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Anyone just had their BFP?

249 replies

DressingGownofDoom · 14/11/2020 16:19

And not quite ready to move to the pregnancy boards yet?
I've just had mine yesterday, and another today, so excited! But because of previous losses and just the general earliness (i'll only be 4 weeks tomorrow!)
Anyone got any symptoms yet? I've only got a tiny bit of soreness in my boobs, less than i get even at ovulation time. and i'm tired - i accidentally fell asleep putting DS to bed at 7pm last night, but again thats not all that unusual! So i very much don't feel pregnant at this early stage, but i so hope I get another baby this time!

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popcorndiva · 20/11/2020 12:05

I called the GP yesterday as here the receptionist books you in for midwife appointments. She could only squeeze me in on Dec 16th as otherwise it was the 23rd which I have losds of stuff already organised. So I would do it sooner than later. The midwife calls nearer the time to check all is OK before booking in,in case something has happened

MillyJS · 20/11/2020 13:11

@popcorndiva Your appointment is the day before mine! Like you I booked mine early as my surgery seems to book up far ahead & it's only small.

popcorndiva · 20/11/2020 14:17

My midwife apparently is doing all appointments at the EPU at the moment and not at the surgery

Char899 · 20/11/2020 15:56

Midwifes in the surgery on Thursday so she’s going to call me then to get info and arrange booking appointment :)

Bellaphant · 20/11/2020 18:29

Ooh ok, I thought I was being over eager but you girls have inspired me. I had to get some forms to fill in, so I did that and she'll be in touch.

My ds is moving up a room in nursery and I got some crazy news about work this morning, as well as potentially putting our house on the market. I just want to be left alone to sleep and puke, lol.

popcorndiva · 20/11/2020 19:06

I might be outing myself but my work has now been earmarked as the first vaccination centre, so might have to tell work sooner than I liked depending on what they decide to do with us

Char899 · 20/11/2020 19:21

@popcorndiva yes absolutely, we need to be more careful now that we are carrying little beans! You don’t need to be somewhere higher risk!

@Bellaphant you’ve got it all going on havnt you! Is your sickness getting worse?

I’ve struggled with ds today. Just had no energy and been feeling nauseous all afternoon, not actually been sick which is a bonus but feel rough as hell 😒 TOTAL opposite of my last pregnancy! I had no symptoms at all the first few weeks.

Char899 · 20/11/2020 21:02

Ah so chuffed my CB test has moved up to 2-3 weeks 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Anyone just had their BFP?
Bellaphant · 20/11/2020 22:01

@popcorndiva, at least I work from home!

@Char899, was Ill after lunch and half had my dinner but actually feel ok right now (although now I'm worried I don't feel sick, lol).

I also told my folks today, just because of the work stress. Has anyone told anyone?

Is anyone going for a private early scan? I did last baby and it made me feel so much better.

Char899 · 20/11/2020 22:09

@Bellaphant I’m thinking about telling my parents next week, not told anyone yet!
Yes I’ve booked a scan for 19th December. I’ll be 8 ish weeks so hopefully I’ll be able to see/hear heartbeat! I did with ds too, I had a few private scans as I was so anxious. It really helped! I loved being able to see him ☺️

Char899 · 21/11/2020 16:20

How’s everyone doing/feeling today?

@DressingGownofDoom
@Bellaphant
@popcorndiva
@NamechangeTTC

And everyone else :)

popcorndiva · 21/11/2020 16:21

All good , nothing much to report really. Tired but I am always tired at the minute with my DS who wakes at 6am

lepardprint · 21/11/2020 16:22

Hello ladies!
I'm okay Thankyou, the nausea has kicked in now 😭😭
How is everyone else xx

Bellaphant · 21/11/2020 16:35

@Char899, I had bleeding with D's (6 weeks, 8 weeks and just before 12 weeks - on Xmas Eve!!) And my 12 week was going to be postponed BC of Xmas so I did a private one and yeah, it really helped! I'm so anxious right now: it doesn't feel real and I'm just Ill and tired and finding it a bit hard to be in a really happy headspace about this much wanted pregnancy.

@popcorndiva, same! Apart from on days where he has to be in nursery for 7.30, then he loves to sleep in!!

DressingGownofDoom · 21/11/2020 18:11

Hi, I'm alright too, feeling nauseous and actually vomited today, I wasn't really sicky with DS so I'm a bit surprised to be feeling queasy this early! 5 weeks tomorrow Smile

Hope everyone is well xx

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NamechangeTTC · 21/11/2020 21:09

I'm going for bloods again tomorrow @Char899. I was in last night on a drip with? Ectopic. Hcg 582.
Have to check it at 48h.

I'm worried as fuck if I'm homest. I've had lots of clear discharge but today it's creamy (dark cream) so I'm worried.

That's today's test v last Sunday.

Anyone just had their BFP?
Char899 · 21/11/2020 21:14

Oh @NamechangeTTC you poor thing! How are you feeling? Your test looks great so that’s positive! Fingers crossed that everything goes well for you tomorrow!

NamechangeTTC · 21/11/2020 21:16

I'm really worried by the discharge now it's been clear till today.

Char899 · 21/11/2020 21:19

@DressingGownofDoom I’m a little nauseous too, not been sick but feel quite queasy. I didn’t have anything like that with ds. Maybe it means we are having the opposite sex this time!

@Bellaphant I’m sorry to hear you are feeling like that, maybe it’s just a little overwhelming at the moment? I felt a bit like that a couple of days ago. Just try and stay positive and think of the little bean your growing Smile

Char899 · 21/11/2020 21:50

@NamechangeTTC I wouldn’t be worried about the discharge that could be anything. Mine always varies. It does generally and it did in my last pregnancy too

NamechangeTTC · 21/11/2020 21:52

It's different to what it's been. Zero when I wipe and I'm checking so paranoid each time

Bellaphant · 21/11/2020 22:15

@Char899 you are right - it doesn't help my little one has been sick the last two weekends and just wants mama. Think I'm getting lockdown fatigue now - not to be outing but I haven't had people in my house since march.

@NamechangeTTC that line looks great! My cm has only been ewcm like today + it's been claggy up til now. I think it varies a lot. What are they saying is next?

@DressingGownofDoom, I started being sick at 9 days post ovulation, lol. Today was the first day I've not been sick! But I'm exhausted today and have a cold.

NamechangeTTC · 21/11/2020 22:20

@Bellaphant hcg tomorrow and if it's over 1000 scan Monday. If it isn't, then they'll discuss it then cause it's then not progressing like it should.

Bellaphant · 21/11/2020 22:28

hugs we're all here to talk to. Fingers crossed for good news.

Char899 · 22/11/2020 10:11

Good luck today @NamechangeTTC I hope everything turns out ok for you and bean x