meaning DS, winds me right up

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NamechangeTTC · 22/11/2020 21:02

I keep worrying and checking for spotting. I'm hugely dehydrated so keep looking when I wipe and worrying thst there's blood. I'm pretty sure it's not though and it's just the urine Blush

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Bellaphant · 22/11/2020 22:02

My cervix is ridiculously low and feels firm suddenly.

Sounds like we are all worried.

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Bellaphant · 23/11/2020 18:36

How are we all? Im currently furloughed on Monday so had a good and productive day - went grocery shopping, had a long nap and wrapped a bunch of my personal knick knacks ready for the estate agent to come.

Didn't feel sick, exhausted, queasy....

And then threw up my dinner the second I finished eating it.

Did anothe test this morning (trying to save my digital til Friday when it should say 3+) and was happy how quick it came up.

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Char899 · 23/11/2020 18:53

@Bellaphant I’m doing my next digital on Friday too! I had 2-3 on Friday so hoping for 3+ this Friday. In the meantime I did another frer today, assuming I have the self control today will be the last one. Finally got a dye stealer :)

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NamechangeTTC · 23/11/2020 18:54

Not great. Scan couldn't find a sac. More bloods tomorrow.

Everyone and their granny seems to have had visible sacs at this stage and I'm heartbroken.

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NamechangeTTC · 23/11/2020 18:55

Tests today (pm)

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Bellaphant · 23/11/2020 19:00

@NamechangeTTC did they say anything useful? Those tests still look like they are going up...

If bloods still go up, will they scan again? I guess keep being hopeful but realistic

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NamechangeTTC · 23/11/2020 19:07

Three options

  1. Ectopic
  2. Miscarriage
  3. Too early to see


Scan booked next Monday. Bloods tomorrow.
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Char899 · 23/11/2020 19:21

@NamechangeTTC tests definitely still look strong! And your hcg tripled so that can only be good. What’s the next move? Ie how will they investigate further to find out whether it’s an ectopic for example? If you look it up plenty of people are not able to see a sac at this stage so stay positive. How far along are you now?

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NamechangeTTC · 23/11/2020 20:08

5+4 or 4+5. Bloods tomorrow night then a scan Monday. It's torture

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Char899 · 23/11/2020 20:19

@NamechangeTTC going by your last test I’m assuming your around 18dpo? That’s a day ahead of me and I am not 5 weeks until Friday as I ovulated late. Your hcg is strong. I’m sure it’ll turn out the sac is not visible because you aren’t far enough along, try and stay calm, your tests are good, your hcg tripled. I’m feeling positive for you.

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