Two week wait...again

[BabyB19]

Hi mums/mumstobe, I’m currently in the two week wait after having a MMC (missed miscarriage) in June at 12 weeks. After a 10 week bleed I have settled into what seems to be a normal cycle again appx27/28 days. I’m saying I’m in the two week wait but I’m unsure if I’ve even OV. Anyone want to keep me company as I’m going out of my mind and feel like I’m boring the real people in my life 🤦🏽‍♀️

Oh @ceebee21 I'm so sorry for you that you're behind us I know that must be so frustrating for you! I'm off to buy nice food to do some winter comfort food teas this week and give the house a good clean top to bottom so that should occupy me for today hopefully x

@Jonesbabynumber1 yer exactly logically that's the way forward anyway 😄 I'll see how it goes.

Is everyone else constantly googling random stuff and reading peoples stories leading up to bfps? I am 😂🙋‍♀️! Somebody stop me haha!

@BabyB19 sounds like good plan. I have cleaned my house loads lately as helps distract me plus lots of shopping went to ikea yesterday bought a lot of stuff I didn’t need which is not helping the plan to save while TTC!

@dizzy85 yes I do the reading I find thread with people with similar symptoms and try and see if they got BFP it’s usually 50:50 on whether it ends up in a bfp or af lol. @ceebee21 must be hard being behind us but after first day or two it does get quicker.

Yes very true.. at least in this period we can all remain hopeful!!

The internet is a nightmare... it seems everybody has had every possible symptom and then a BFP, so we really work ourselves up thinking this must be the month!!!

Really hope we get a few BFP's

@ceebee21 yes symptom spotting is the worst. I am on another thread and one of the girls just got a BFP I am happy for her but there is an element of jealousy which is horrible.

@Jonesbabynumber1 I think that is pretty natural for everyone.

We all want the other posters to get a BFP, but also desperate for it ourselves... it is amazing if you both get one at the same time... but a bit disheartening when one does and the other doesn't.

So are you guys testing Friday?

@ceebee21 I think @BabyB19 a little ahead of me so think she’ll be testing before me, I won’t be surprised if when she tests I’ll be very tempted to test. Sometimes seeing negatives is miserable but also prepares you for the chance of it not being a bfp so it can have it’s benefits

Oh nooo I've just discovered YouTube videos about people's tww symptoms 🤦‍♀️ they are quite interesting to be fair..😆

I really hope we all get our bfp this cycle 🌟

@dizzy85 aw no! If you learn anything interesting let us know?

Yes this thread needs some BFP x

Ok..sonin the interest of full disclosure I did an IC! Why the bloody hell have I done that I know it's too early. There is a barely there squinted of a line but I'm well aware the likelihood is that it's an indent as it's barely there 🤦🏽‍♀️😭🤣 absolute headcase! I think symptom wise I try not to look too much into that as everyone is different and most people don't get anything initially do they. I get the jealousy too and I hate it as I'm really not that kind of person, I think we're allowed to be jealous but happy for them at the same time though especially as most of us have been through really shitty times x

@Jonesbabynumber1 @dizzy85 @ceebee21 someone talk some sense into me 😭😭😭

🙈🙈🙈 I'm working 13 hour shifts at the mo so no time to overthink 🥰

That's my mistake @Tbug too much time on my hands off work atm!

@BabyB19 I’m in work and still every spare minute I get I’m thinking about it! Just do what every you feel you need to do to get through this. I know we are going to get some BFP this month I just have a feeling and who ever it is I promise to be happy even if I’m a little jealous. There may already be some as some people haven’t been back on this thread!

@BabyB19 did you test with your first pee?

I know @Jonesbabynumber1 I agree, we definitely will get some this month, we have to! I will be happy for everyone too but absolutely will be jealous if it's not me as well! X

@BabyB19 how many DPO are you?

I would only trust the FRER if you are fairly early... the IC usually have a lower sensitivity level!!!

x

I've been lurking here for a while, hello! I'm hoping for some advice as google hasn't been very helpful!

I ovulated last week on either Tuesday or Thursday and had ewcm (clear and stretchy) on Monday and Tuesday.

I'm somewhere between 4 and 6 dpo now and have got lots of weird cm: it's white rather than clear, but feels similar to ewcm in its stretchiness.

Does anyone know what this means? Normally my cm is either very watery or lotiony after ovulation.

I'm only 8dpo @ceebee21 so I don't even know why I did it already tbh! I was literally just putting things away in the cupboard and just got one out and peed on it 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣 x

Hi @itssquidstella was you doing any opk/temping at all or just going from this? X

@BabyB19 no opks/temping but I'm usually really regular and can feel myself ovulate, so I use a mixture of cm and when I get pains to figure out when I've ovulated.

@BabyB19 that sounds like something I would do just to get over the urge. It’s like you need reassurance that it is too early to test but just in case you magically ovulated much earlier and it could be positive. @itssquidstella hi I am no cm expert as it confuses me, and everyone is different but if it helps I’m 6/7 dpo and I have the same
White creamy discharge which isn’t normal for me. I’ve researched lots and only time will tell whether it means anything. I just document it in my app and hope that it will be a symptom of a BFP

It's so silly isn't it! I knew fine well all I was doing was wasting a test as it wouldn't tell me anything at all, I did have cramps last night though so thought it could have been implantation 🤣 @Jonesbabynumber1
Just keep tracking everything @itssquidstella And the tests/AF will be the only think to confirm it x