BFN 12po :(

[Superstar41]

BFN 12dpo , not even a hint of a line feel so distraught anyone else had the same this month?

Strong AF pains here too, now I can feel these cramps no mistake she will be here shortly. Wanted to say thanks you to everyone’s advice. I’ve learnt lots in the past few days! Although I’ve had two children it turns out I don’t know much about this at all. Here’s to next month 🙂

So AF here this morning.. It was just wishful thinking!
Onto next month I suppose!!

@superstar41 oh no, I was really rooting for you! Your post made me comment for the first time after 6wks of just noseying in here.

@bumblebei we must be the same, 36 days for me also! :(
It's an awfully long wait!!

Got my coil removed in January, didn't have a period until March, then 36 days and 36 days.. Perhaps the merina coil has messed up my cycles, I used to be a straight 28days.
Never tried opks before though, do you guys recommend them?
I have no idea when or even if I've ovulated at all.

still no af here. did a frer 2 days ago and bfn i have no idea when i ovulated so i guess im still in with a chance but just not seeming likely this month

also never tried opks but think i will on my next cycle if im not pregnant.

Hi ladies, sorry to hear that it hasn't worked out for any of you this month. So after my positive test on Monday, I started bleeding on Tuesday night and it's been confirmed that it was a chemical pregnancy I just wish I never tested as I'm gutted now!! How are you all?

Sorry to hear @slicedinhalf! Did u test early?

Oh @slicedinhalf, I'm so so sorry, only seeing this now! I hope you are OK. I mc at 5/6 weeks the month before my beautiful DD was conceived if that gives you any consolation at all?? Hugs to you x

really dont want to get my hopes up but i took 2 tests today. first at 9.30 am and could see a really really faint line that wouldn't show up on camera and then again 10 minutes ago and i think is very slightly darker. can you see it?

in black and white x

Yeah @Lexie365 very faintly! How many dpo are you?

i have no idea lol really wish i had started using opks. i have ordered a twin pack frer which will arrive tomorrow so fingers crossed its positive. i have been ttc #2 since December which i know isn't that long but feels like forever, i think because i conceived my first the first month trying i stupidly thought it would be the same😔

Hi ladies, I'm now 1 day late (I'm never late). I tested two days ago with a first response and it was negative.

I can't bring myself to test again as I can't face seeing another negative!

i was technically due af on the 14th of may but recently i am sometimes irregular, my longest cycle was 7 weeks so maybe you ovulated late? hopefully you get your bfp🤞

Best of luck you both! Do keep us posted @Lexie365 @Szalinski

I just thought I would update. Took another test this morning. 3 days ago I got a BFN and now this - really shocked!

Wow wee @Szalinski! Congratulations!! How many dpo are you today then?

congrats!😊😊

bfn for me yesterday with a frer with a 3 hour hold. used 2 ic's today at different times and can see a very very faint line again, dipped 1 into water and there was no second line at all...so confused🤦‍♀️going to wait 2 or 3 days and test again, wish me luck🤞

Good luck @Lexie365!! We'll be rooting for you!

Lots of luck Lexie, I've got everything crossed for you.

I really don't know when I ovulated, I assumed around day 14-16 but I think it might have been later judging by the first negative test.

Will you keep testing then or have you rung docs now and spoken to the midwife? @Szalinski

im still getting faint lines but a little bit darker. i think i am either too early to be testing or its a chemical, fingers crossed its the first 1! i think i am going to buy some different brand tests to see if the line is any darker🤞

how are you doing @Szalinski😊

Go for the first response early response ones @Lexie365 you can get them on amazon for not too much! Good luck and keep us posted!

im reluctant to get a frer because the first faint line i got a dew days ago i also took a frer and was a bfn?