Two week wait...again

[BabyB19]

Hi mums/mumstobe, I’m currently in the two week wait after having a MMC (missed miscarriage) in June at 12 weeks. After a 10 week bleed I have settled into what seems to be a normal cycle again appx27/28 days. I’m saying I’m in the two week wait but I’m unsure if I’ve even OV. Anyone want to keep me company as I’m going out of my mind and feel like I’m boring the real people in my life 🤦🏽‍♀️

Hahah @Jonesbabynumber1 this is unfortunately just the beginning I'm afraid! I can't remember? We only had @siaa with a positive didn't we?

Yes just siaa. Just looked back there was @Gee1235 @bluetue @ceebee21. How you getting in girls any updates?

Hiya, sorry been busy over the weekend and just catching up on everything now. AF has come and gone so that's good, took my first CB digital OPK and that was a blank circle obv, but hoping my flashing smiley comes this week!! Fingers cross I OV on Friday or Saturday x

Keep us posted @ceebee21 everything crossed for some good BD days 🤞🏼 this cycle ☺️

Yay glad you like the app!! 😍😍 It's so good! I don't reckon this month will be my month, so stressed with uni and placements that there's non existent DTD :( but still time yet, defo haven't ovulated yet xx

Hey ladies sorry I've been quiet, AF was due Friday and still not arrived but of course only had BFN cycles seem to be a bit all over the place at the moment so I have no idea what's going on! Just want AF to hurry up so I can get it out the way now 😩

Oh no @Gee1235 are you stressing about it? Vicious circle isn't it the more you stress the later it can be 🤦🏽‍♀️
Good to have you back @ceebee21 just think how many people go out and get drunk and have sex one time and get pregnant, don't panic about how many times etc just try and aim for the sweet spot
The app is brill thanks @Tbug will definitely keep using it now ☺️

Nice to hear from you both sometimes it happens when you least expect it @Tbug and @gee1235 that would stress me but your not out yet. Well temperature charting is interesting had a dip today so if it increases tomorrow should mean I ovulated today. I took a OPK and hardly any line so looks like BBT may be most accurate

Got my flashing smiley today!! Although can’t hold out a lot of hope as had ten days of them last month after ERPC! Xxx

Hopefully this is just your next cycle then @ceebee21 fingers crossed for you it is? We have BD so much this past 5 days I'm feeling hopeful 🤞🏼

Just jumping on the thread hear as I am in the same boat had a MMC at 9 weeks after going for a private scan. This was back in May. Took 3 months for my periods to return so only feel like I have been trying again for 3 months with no joy. I have a child already he will be 3 in February I conceived him on my second month trying and never knew the struggle people go through to have a baby until this year. It took 6 months to fall pregnant again only for it to end in miscarriage and feel like I am back at the beginning. It was last November we decided to try for baby number 2 as I was hoping to pregnant by the new year to have something to look forward to. Every month comes now and I look forward to trying to conceive and think right this could be the month and then the two week wait is agonising and hard to take your mind off it. Now this month my period has just come on 9 days early and have no clue what’s going on. Reading through all these old threads hoping to find some sort of answer or joy that it will happen again for me. You also get the people asking when you have a child already don’t you want to give them a brother or a sister. When do you think you’ll have baby number 2. It’s horrible but trying to stay positive is the hardest. Having a moment tonight after my period has come early and all alone as my other half is on night shift and little one is asleep in bed 🙁 xx

Would any of you expert ladies be able to help me? OPKs positive CD12,13,14 then back to negative-when would you best guess I ovulate? This is standard for me every month..I'm not sure if it's judged from the first positive OPK or the last! TIA

Hi @Esmerelda1988 I'm not entirely sure I'm that one tbh so I will be awaiting the answer like yourself. One of our other girls recommended the fermometer app and I think it's great for this kind of thing.
Hi @Danni2019 sounds like you're having a terrible night there, it's so hard to try and stay positive but so many people say when they finally relax is when it happens. Is there something else you can try and focus your energies on until you're back in a better cycle etc? Ie put all your efforts into making this Christmas the best ever Christmas for your first child as it's likely to be the last one as an only child? Just something to take the focus off this while until you're in a better place x

We have been BDIng everyday which my husband is happy with lol but after a few days it’s a lot. How many days after ovulation do people take a break. I’m worried of missing it even though I know we’ll be covered. I’ve had the dip in temp yesterday and strongish opk Sunday so I think I ovulated either yesterday or today so will defo bd tonight. I’ve gone from relaxed to stressed 😩

@BabyB19 thank you so much for your message. Not really anyone I can talk to at the moment. I definitely need to take a break I think driving myself crazy! I have booked a spa day last night for next week to take some time out to relax and just have a day to myself even though with Christmas I can’t really afford it but needing to take a day just to breathe. Was definitely feeling sorry for myself last night. Picked myself back up today and onwards and upwards. Going to not test for ovulation this month and just relax until January. Hoping that will allow my body to relax to and like you say you never know what might happen. Wishing you all the luck in the world too what situation are you in at the moment? Have you been trying for a while too? X

That's what we are all here for @Danni2019 so rant away to us! A spa day sounds exactly what you need! I'm in pretty much the same boat as you, off the oil in Feb, caught first cycle, MMC at 12 weeks and then a relentless 10 week bleed after it. This is now my third 'normallish' cycle trying again.
@Jonesbabynumber1 we've been the same, we didn't BD last night and I think I OV yesterday so now I'm flapping I haven't done enough but we did BD every day before. I ended up in the spare room last night due to snoring! 😭🤦🏽‍♀️ x

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@danni2019 this is a great place for support. The spa and a break sounds like a great idea. @BabyB19 Well bd tonight but defo a break tomorrow and I’ll be flapping tomorrow it’s mad how crazy ovulation can make us. I think we must be on same day again as my gut feeling is ovulation was yesterday and opk negative yesterday and today but may count my 1dpo as tomorrow just in case to delay the two week wait one more day.

I think we have ended up the same too. I think I'm 1dpo today so we will be crazy testing at the same time again 😭🤣 my long awaited birthday I've been banging on about is this weekend though so I'm away visiting family for the weekend and then I'm off work next week decorating so hopefully this one will fly. Try and get some plans made to make it go quicker! @Jonesbabynumber1

@BabyB19 I’ll be watching my temperature like a hawk hoping it stays high as it’s likely that if it drops when AF is due pregnancy is unlikely and sometimes it dips when implantation so waiting to see what happens. I’m hoping this will stop me from needing to test but I’ll probably be doing both as I’ve already got two FRER from last cycle 😅 sounds like you got lots planned which is good distraction, I’ll be trying to do same. Hoping for lots of baby dust this month for this thread as we haven’t had much yet x

I think I'm ovulating today and BD 3 days ago so praying one of those two times was enough 😳🙈🥰

Meant to say BD today too 🙈

@tbug yes you’ll be covered some people do it once and it does the job I think we put to much pressure to BD everyday.

I think we all just need to go out and drink tequila and have black out drunk sex and it worked for a good few of my friends over the years 😭🤣 @Tbug I agree it's definitely our month for a bit of baby dust this cycle @Jonesbabynumber1 at least one of us!

Hi guys posted on here a few days ago with a question. Someone told me to wait a few weeks to test however just taken a test and got this? Could it be an indent line or is it a faint positive? Hoping for good news as tomorrow would have been my due date if not for MMC.
Best of luck this month ladies I haven’t posted much on this thread but have been reading for a few days! I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻