TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)

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@Tink20058 woo, 30 weeks god that's gone quickly although I'm sure it hasn't flown for you 😩😂
I honestly feel like this is just such a fab time to be pregnant. You can be at home at least and not have to commute / go out loads and then hopefully lots of restful time with baby after.

Yes we went to Butlins! 🥳 Feels like a bloody lifetime ago. We have Lapland UK booked for 3rd December hoping we will be able to go 🤞🤞

@1990EM I'm so glad you're doing well! Are you feeling all OK? Baby all OK? Thank you so much 😭 that made me feel emotional. I am glad I'm on the metformin - it has its side effects though.

@HappyVibes omg! Forget my last comment 😂 I can see the line on that test! Will you re test tomorrow? This is so exciting! Xx

@HappyVibes I can defo see a line, congratulations x

@1990EM @VP91x @MoMof4xx oh thank you ladies. It feels very surreal and I am literally only like a smidgen thinking it’s positive. It’s just definitely not all clear white like it has been previously. I will definitely be testing tomorrow - I know it’s more advisable to test again Saturday but I’m a bugger when it comes to POAS, hence the early testing already.

Xxx

@HappyVibes - I too see a line. Very excited for you

Well after 2 faint positives yesterday , My AF has arrived today. Moral of the story - dont test too soonwhat a rollercoaster week xx

@MgW1 im so sorry.
Could there be a chance that its implantation bleeding? As long as its brown or pink in colour and doesn't last longer than 3 days u may be ok x

@MoMof4xx
I dont know , just light pink, only a tiny bit on wiping ?? I dont know , il see how I get on xx

Can I just echo what the others have said and show some appreciation for this group. I don't post too often but I read every day and am following all your journeys. For myself there's not usually much to add, as I have long cycles with AF bang on time and just no baby yet! Argh! @HappyVibes I do see a faint line and normally if they're blank I don't imagine or have 'line eyes' like certain others 😉 but here I do see something. Keep testing and 🤞🏻 x

@MgW1 I wouldnt say you're out. Its pink and only a little amount. Fingers crossed for you that all is ok x

Thanks @susiebluebell for taking the time to reply. I will sit it out overnight and see what tomorrow morning brings. I’ve only my blooming self to blame for putting myself in this unknown situation...if I was strong enough to wait it out I’d have either had a definite blank or a stronger positive. I think I’ve proven over all these months of being on here that I’m not strong enough to wait it out haha.

So for yourself where are you put in your current cycle at the moment lovely? X

Aww @MgW1 keep an eye on it lovely, may not be full flow AF just yet if you got your faint positive yesterday. Did you test today out of interest lovely? X

@HappyVibes
Yes and same as yesterday. Tues is was clear blank. I thought i was due on day but not altered opk peak on my app. If i had a peak 2 week ago today in the eve , am I right in thinking I am 13dpo / maybe 12? Xx

@MgW1 I know it’s not easy but try stay positive If it’s not full flow might just be pregnancy related 🤞🏻

@Runnergirl1
Sorry of tmi! But usually start of AF is dark red / brown spotting so I am not sure , il drink plenty water and try and relax and see what happens. If its not meant to be this time then at least it reassures me that my body is getting back to normality post mc and that im ovulating at least xx

Yeah @MgW1 it seems that you’ll be 12-13DPO now if that was your peak lovely. Fingers crossed for you 💓

@MRJ86 thank you so much for the reassuring message. Sorry you’re feeling ill but like you said- it’s a great sign!

@daisyorange you chart isn’t too erratic. I think the. Ext two days temp will be important won’t they. Hang in there. Yes of course I remember. It’s hard to take a step back when it’s constantly on your mind isn’t it.

@griff2019 that’s mad! What made you know? Was it just a feeling?

@SS123456 yes mine usually last 2 days too. But one is always slightly stronger. Made easier by PreMom and it calculates the ratio of the line. Ovulation is usually 12-24 hours from Peak line. And 24-48 hours from initial surge.

@MSG92

thanks for the message! It’s good to know. I know deep down it could be ok but when you’re constantly thinking and planning the whole TTC thing, it’s so disappointing when you miss a day. My poor OH is knackered! 😂

@Runnergirl1 ahhh yes you’re right. The new guidelines came out recently. I don’t think much has changed unless the pregnancy is well into the third trimester. Then it’s left to the discretion of the head teacher.

@2alreadywantanother. I always start a few days after my period has finished. Once you notice it getting darker, start doing 2 a day. 😘. I’m sure you have a rough idea as to when you’re likely to ovulate. Just make sure you start early if you’re using the CBD ones. They need the baseline early on. How you doing generally?

@HappyVibes I can definitely see a faint line and my eyesight isn’t the best! Fingers crossed for tomorrow’s test! X

@RichmondLady1981 thank you! 😊

@RichmondLady1981 yeah was so weird I just knew I did have pulling/tugging pain in my lower hip/back area which I had very early with my DD but that was it 😁

@HappyVibes
I can see a line fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻 xxx

@RichmondLady1981 I dtd the night before I ovulated and got my bfp. In fact that was the only time we dtd that month!

Wow @Bellabubble that’s so great to hear! Just goes to show that there’s no need to exhaust ourselves with these crazy DTD schedules.

How are you feeling? 😊

@VP91x I’m hanging in there - have tried not to overthink things, as my symptoms have definitely lessened this last week or so, and it is making me harp back to my earlier mmc. I have a private scan on Sat so I’m pretty anxious about that - a bit worried I won’t see a heartbeat.

I hope you get a new cycle soon - does the new medicine help with ovulation?

@RichmondLady1981 - crazily anxious this week!! My last mmc started at spotting at 8+2 (which is what I am today) and I feel like my symptoms have lessened this week. Two more days until the privaye scan! I’m 50/50 on can’t wait and scared!

Aww @Bellabubble this must be a worrying time for you lovely, I completely understand why you would feel 50/50 - wanting to get excited but also protecting yourself. It’s reassuring that you’ve not had any signs or symptoms to cause any worry. Sending you lots of positive and happy vibes lovely 💫

I hope that tomorrow goes quickly for you & then your scan will soon be here and your anxious wait over with. 💓💓💓