Two week wait...again

[BabyB19]

Hi mums/mumstobe, I’m currently in the two week wait after having a MMC (missed miscarriage) in June at 12 weeks. After a 10 week bleed I have settled into what seems to be a normal cycle again appx27/28 days. I’m saying I’m in the two week wait but I’m unsure if I’ve even OV. Anyone want to keep me company as I’m going out of my mind and feel like I’m boring the real people in my life 🤦🏽‍♀️

@BabyB19 especially an IC it’s hopefully with a frer this early an IV is just madness. I just keep thinking most people implant 9dpo so may not have even happened yet.

I know I'm mental aren't I 😭🤦🏽‍♀️ I just had a feeling last night that it might have implanted 🤷🏽‍♀️

I've just ordered another 20 pack of ICs @Jonesbabynumber1 so I can test to my hearts content again without spending a fortune x

@BabyB19 yes that’s sensible still getting your poas fill why not try peeing in something use IC To dip and if you get a line do a FRER with same urine. I’ve never done that but could help!

That's what I was thinking, I will probably carry on with the ICs and keep the pee then if I get a line there's a boots a couple of doors down from my house so I can be there and back in 5 minutes with an FRER to dip in it x

@Jonesbabynumber1

I did an opk again at work this afternoon just because I needed to 🤣

🤣🤣🤣 I'm glad I'm not the only one @dizzy85

@BabyB19 we think so a like, that’s lucky boots 5min down road but very tempting. Well I have ICs 2 frer and 1 clear blue so I am stocked up mainly cause AF turned up early last month but I may ask my husband to hide them or leave them in the care so I’m not so tempted!

Oh that's gonna be so tempting @Jonesbabynumber1 but if you husband is anything like my OH then that won't stop you testing 🤣

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@BabyB19 no my husbands so soft he’d give them up in a heart beat and gives no judgement when I test like a mad woman but does give me the it will happen when it happens talk. I wish I was as chilled as him.

@dizzy85 did it help poas?

I don't even tell my OH as he is so laid back and sometime it pisses me off that I'm so up the wall about it and he seems to not care, I know he does and he really wants it as much as I do though

@BabyB19 yes mines the same, sometimes I do a mad ramble at him about stress and pressure and he gives me this quite pause and sad look but I don’t think he understands. I know he thinks about it as he says random comments which is his little way of letting me know he wants it as much as me and before TTC he wanted it more than me for much longer

Omg were so the same! Mine wanted one for much longer than me too, I was all about getting the finances in order and everything but he really wanted it, now I've completely over taken him. He does the same though like throws the odd baby name suggestion in and things ❤️

@BabyB19 mines from a big family 8 nieces/nephews. When he is around Babies he’s usually holding them for a very long time and he would be the most amazing dad. I usually feel guilty for waiting so long. We’ve been together for 15 years so it was never about us alwayS about career, house, marriage but just took longer to get it all sorted. Plus TTC is all I have to focus on at moment now everything else is sorted.

@Jonesbabynumber1 fingers crossed for you! Will just have to see what happens...

@Jonesbabynumber1 mine has a small family but I have a big family, we are yet to start the next generation though on either side of the family so big pressure on us! I'm going to concentrate on Christmas shopping the rest of this week 🥰

@BabyB19 yes I can imagine the pressure and since we got married it’s like everyone expects us to pop the We’re pregnant news every time we meet. Yes that’s a good distraction. How soon would you tell people if you got a BFP this month. I’d love to be pregnant for Christmas and to be able to have a scan!

I would love to tell everyone at Christmas @Jonesbabynumber1 but this is the last cycle that that would be possible as next cycle would be far too early to tell. At least if it's this cycle we could get a private scan a couple of days before Christmas and then spill on Christmas Day. I have obviously thought about this a lot hahah. You?

Yes Christmas would be magical and cheaper than presents oj. Plus due date in August would be lovely. Yes and I’m due AF Christmas Day next cycle which will be very depressing! Plus I’m 30 in May next year and we said we will try until end of February and if it didn’t happen we would have a break and book a holiday but said that before TTC and now I think that’s not likely to happen.

We said the same this year and didn't end up booking anything until after the MMC and then booked a last minute holiday so maybe just book some time off work and see what happens when that has come around. It's definitely cheaper then Christmas presents haha @Jonesbabynumber1

@BabyB19 yes that’s a good idea booking the time off.

Just means you're prepared either way doesn't it. I've just had a terrible wave of fear come over me that what if this takes a long time and 50% of my life is waiting for a bfp/af 😭😭😭 @Jonesbabynumber1 I've been so positive this month and today it seems to have just all gone to shit 🤦🏽‍♀️