TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)

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@HappyVibes I can see something on that test!! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 xxx

@HappyVibes I really hope this is it for you, you so deserve it xxx

@RichmondLady1981 we are cycle buddies again! Not sure if you remember me from last thread. I was quiet on here this month as trying not to obsesses, but now here I am. I haven’t had my usual temp spike so I think I possibly had an anovulatory cycle (never happened in my life!) and annoyingly we did SMEP this month. Hopefully not a waste. Time will tell! Here’s my chart and mad temps. I’ve been getting up much earlier than usual so don’t know if that’s affected it, but either way it’s erratic. This is 4th cycle after early MC and I’m starting to worry a little now ☹️ Feel like I have no options though until it’s been a year?

Hope you’re hanging in there with TTC xx

@HappyVibes very faint like but I do see it. Xx

@HappyVibes @RichmondLady1981 forgot to add I took my test at 10.30pm too was soo strange I just sat there and thought yep im pregnant and then done the test x

@HappyVibes omg I think I see something! 😆

Has anyone had a peak for 2 days before? I've just had another strong peak opk this morning (2nd day in a row) and it is the strongest one I have ever had by miles! I'm scared that if I get a bfp this month it will be triplets 😂😂

@RichmondLady1981 @griff2019 @MichT4 @MRJ86 @SS123456 ah ladies! I will test again tomorrow. It’s just the fact that’s it’s definitely not all stark white like usual that’s got my brain ticking & heart hoping. We shall see what tomorrow brings 💓💫

@SS123456 do you pop the OPKs into premom? I do that and just let the app do the hard work and interpretation of what they mean in terms of when the true peak was. Very reassuring for your tk confirm definite ovulation xxx

Keep us posted @HappyVibes ! 🤞🏻😁. I put my opks into femometer and this was a definite peak 😂

Wow I've missed a lot, did a mad dash yesterday afternoon to Bristol to visit DH's mum whose just come out of hospital after major emergency surgery, then my dad whose birthday is Friday then home, got back 00:30 last night, was sooo tired.

@Furbsies i try not to symptom spot ever but I can't ignore I am SO bloated and gassy hahaha, I never burp, I can't make myself do it but I can't stop last day or 2, yesterday had cramps in my lower left belly for most of the day, still there this morning. Nothing too uncomfortable but they are there! My app predicts a longer cycle this month so that means I have to wait even longer to test!!! Normally I'm 30 days, with 31 now and then, this month is 32.
How are you doing? Symptoms?

@HappyVibes I can see a hint of something, looking forward to seeing another test tomorrow though to see if it's got more obvious.

@RichmondLady1981 I wouldn't worry at all! You've definitely covered the FW, sperm live upto 5 days once inside so even if some only live 2 days your covered. And you don't know exact time egg was released, 12-24hrs after a peak. Relax, you've got it covered :)

I am on leave for 2 days now, relieved! Need the break, although I don't know how to distract from testing and symptom spotting

@HappyVibes I can see a line, really hope it's clearer tomorrow, got everything crossed for you xxx

@Runnergirl1 congrats on your bfp too! Xxx

All the ladies that @VP91x tagged also that we've not heard from in a while - hope you're all doing ok, would love an update on how you're getting on xxx

@RichmondLady1981 no no headaches have gone thank fully. No symptoms now if I’m honest just finding it difficult to go to the toilet, sorry tmi. The pregnancy of my mmc we had sex three days before ovulation and caught so don’t rule yourself out.

@HappyVibes that is what mine looked like at 14dpo. So fingers crossed it gets darker for you.

I rang doctors today and they are going to get me in for an early scan after 6weeks. Which I’m thankful for may chill me out abit. Although I was 11weeks by the time I passed it, think it never got to heartbeat stage so hopefully that will happen in a week or so 🤞🏻 X

@RichmondLady1981 my boss is supposed to be doing my risk assessment today but so far nothing. Apparently new guidelines have came in to do with the new lockdown so we will see if it actually happens today. Don’t think anything will change

And ladies thank you all for the congratulations. Don’t think you realise how sane this thread has kept me. You are all an amazing bunch of people. Baby dust to all xx

@HappyVibes I definitely see something there!!! Test again tomorrow or in a couple of days

@msg92 that's sounds promising. On my end apart from my regular right side pain and crampy legs it's all l the same really

Thanks @Furbsies @MrsK21 @MSG92 My husband can’t see a thing, so it’s making me question it haha. I think it’s a crazy woman thing ha. I’m prepared for the AF just in case. But it’s nice to have a bit of excitement and a slight glimmer 💓

@HappyVibes just been looking at it again and I can soooooo see something! 😁

8when should I start using opks. Cd8 and app not showing ov until like cd 20 or something but I think that's because of the distance since last period b4 pregnancy and waiting 5wks nearly after d&c. But my cycle is normally 30/31 days. Should I start doing 1 a day until getting faint lines then upping to 2/3 a day?

@HappyVibes I see a line!!

@HappyVibes can definitely see it on here 🤞🏼🤞🏼 ooh I'm so excited for you. When will you test again?

@Runnergirl1 congrats on the BFP lovely xxx

@2alreadywantanother oh it’s confusing when apps do that. I don’t up to 2 a day until the second line is getting darker - sometimes we get a second line very early on, but not actually meaning much re FW until they get darker...I wouldn’t do 2 if they are just faint lovely. 💓

Oh thanks @MichT4 I was wondering how to do that ha. It’s hard staying sane and not feeling crackers seeing lines. I will test again tomorrow most likely - I know what I’m like and know I won’t wait out until the weekend ha. Thank you lovely 🤞🏽💫💓

@VP91x doing well thanks! Time has started to slow down a bit but prob all related to lockdown etc. Thanks so much for asking and remembering us all :-) I am sooo glad you got metformin!! Honestly the amount of good stories I have heard about it! I was just about to go on it when I got pregnant the first time. Very hopeful for you. You more than deserve it especially after this long cycle you've had.i know what it feels like. Longest I went with no AF was 6 months. Now I'm 25 weeks with number 3 so hang on to hope. You are amazing.

@happyvibes thanks. Might start cd 10 just to be on safe side, I never ov early so cant see it happen now

Oh my goodness @HappyVibes this is amazing! I hardly even needed to zoom in to see that line! Been hoping for good news for you even though we haven't "chatted " much on here, as someone who was here when you joined I'm so delighted.