TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)

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@HappyVibes

Thanks *@susiebluebell* for taking the time to reply. I will sit it out overnight and see what tomorrow morning brings. I’ve only my blooming self to blame for putting myself in this unknown situation...if I was strong enough to wait it out I’d have either had a definite blank or a stronger positive. I think I’ve proven over all these months of being on here that I’m not strong enough to wait it out haha.

So for yourself where are you put in your current cycle at the moment lovely? X

Hey 😊 I'm on CD18, ov predicted this Sunday. Not much else for it but to stay in bed the whole day! I'll be thinking of you tomorrow when you test xx

@Bellabubble I can imagine it must be so worrying. It’s hard because you want to feel joyful but when you’ve been through something so harrowing as a Mc it’s always going to play on your mind. It’s natural to feel that way.

As much as possible try to think of positive thoughts. I’m sure everything will be fine and you’ll walk out of there with a massive smile on your face. Remember research shows that it’s unlikely to happen again and women end up going onto having healthy full term pregnancies. 💕

I went for a fertility health scan yesterday to check my ovaries, lining and uterus etc. All was fine which is nice and reassuring. I could feel my left ovary cramping on Tuesday night and she confirmed that I’d ovulated from the left. Hopefully I’ll have some good news in the coming months. 🙏🏼 I showed her the same chart that I shared on here and she said timing is good. Something interesting that she did share was that sperm usually on average last 2-3 days in the best CM. It’s rare for it to last 4-5 days. So if I’m not successful this month I might tone down the BDing next time and reserve some energy! 😂. Going to get bloods done this month as an extra check too 👍

@HappyVibes thinking of you this morning. Everything crossed! 💕

Oh that’s brilliant re your scan @RichmondLady1981 That must be extremely reassuring for you. That is interesting re: the timing of sperm. I am so jealous that they told you there and then what they were seeing. I had the scan weeks back and she was mute with me & said literally nothing. So I still am waiting out the results - waiting for an appt with the consultant who will share with me all the blood results and the scan results together.

Hahaha I’m still laying in bed as I don’t dare do one as I have really doubted it and genuinely expect a full blank now. I don’t know why I feel like this ha. I need to get a wriggle and just do it xxx

@HappyVibes gosh I know it’s soooo nerve wracking. You so deserve this!!!

Yes she talked me thought what she could see which was amazing. It was a private scan. Not sure where you live but happy to share details. She’s amazing. X

Sending every speck of baby dust your way! 💕

@Bellabubble hope your scan goes well tomorrow and you get to see that heartbeat. Try stay positive as hard as it is

@RichmondLady1981 great news about your fertility scan

@HappyVibes we are all behind you 🤞🏻🤞🏻

I think it’s darker eek. My husband can see it today, whereas yesterday he thought I was a crazy woman haha. He just said to me, ‘send it to your pals & see what they think’ as in referring to you ladies hahaha. Bless him. 💓

@HappyVibes whooo hooooo. That’s amazing and def darker. Congratulations x

@HappyVibes 100% darker! Congratulations! I'm so so happy for you 🥰 xxxx

@HappyVibes that's a line and no question about it!

@HappyVibes just wanted to comment to say congratulations!! Def a darker line there. Ahh bless your DH, send it to your pals! X

Oh ladies thank you so so much. I think it’ll all feel so surreal until I get a strong HCG result and strong line. Ah here goes. Thank you ladies 💓

@HappyVibes it's definitely darker! No doubting it! Absolutely brilliant!!!!

@HappyVibes OMG this is just the best news ever!!! I am so so SOOOO happy for you! 😁

Well my AF has arrived in full force! I knew catching the egg the first month at age 37 would be too goo to be true. Im going to have a weekend wine splurge 🤪 and then prepare myself for more fun and games ...... here we go again ladies 🤞🏻🤞🏻 thank you for your support on here ❤❤ xx

Def a line @HappyVibes ! Have you got any digital tests in? Mine showed as pregnant when my frer had a line like that

Ooh really @SS123456
Ah I don’t have any in lovely that are early detection. I think I will use my other FRER in the morning, and then get some digital and dating ones for next week. Just want to see the line progress darker first eek. It feels very very faint, but I’m not actually sure when AF is due because I took clomid so I’m not sure how many days in advance i am, to know how dark the line should be at this stage - if that makes sense. Xxxx

This is wonderful @HappyVibes 🥰🥰 so thrilled for you! xxx

@HappyVibes hello lovely lady! Just came on to say I am so thrilled for you! I really wish your line progresses and that this is a sticky bean for you!!!
@VP91x thanks for checking in on me. All good thanks just very overwhelmed with it all the moment - work, my mum, being away from OH, waiting for 14dpo lol. I’m at 7dpo currrently. Literally the only thing that would lift my mood right now would be my BFP....! Glad you got your medication! Hoping you get AF soon so you can start onto your next cycle! Xxx

@HappyVibes OMG so pleased for you xxx

@MgW1 sorry to hear AF has arrived but enjoy that wine!! Xxx

@HappyVibes
It definately looks darker , what month of trying are you? Exciting times 🥰🥰 xxx

@HappyVibes mine was just a standard clear blue digital. I'm very hopeful for you though 😁

Massive congratulations @HappyVibes - we haven’t spoken much on here but I love your positive energy and so glad you got your BFP 💕

@RichmondLady1981 how are you going today? Amazing about the screening - where did you get that done? It sounds great!

My temp shot up this morning, so I’m thinking I did ovulate but just had a slow and unstable rise. Also, the month that we fell pregnant we only DTD once, the day before O. Since then we’ve been on and off trying lots of times during FW and just once or twice, but no luck yet. Would soooo love a Christmas BFP 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 For us all.

@MgW1 just want to say I’m thinking of you and sorry you’ve had such a rollercoaster of a week. Enjoy that well deserved wine.

Out of interest - has anyone on here tried SMEP? We did this month but I have a really bad UTI now. 😩!

To all the ladies pregnant and worried, I hope you’re all hanging in there and lightning very rarely strikes twice 💕

All the best to everyone for the weekend!

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@HappyVibes that's definitely darker today! So excited for you! I think the clear blue weeks indicator are actually the most sensitive ones if you're planning to do a digital over the weekend! Hoping this is one sticky bean, you so deserve it xxx

@HappyVibes congratulations:) great news xx