Ttc after miscarriage thread #8

[Miami81]

Hey. Just starting new thread. Hope the rest of you find it.

emily86 I think I'm already in sync with you. Now we just need everyone else to get in sync.

FX everyone.

AF next Tuesday but not feeling hopeful, have been having cramping and pimples which I have had as AF symptoms for the last 2/3 cycles.

You've put that beautifully WLMcI

emily

I'm about 2 DPO, anyone near that? Tiny bit more spotting this morning.

Morning ladies... I think I'm out for this month, AF is rearing her ugly head in the form of cramps and spotting! Always next month!

harriet and anne yes I've been thinking I've got an unfussy uterus also. Of the 2 months we were properly trying I got pg once and I'm sure that I had a chemical pregnancy the other time. Not sure how they can test for it though...

I'm also laughing at how seriously took contraception in my youth - looks like I didn't need to blegh

Oh crazy for you. Hope it's not too bad. And yes, next month! x

I'm thinking it's most likely gonna be a bad one as it's the first one post MC. Oh well it won't kill me I hope

Oh crazy. Sorry she got you. But just think now you can be a good girl and have proper dates hopefully when you catch next cycle.
I just ate a huge slab of cake. And have a massive spot so fully expect AF either today or tomorrow.

Cake you say? I could eat cake. What sort are you having?

New starts next month for you both. Exciting times ahead

Chocolate homemade cake. Think there is some booze in as well. No point wasting the cals on anything else.

Miami that's what I'm thinking as well, will be like a fresh start after AF. Going to relax tonight, have a vape something other than 0mg liquid and a glass or 5 of lambrini cherry. (Such a classy woman but it's my favourite)

Oh crazy that's not good but fresh start now.

anne think I'm in sync with you ish. I thought i ov sun or mon due to pain so thought i was safe as wanted to wait for af but I was naughty yesterday and cm still looked like ew so now im a bit especially when i get caught first attempt. And from what I've read a short placenta can cause problems but my gp wasn't concerned.

Am having self pity cheese on toast myself was going to have cake but was inspired by another thread.
Am not sure whether I'm pleased or not that the pound shop sell preg tests.Was going to test tomorrow with fmu but caved.Was -ve but will test again in the am to make sure.
Arghh if they cost a fiver I would have waited.
Looks like we might just be going for it after all.
Or maybe just not preventing it and seeing what happens.

Mmmmm cake . I've just had a triple chocolate cookie. But it is alright because I've walked up a big hill today. Cheese on toast is also an excellent choice noroom. It reminds me of my childhood.

MAN I HATE THE TWW. I've had a complete mental turn around through the course of the day, going from being convinced that this month we'll be succesful and it'll lead to my take home baby to being convinced that I'm never going to have a family.

One of my uni friends has just got back from 6 months travelling with her DH and has been in touch saying she'd love a catch up. The rational part of my brain thinks that'll be lovely and it'll be great to hear about her trip. The irrational part is convinced she wants a chat so she can tell me she's pregnant.

Where's the wine?!

Wow you ladies have been busy chatting away. I look away for a minute and have 4 pages to read! Hugs for everyone who is having a rubbish time. I'm 2 weeks post erpc and last 24 hours had serious ovulation symptoms. Only problem is I forgot to test at the weekend to see if I now get a negative post MMC.

Dtd last 2 nights anyway so thinking I should really buy a test to make sure it's negative before we get back to TTC properly. Silly question but would I still ovulate if it wasnt negative?!

And I'm deffo having cheese know toast for tea

Well I'm on.my second bottle of cherry lambrini and I feel A LOT more cheerful now! helps that OH has ordered takeaway dessert too!

Cherry lambrini , love it crazy. Sorry AF arrived .

Seriously jealous of the cheese on toast and cake. I'm now in serious weight loss mode - well day two, so I've probably lost 10 grams .

Anne and fluff, I'm in sync with you. I'm 1 DPO according to OPK (ovulated on CD 11, which is early for me.

In good news, I found out I got a big promotion at work today. Will celebrate with a night out with DH at the weekend

Sounds like a good night Crazy, good work I've never had lambrini, cherry or normal. Might get some!

swim, that's fantastic news! Congratulations! When does your promotion start?

I think I'm 2 or 3 DPO, not completely sure. And exam never really showed this month so it might be a funky cycle. But cervix, twinges and weird spotting make me think it all happened. My first day of LMP was the start of my last mc so not going to get too excited and just going to stay relaxed about it all. Ha! But that's the plan. Ovia says to test in 11 days.

user you can't ov if you're still technically pregnant but I wouldn't worry too much about not having tested. You know your symptoms and I've ovulated straight after mcs so I'd assume that's what's happening

Testing again today noroom?

emily the 2WW sucks. It was the thing I was most chippy about after MMC. Getting back on that crappy horse. Waiting. Wondering. Trying not to do anything bad just in case. Trying not to symptom spot. I'm sure your friend just wants to catch up. But even if it is a baby bomb, you can handle it Think how strong you are and what you've been through. If it happens, just smile and nod and then get home and punch a pillow of whatever would help. It's only happened to me once and it was thankfully by text.

A shock pregnancy, she doesn't seem very happy and she's now cancelled her wedding because of it Also weird that we were pregnant at the same time, and I saw her a couple of weeks after MMC but she wasn't telling anyone prescan.

Anyway, hope you're doing okay today

Thanks Anne, not for a month or so, so I've only been able to tell DH just now, so it's nice to be able to share some good news after a shitty start to the year. Hopefully a sign of good things to come.....

emily, I hope you get on ok with the catch up. If it is what you think, you will do fine. Does she know got situation? You are incredibly strong and even if you get upset, your friend will know you're happy for her

• your situation

Thanks for the pep talk ladies. You're right, I can and will deal with more baby bombs. She doesn't know about the most recent miscarriage as it happened whilst she's been away. And to be fair to her, she has been TTC for 18 months and has severe endometriosis so I would actually be thrilled for her if she is pregnant because otherwise her plan was to start IVF once she got back from travelling.

Great news on the promotion swimchick!

Yes officially negetive as of this morning.
Yes poor dp is not going to no what has hit him.
Have started taking folic acid again just in case.
But am expecting nothing this month.
Congratulations on the promotion swim
Have signed up to Ovia just to try and get an idea of what's going on.And mainly to stop the should I test now,tomorrow,a week next Thursday that I had last time because I have a memory like a sieve.

I'm pukey all of a sudden at 10dpo. Weird. Nine of my others have been like this, so I'm not sure whether to get excited or just blame the weird dinner DH made last night!

NONE. I've only been pregnant three times, not nine!

Anne I don't like wine as it's always too dry, even the sweet stuff so cherry/peach lambrini is a sweeter alternative for me. Well AF has disappeared again now and don't know what to think :/ only had slight spotting which in my overactive imagination could be breakthrough bleeding :( aaargh still negative tests though! I'm so confused! Hoping the MC last month hasn't screwed my cycles up!