Ttc after miscarriage thread #8

[Miami81]

Hey. Just starting new thread. Hope the rest of you find it.

Mulder that's good that you've spoken to someone all i got told it could be heavier but i haven't had mine yet.

Mulder
Def best to get checked, especially with weekend coming up. Perfectly valid things to worry about. I mean it's bleeding right? If you were bleeding lots from somewhere else
you would be straight to the hospital.

I have no idea what is going on - had a bit of bleeding today, TMI but had dark spotting in my pants not a lot when I wipe. CD15 and 4 DPO per my OPK. What is with all this bleeding?? Too early for implantation, maybe too late for ovulation bleeding so wtf is it?? Happy Friday everyone

Just had light red/pink spotting this morning too. Maybe my OPK was wrong and I'm ovulating now (CD16)? I am away so don't have my OPK with me and it had down a strong positive at CD11, a lighter one at CD12 and then a negative at CD13 so I was pretty comfortable it had happened. Or can you just get random bleeding to mess with your head??

Sorry swim, no idea what's going on! If Dp is with you maybe just hop him just in case???

AF has shown up which is disappointing but I'm glad the mega six week cycle is over.

Swim could be implantation? ? I do think sometimes it's just random though. I've never had spotting on ovulation.

Unfortunately not, back home so will be DTD just in case

swimchick, sometimes the goings on in there are just so confusing. Whoever thought we'd become so interested in the contents of our knickers! I had spotting yesterday, now nothing. Think I'm around CD23, maybe 8-10 DPO.

Sorry AF got you Bertie.

crazy how are you this morning?

Tell me about it ! Hope yours is implantation emily.

Just been to the toilet, now bright red blood more like AF. Aaaaaggh! I didn't have any scans or anything after MC but bleeding stopped naturally and got AF 27 days later so figured all had just happened naturally. Now I'm worried it hasn't. Off to the shops to buy some pads....the glamour!

Still a big fat "not pregnant' from that smug little wanker of a CB test! So I kicked it across the floor and spent 10 mins cleaning up its shattered body. Then I kicked Henry cos the smug little red bastard was grinning at me. I think I've broken my toe. Today is not a good day, is 10.22 too early to write the day off and go to bed??

Aw crazy I know how you feel. I took a test a few weeks ago and got faint positive as it was early then got a bfp on af due day then 3 days later hello early miscarriage totally gutted and wished I'd never tested what you don't know can't hurt you plus I wonder if id left it till the next day would I my hormones have dropped enough for a negative then I would never have known. I will say though those digital ones have been known to give false negatives so go and buy wine and a bog standard test before you totally right the day off ps Henry hoover is a smug pr#ck so he probably asked for it hope your foot is ok

I don't think the branded tests are necessarily all that TBH. Have you got any Billy Basic ones crazy? I always get huge batches from eBay...

Yes water but they're showing negative too! Might have to come to the realisation that I've maybe had a chemical and not to test a minute before AF is late next month! Gonna test with another FR tonight and if it's negative I'm gonna get well and truly sloshed!
iecgi my foot is very sore and bruised :( but Henry is lying on his side face down in carpet so it's only a matter of time before he suffocates. I hate him.

Oh crazy I'm sending you huge hugs. It's so hard when you want something so badly. Hopefully it's a false reading.

Okayyyy... fr are still showing positive, but faint (middle of the day wee) so don't really know what's going on tbh... guess I'm not out til I bleed

Definitely faint :/

It does your head in doesn't it crazy.

We've all been there!

Crazy i had negative tests for a week after af was due for my first pregnancy everyone told me i wasn't but i had all the symptoms. But also a lot of pain i ended up in a and e because i thought i was having ectopic. But i was pregnant and turned out to be a live baby too. Bodies just like to play tricks on you.

Well either way today my tests are positive so just gonna relax and focus on that! OH is bringing me my favourite vape juice (in 0mg nicotine of course) and a 6 pack of blue becks, so I'm happy!

I don't think it is implantation bleeding sadly swimchick. The spotting had returned and is very much like what I always get for a few days before AF. I just think she's making an early visit this month

Hows everyone doing congratulations crazy enjoy your Becks blue x well I'm madly symptom spotting and driving myself stupid had a negative after the miscarriage and full on ov symptoms and positive lh surge bang on cue as if it never happened so me and hubs DTD 1 week on I'm dizzy and sore boobs just like every single month pregnant or not and I'm stupidly getting my hopes up the reality is gonna kick my a#se if AF arrives on cue ffs why do I do it to myself

crazymy fingers are crossed for you.Hate the cliche but really all any of us can do is live the day, anything could happen tomorrow or next week.
Was looking at the cat earlier thinking how easy she had it, no thoughts other than is the sofa free and is my dinner in the bowl.
The one time she got pregnant,I'm sure she wasn't symptom spotting or trying to work out what cycle day she was on and when to poas.
Anyway ovia says 8 days to OV so we will see what happens this month and how messed up my cycle will be.
Never sure whether pregnancy tests should be praised for being so sensitive or not?
Yes it's great so you can be carefully with alcohol and diet but if they didn't pick up hcg till the levels were higher it might save some heartache?

noroom I wish I hadn't tested tbh! No sign of AF at the moment though so for now all is good... I do have horrendous diarrhoea though (sorry for tmi )

Oh no crazy, me too! I've got a normally iron stomach, nothing gets to me. Had food poisoning about a month ago and was ill for a night. Now this! Sorry you're in such limbo and now ill as well I've been thinking of you lots. How's the foot?

How great is becks blue though!

Hope your weekend with the girls is going well Miami

Interesting musings noroom. I was saying to a friend earlier, I'm so sick of ttc when I should have been 6 months pregnant I caht be arsed testing till I'm ages late in future. But as we have to get bloods done and start meds asap I'm under doctor's orders to find out as soon as I can. Sucks.

Fx for you iecgi. You never know!

Any news tonight emily and swim? And how are you doing water?

I'm tired. Fed 17 people here for lunch today so really hoping this is a bug and I haven't poisoned them all

DH is asleep on the sofa bless him. Life feels full at the moment but a lot of effort.

We're planning a holiday for June. I share all the fears about something going wrong abroad. I'm not worrying about being pregnant on holiday, just miscarrying away from home.

We had a chat last week and after last month we're both in the same place of just assuming it'll happen again. Which I think is actually statistically unlikely. Everyone says the chances of it working out are higher than it not. But I've been pregnant 4 times, 3 times since August. No baby. So you can see why we're not crazy optimistic.

Therefore, fuck it, let's crack on making plans and enjoying the rest of our life.