TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)

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@HappyVibes I'm am so so sorry. I know nothing anyone says will make it feel better at this time but our hearts go out to you.

@RichmondLady1981 happy belated birthday to you! Not sure of my DPO exactly as my apps are jumping around like crazy. But from the peak OPK I think I'm between 6-7 DPO. So not far from you. Feel totally normal today after the spotting and sickness yday, so it could have been anything really! Feeling positive and tbh after this cycle ready to just relinquish control and let the universe do its thing. How are you holding up?

@HappyVibes last time I had so many signs and symptoms by 10dpo which pointed me to test early if anything, super sore breasts,nausea hit hard. Heart burn all over the place and tiredness like no other. This time despite the peak I haven't felt any symptoms. Just my usual right (cystic) ovary pain.. Just waiting for AF and to start fresh next cycle

@msg92 I'm totally needing a holiday after this year's up and downs by now so I get why you wanna just let it go. We were very positive so it is gona hit hard

I'm not sad or happy. Idek what I feel

Ah @Furbsies the likelihood of symptoms so early DPO is very low lovely - so symptoms and signs at this stage aren’t always guaranteed to be the only indicator of a BFP. It’s super common (more common than not) for women to have no symptoms at all so early on. Don’t count yourself out just yet lovely.

Thank you so much @RichmondLady1981 @daisyorange that means so much 😘 💫 Having a day of watching lots of YouTube videos of success stories post recurrent MC etc 💓💫

@Furbsies let's hope @HappyVibes is right, we can only wait until. AF arrives or test... I'm testing tomorrow if no sign as normally I would be due today or tomorrow, but this cycles is 2 days longer for some bazaar reason, but I think 12DPO and 2 days before AF is due isn't unrealistic to expect a BFP if it did work right? I don't even know what symptoms to look for anymore, I could have sworn last month it worked as I was so close to throwing up the whole way home from Bristol and then AF arrived! I think the nerves make me constantly feel sick so that's not helpful.

@daisyorange being naughty and reading this between online lessons. Whoops. Ha. Feeling ok. Felt a few symptoms what I thought were positive last cycle but ended up with AF so trying not to overanalyse this time around 😆 Trying to be realistic so not too disheartened if AF comes. One thing that I definitely know is that I get quite intense ovulation pain. I asked the specialist about this. She said it’s likely to feel painful just before the ovary ruptures. This was def Tuesday night (the last night of DTD) so this has made me feel positive about timing I guess.

Good luck to anyone testing in the next few days! X

@HappyVibes im really sorry AF arrived. Sending you baby dust xx

Hi everyone

I dont know who this message is for but I thought I would share with you guys. I saw it and straight away was like dont give up hope.

A friend of a friend has been given that blessed testimony. After 3 failed ivfs ,myscetomy having a fibroid removed. When all the doctors told her she would be lucky if she was able to have one child. Her partner of 7 years left her she has just been blessed with two babies.

Whoever this story needs to reach I want you to have faith and never give up hope. Regardless of age or what certain meds have told you there is hope.

Have a blessed day. X

@HappyVibes I'm so sorry, I felt so post for you this month. I hope you manage to get somewhere soon with your gynae xx

Thank you @Lollol86 💓

They said my appt will be in the next one month...so likely not before my next cycle. They’re going to post me all my results in the interim, to then allow us to determine if we want to go private.

Either way, I will start clomid round 2 tomorrow...it clearly worked well for us this month, just need bambino to stick thereafter💫

Xxx

@MSG92 hi lovely I tested 3 days before AF and got my BFP it was an instant dark positive no idea how it came up so early. Xx

Sending you lots of love @HappyVibes

Aww @griff2019 thank you lovely 💫 that’s very sweet of you xxx

@HappyVibes you will get there and when you do that baby is going to be the most special rainbow baby. Sending you lots of baby dust xx

@RichmondLady1981 yay, hope it goes fast for you!!

Thanks @griff2019 that's good to know.

I'm now feeling like AF is on the wall, I have lower belly pains just like I get before she arrives. Part of me wants to take 1 of my ovulation tests to see if it picks up a strong level of LH/HCG or not, I know they aren't the same as pregnancy tests or as sensitive but apparently the LH and HCG look the same to ovulation tests so it still picks it up. I don't know why I want to as I feel like AF is coming, but I also feel like by not testing I've cheated myself this month! Weird right?!

Best tell DH stay clear if AF arrives as she is most unwelcome this month than any month before.

@HappyVibes been so busy today but been wanting to come on here to see your outcome. I am so so sorry my lovely. What awful news that the witch got you. You seen so upbeat and positive, plus you have done your research which is what you have to do in this day and age. Stay positive and I’m sure you will get your rainbow xx

@HappyVibes so sorry to read your posts today. Wish there was something inspirational I could write to make it ok but I know from experience there isn't really. Just have hope that your rainbow will come xx

Ladies can I ask some advice. I was trying really hard to not test ovulation this month and not to read too much of this site (I lasted two days (blush)) as I wanted to try and "relax" about it all. However, is it possible to ovulate of day 7 of your cycle? I really felt like I did over the weekend but because I didn't test I'm unsure. Is it worth just testing in the morning and admitting I am obsessed with TTC? All anyone says to me at the moment is "relax" and I just don't know how to anymore. When we fell with our mc it was all fun and exciting, this not so much.

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I cant say much because i had a really stressul time last month, doing the opk strips. So I have decided to buy cb digital ones as you only do them once a day fmu. Its harder to get as obsessive with them? Also just keep hcg tests out of your house!! Im wating til AF is 2 days late before il do one again and iv definately promised myself xx

@HappyVibes
Sending you baby dust , sounds like you have got a plan xxx

@HappyVibes and @msg92 you guys are right but I think this just feels so different to last time. So many symptoms. So early as well so I think I'm over thinking everything.

@MgW1 I agree, I havent tested since our last positive, a negative would break my heart even more

Gosh that sounded really dramatic!!

Everyone!!!!! So I took a ovulation test this morning because I thought I don't want to use an expensive pregnancy test when it's negative... But the ovulation test came out super strong so I did the pregnancy test... See pics!!!

@MSG92
Congratulations 🎉🎉 thats fantastic news and clearly a very strong positive 🥰🥰❤ xxx

@MgW1 thank you I was so convinced I was out as I am having "period pains" all day yesterday and they are still there this morning! I can't believe it.

@MSG92 oh my goodness! This is beautiful news. I love waking up to these. This is amazing - super super happy for you lovely. Congratulations 💫 💓